She is always nocking at my door, calling me realy early in the morning, she won't take care of her kids, always wants me to watch her kids so that she can go out, The father left her, while she was 9 months pregnate with their 4th child. I just realy feel bad for her being alone with 4 kids.And I don't know how to say No, when she lives right next to me. If I don't answer the phone, she will be banging on my door. Help, I don't wanna hurt her feelings.
2007-03-09 15:07:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would have a good talk with her, and be honest, but be firm Tell her you don't mind helping , but you can't be there all the time for her. After all, she may not even realise she is imposing on your friendship. Maybe you could suggest she seek help from a welfare agency.
2007-03-09 16:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would hide my car so she won't know you are home and turn the ringer off on the phone and don't answer the door...she will get the hint sooner or later, or you could just bit the bullet and tell her "no"....that you have a life other than taking care of her. I know its hard to do and hard to deal with...I have found that the car and phone thing works better...hope it works out for you.
2007-03-09 23:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by extraneouscropduster 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps u might consider moving house u r way too kind and that women knows she can take advantage of u. The situation wont change unless u stand up to her.
2007-03-10 00:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why are you worried about hurting her feelings?? from what you have said it sounds like she sure could careless about your feelings
i would just talk to her and let her know how you feel and what you think
2007-03-09 23:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its a big problem
dont hurt her feelings
2007-03-09 23:20:55 · answer #5 · answered by wats good people 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
try calling the police or somebody who will help you.
2007-03-09 23:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by singledad 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋
you could always have her killed its more poplar than you mite think...
2007-03-10 00:01:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
tell them to F*** off
2007-03-09 23:15:26 · answer #8 · answered by Yvonne 3 · 0⤊ 5⤋