2007-03-09 07:15:44 · 19 answers · asked by c12step 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
am 16 rite now n i have been with my bf for 9 months (yea i know am just a lil girl dreaming but i was just wondering)
2007-03-09 07:21:36 · update #1
am 16 rite now n i have been with my bf for 9 months..he is 19 now and he will be getting his place in a little (yea i know am just a lil girl dreaming but i was just wondering)
2007-03-09 07:33:45 · update #2
After you turn 18, have a job and can support yourself. Don't be in such a hurry. You've been living in a fantasy world at home. Real life and the real world won't be nearly as pleasant.
2007-03-09 07:18:46 · answer #1 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion, try living on your own before moving in with him. You will learn so much about yourself and how you want to live. Moving in with a significant other is very hard, I just moved in with my finace and we have been together 7 years (since I was 16) I moved out of my parents house at 19 and lived on my own (with other roommates) for the past several years. It was a nice transition because My finace could stay the night at my place or if we were fighting he could go home! haha. Just be prepared to have some fights when you move in together!! And really build your savings up becasue most of it for us at least was about money
2007-03-09 07:21:48 · answer #2 · answered by O'Brien/Ewing Wedding 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead of going from Mom & Dad to the boyfriend, why not be a little independant and try it out on your own first. I'd say everyone is an individual, so when your ready, you'll know. Also, maybe you should try the thought of marriage before moving in, it's okay to have some morals!
2007-03-09 07:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by Green eyed girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in your parents home, get an education and don't worry about moving out to be with a boyfriend, especially one you have only "been with" for 9 months. Life is a long time, don't mess it up now......there will be plenty of time for being on your own later! Good luck!
2007-03-09 14:59:52 · answer #4 · answered by itsjustme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
50.
By then, you'll have an education, be too old to get knocked up and abandoned, and be able to support yourself when he won't marry you.
You might even inherit your parents' house and not have to move.
Don't do it, unless you can support yourself, and won't lose your home/stuff when he tires of you.
Don't bring another disposable child into the world.
Better idea? Go to college, get a GIRL roommate, and date your boyfriend. Enjoy your SINGLE life!
When you both have an education, and money saved in the bank, and know you get along, get married.
It might last if you take your time, and learn to deal with life's ups and downs.ALONE!
2007-03-09 07:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Best age or the age you are legally allowed to?
Legally allowed depends on the age of consent in your state.
Best age would be after you finish H.S. and have a plan for your future that may or may not include your BF.
2007-03-09 07:48:36 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're of legal age (usually 18 in all but about four states) and, most importantly, you are capable of supporting yourself. If you're dependent on your boyfriend having a job you're essentially shooting yourself in the foot.
2007-03-09 07:22:02 · answer #7 · answered by pianofritz2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No time! It's better for you to live on your own, find out who YOU really are and what you really want first! You are going to go from your parents telling you what to do, to having to compromise what you what to do with what he wants to do. How will you ever find out what YOU want to do and who YOU really are??? You have plenty of time to shack up later in life! Have fun and enjoy yourself without limits!!
2007-03-09 07:22:29 · answer #8 · answered by wish I were 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats easy.As soon as your b/f has a job, transportation, a place of his own and you have your own transportation and job, and he has made you his wife instead of a shack up whore.That way it'll be less likely that you'll end up as a welfare mom.
2007-03-09 07:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There technically is no "best age".....but i supposed for starters, it would legally be 18. after that, it's up to the couple's level of maturity, whether or not they could support themselves with limited help from their parents.......
2007-03-09 07:21:12 · answer #10 · answered by rockingballerina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋