My mom has been gone since she left for work and me and my siblings left for school. I came home with my brother, but left around six-ish to eat dinner with my father. I got back home at nine and made note that my mom wasn't home. This was absurd, since she gets off work at six, but maybe she was out with her boyfriend, so I didn't think about it.
Come midnight, I'm the only one awake and my mom has yet to answer my 11 phone calls. I don't think its appropriate to call her boyfriend this late either.
What do I do now? Her car is gone- she's a recovering alcoholic so I'm not worried about her drinking but it just recently snowed ~2 feet and the roads are horrible, and she always answers her phone, no matter how inane the time is. I don't think she's sleeping at the boyfriends because she has work tomorrow and his house is about fifty minutes out of her way. I know I can't sleep until I get a bit of reassurance.
I'm really scared and I don't know if I should be or not. What do I do?
2007-03-08 17:34:26 · 13 answers · asked by neko_kijo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Call her boyfriend to find out if he has seen her. Maybe he can help you. Then call your dad to come stay with you until your mom gets home.
2007-03-08 17:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care if it is 4am, you should call her boyfriend! If he really cares about you all, he won't mind. Plus, there is certainly a chance she is there, or maybe he has at least heard from her. Also, you need to call your father and then consider calling the police. Don't be embarrassed about it. She could be hurt somewhere or in a hospital (or even jail).
I know what it is like to not hear someone and then be horribly worried about where that person is. It can be pretty scary, but just make the appropriate phone calls, and you will eventually find out where she is.
2007-03-09 03:55:40 · answer #2 · answered by iloveeeyore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First try her cell one more time if she still doesnt pick up then call her boyfriend. No matter how late it is he should be more than willing to help. Make sure you explain the situation to him and that you're really worried. If that doesn't work call your dad and have him stay with you and your siblings until your mom does show up.Then i suggest calling the police if all else fails. Don't panick my mom has done this to me also but she was fine. Just try wat I suggested you'll get a hold of her.
2007-03-09 01:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by cutet88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you ? I would be scared to if i were you i am a mother with a son who by the way is sleeping. Maybe you should call the police your mom has been gone a long time.
2007-03-09 01:44:28 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your dad and see if he can come over and help you. If he can't, call the police and tell them your concerns. If your mom does this often, it is probably not a safe environment for you to live in.
She should not be staying the night with her boyfriend, leaving her children at home. She needs to figure out her priorities. Tell your dad what is going on. If he is not concerned, try talking to your school counselor.
2007-03-09 01:40:03 · answer #5 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hrm, I worry about things like this too when it happenned to me. Just wait and hope for the best. If she isn't back by tommorrow, call her work place and all her friends and your relatives and then call the police if there is no luck. Be strong and I hope for the best for you. LOL by the way you look kind of like a classmate of mine, AND MAYBE YOU ARE O_O!
2007-03-09 01:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should call her boyfriend just to make sure. Call ur dad as well. Calm down, everything's hopefully alright. Wait till the morning and see what happends. GOOD LUCK Dear
2007-03-09 03:18:29 · answer #7 · answered by fldrod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it the first time your mom didn't go home till very late.. better i suggest you to call her close friends, families or someone that you guest she will visit...yeah i know it's in the middle of the night but it was worrying a lot.. good luck baby.. hope she is just fine
2007-03-09 01:51:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
id call her boyfriend's anyways, tell him your worried, maybe if he called her, she'd answer?if you get really worried, call your dad, maybe he could help?if shes any kind of mom shed at least let you know shes OK,call her boyfriend, call her over and over again,blow her phone up, call your dad, i hope everything is OK,you take care,and try not to worry to much, god bless you Hun, and good luck
2007-03-09 01:46:52 · answer #9 · answered by debbie d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the boyfriends so what the time or if you wake him. when your mom gets home you need to let her know how worried you were never to do that again. (it is reason to worry)
2007-03-09 04:50:35 · answer #10 · answered by monetrae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋