Family - March 2007

i got to be honest i do,my fella left me and our baby 7 years ago for a younger model,they got married in 6 months of knowing each other,she bled him dry(money wise)then dumped him.lol

2007-03-08 21:42:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have joint family with aunt living with us from last 10 or 12 yrs . Trust me she has made my life like hell ..i am facing mental torture since i was a kid .she does lot of things to bother me and my parents like using loudspeakers early in the morning . throwing water from upper portion using bad words for us ,bringing joint family;s money into her parents . etc etc .. And i am seeing it from number of years and my parents did nothing to stop her because they know if they try 2 stop her she may launch false complaint or blackmail us with legal help ..(as law always favour woman no matter who is wrong) ..But now i am really sick from it . what should i do ? is their any way to get rid from her . ..because when i was kid and it was my age of enjoyment i was too much worried about family problems created by her .. ..

2007-03-08 21:40:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

can somebody please tell me what the means and what it entails? the situation is that 2 people who have a son are seperated and now the mother of the child has remarried. does the father have to agree to this or not and what rights would the husband of the childs mother have over the child?

thanks!

2007-03-08 21:36:57 · 10 answers · asked by clareydairy 3

i was only fifteen when my nephew was born. and my sister is drugs addicted. they live in california, while i live in indiana, and i thought my nephew was already adopted by some parents. then my grandma from california told me that we can still fight before my nephew turned 5 years old, and hes 4 now his bday is in dec. so i need to get it started asap

so since im 20 now, and i want to get him, so what is the possiblities? what do i need to do?

and remember we live different state, so do i have to move calif to get him or what? just tell me what should i do from first step, please help!

2007-03-08 20:59:05 · 3 answers · asked by queen 1

2007-03-08 20:42:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

when i get the kids up i do it has quietly as pos cuz i no if she gets up there will be a argument or something i ve tried waking her up gently but 9 times out of 10 this dont work she use to go to anger managment but stoped going any sirgestions ?????

2007-03-08 20:34:47 · 18 answers · asked by pleb m 1

my brother got married in 2005 and in october 2006 he got a baby boy ... My Sister in law is working ,
My mom is sick she is having daibeties, hypertension, cervical, forzen shoulders....she cannot take of the baby , baby as my nature are too demanding . She cannot do it ..... but my brother and his wife refuse to understand my momz problem . so please suggest me what my mom should do . Being tied to the house with a crying baby is driving my daibetic and hypertensed mom crazy ...........so please suggest me some way methods in which i can help her . i am quiet far for my mom i mean....... in another country..she cries a lot on phone every time i call her ..........
My SIL refuses to quit work.........so please help me
Thanx for ur serious replies

2007-03-08 20:22:27 · 11 answers · asked by may_minu 3

i am older than my brother- i am 16 and he is 13. My brother is a dancer and recently has been in a competition and has won alot of prizes. i am SO proud of him but my grades in school have been slacking. Alot of the attention has gone to him, as in costumes, practices etc and it feels as if i have been left on the sidelines.. conciously im not jealous but im wondering if subconciously i am.. because i have also been feeling a bit depressed and alot of things in my life have gone wrong lately and im wondering if it is because of his acheivements and i have not acheived much at all.. HELP!

2007-03-08 19:42:06 · 7 answers · asked by Cheerios17 2

I was adopted at 12 days old. I am now 32, I don't meet many people at all that are adopted. If you were adopted, I want to know what you hate most about it. I hope I posted this in the right spot.

2007-03-08 19:41:11 · 2 answers · asked by soggybottomscout_25 4

Its just about 24 hours since my dad passed and I seriously keep thinking im gonna wake up at any minute. I'm not telling myself its just a dream its just a dream I actually feel it is. And it didn't just come out of nowhere, this was the third time he got cancer in 3 years and knew he would only have 6 months tops as of a week after thanksgiving. We knew about a week ago it would be sometime this week so I've had some time to think about it. We were like brothers in a way, you know very very close but for some reason I haven't been able to shed a tear except for a couple times by myself earlier in the week even though im extremely upset. We only had 23 years toghter and I know thats longer than alot of people had but I still feel robbed for me, my dad (50) and the rest of my family.About to run out of room for writing. Sorry im not tring to ***** about my life but I had to get some things off my chest and I dont really talk to my family about this stuff although I know I should.

2007-03-08 19:21:26 · 12 answers · asked by Will W 4

im 14 and i ran into my parents room a like 6 this smorning and my parents were.... and they were aboe the covers and everything

and i was like OMG!!! EWWW

and they didnt see me but i think that was the grosses thing i have ever seen

has anything like this ever happened to you?

2007-03-08 18:55:44 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm scared i will say something wrong...it's to the point that i sit there and stay quiet... what do you say/do?

2007-03-08 18:30:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-08 18:28:00 · 22 answers · asked by BUJU 1

Both father and mother have the custody of the child.

2007-03-08 18:12:33 · 7 answers · asked by a sister 1

I came across a question she asked about what she should do when I yell at her for no reason. My heart was breaking with each comment I read. Yelling to her is ANYTHING above a "nice" conversation. I don't know what to do. The advice people gave her borke my heart because I don't yell at her and if I raise my voice in the slightest she accuses me of yelling. Trust me there is normally a reason. Failing classes on a regular basis. She lost a text book and I asked her why she had not told me sooner...her response..."what are you going to do pull it out of your butt." My voice may have been a little raised when I told her she was being very disrespectful. She wants to stay the night at a friends house, we tell her no because she is failing and we get accused of ruining everything. I offered to pay her $10 a week to clean two bathrooms and take out all the garbage. She does absolutly nothing around the house...I get frustrated...raise my voice...and get accused of yelling...for no reason.

2007-03-08 18:04:55 · 7 answers · asked by raisingmy3kids 1

Has anyone ever done something wrong either as a adult or child that stayed with you for years before you told anyone-Mine was when i was 8 i stole a pound from my dad he worked very hard for his money - i felt quilty for 20 years before i told him what i had done- i know it seems small but to me i let my dad down badly

2007-03-08 18:02:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister seem to be talking to everyone but me about my personal life. what should I do?

Two weeks ago they posted a question on here called My sister is living with some one ... what should i do?
They have yet to talk to me about it and I find it rude that they think it is perfectly to ok to ask for advise from people they don't know yet they refuse to confront me about it.

I am 21 years old andcurrently living with my Fiance . We have the date set and venues reserved yet they don't like my Fiance Marc and refuses to tell me about it. They act a little weird but they never told me they hated him or that they wanted nothing to do with him.... What should I do? Just ignore them ?

2007-03-08 18:00:10 · 7 answers · asked by Branwen 2

all my life i saw my family drink and had messsed themselves up BIG time..they would mess up the family parties by getting in fights or getting arrested!! or just acting plain stpuid!! and i promised myself i would never drink!! but now im turning 21 and i would like to try a margarita(never had one) would that make me a hippocrite?? ..if i drank a margarita?? on my bday?

2007-03-08 17:43:49 · 33 answers · asked by **PrinCess** 2

My mom has been gone since she left for work and me and my siblings left for school. I came home with my brother, but left around six-ish to eat dinner with my father. I got back home at nine and made note that my mom wasn't home. This was absurd, since she gets off work at six, but maybe she was out with her boyfriend, so I didn't think about it.
Come midnight, I'm the only one awake and my mom has yet to answer my 11 phone calls. I don't think its appropriate to call her boyfriend this late either.

What do I do now? Her car is gone- she's a recovering alcoholic so I'm not worried about her drinking but it just recently snowed ~2 feet and the roads are horrible, and she always answers her phone, no matter how inane the time is. I don't think she's sleeping at the boyfriends because she has work tomorrow and his house is about fifty minutes out of her way. I know I can't sleep until I get a bit of reassurance.

I'm really scared and I don't know if I should be or not. What do I do?

2007-03-08 17:34:26 · 13 answers · asked by neko_kijo 1

ive been in orange county for almost two years been goin to school and stuff. its cool bein out here but i miss my family and friends and the only goof things i get from here are nie weather and the beach....what would you do if you really missed your family for the longest time and wanted to move back.

2007-03-08 17:29:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I lost contact with my real mother at the age of five. With no fault of my own. I have tried for years to get over the loss and close that chapter in my life. I caleed her three years ago and told her that she had a grandaughter and she sounded so excited and we has set up a meeting place for three days later. And the day that we were supposed to met for the first time since I was five, she called me and told me that something had come up and she wanted nothing to do with me or my family because Iwas dead to her after she left. What can I do to get over the heart ache. I have a beautiful child that my step mother loves and she has always considered me as her flesh and blood and I am thankful that she is in my life. She ismy mother as far as I am concerned. My heart still hurts after all these years. Please give me advice on ehat to do. Thank you.....

2007-03-08 17:23:23 · 12 answers · asked by tide chic 2

I was just wondering if anyone had an idea about what to do, to sorta not let my brother get to me. Well for starters, he's uh.........hmmmmmmmm...... how do you say.............proud of himself? like, he's up on a high horse, and he aaaaiiin't comin' down for nobody, unless he so pleases that is. He says he's the mature one and everyone looks up to him, he's 17 and he claims he's gonna marry his girlfriend of 1 month or so, that lives on the otherside of the country. I have to stay up every night because one of his internet friends has issues. I have to share a room with him. He says everyone looks up to him and that he takes everyone under his wing, when really, he's not 'qualified' to take on such a job. He says he's everything he's not. What do I do? I don't hate him, but I just want a way to be able to block my anger towards him away, because I know one day he'll change, and I don't want to hate him so much before then.

2007-03-08 16:55:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Bleeding, and 3 teeth punched out. 8 year old boy?

2007-03-08 16:39:43 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need to get a car..I know theres programs out there to help people get a car.. but i just dont know where to find them..

2007-03-08 16:35:16 · 4 answers · asked by Heather O 2

2007-03-08 16:34:53 · 4 answers · asked by freekin 5

She was never like this until she met this boy and since then she has gotten into trouble at school - 4 detentions in 7 weeks. Until this she was never in any trouble at all. We have forbidden her to see him and while she claims to have broken up with him she has lied to us repeatedly about this. We have tried turning off her cell phone, grounding her and she still manages to contact him. She will use her friends to help her sneak around and lie to us. When she gets caught in her lies she gets very angry at the person who catches her and strongly insists that they have broken up. They have not we have so much proof and she lies her way through all of it. She lies to her friends her co-workers, us and teachers. This is getting out of control and only getting worse. How do we break her of this compulsive lying and how do we get this boy out of her life if she is not willing to do it herself?

2007-03-08 16:04:48 · 6 answers · asked by Lilacs 2

Okay so on tuesday I convinced my parents to let me skip skool with no good reason.. I just wanted to stay home. On sat. I have a project to present... I need the whole day tommorow to work on it and practice. How do I convince my parents to let me go to my friends house tommorow to practice? They're parents are letting them stay home and prepare.... Help?? Any suggestions..
P,S: I already ditched school once this week...

2007-03-08 16:00:49 · 6 answers · asked by maria m 1

My brother is a drug addict and has been for the past 11 years. He will always be a nobody and worthless. He steals from my entire family, has no job because he's lazy, lives with my grandma, and has my poor grandma on S.S. buy him drugs, food, and cigarettes. My mom still loves him and she said when she dies, she will give him money, and he will spend it all in one day on drugs. While, I will spend it on college and invest it. I want him dead, I always have been, my happiest time was when he was in jail. Everyone always tries to bail him out, and the first chance I get, I will put him back in jail forever. I seriously hate him, and I can't stand to hear his name. I get so mad at my mom everytime she mentions him and I won't talk to her. I work so hard and she treats us the same. I just want him to be locked up for life until he dies because he causes the family so much problems. My dad even hates him and won't let him in our house.

2007-03-08 15:58:29 · 7 answers · asked by *~*~*~* 4

2007-03-08 15:57:20 · 6 answers · asked by angel 1

2007-03-08 15:35:51 · 3 answers · asked by Lisa 4