Family - March 2007

Does anyone know how to write a will/whom I could talk with? I am unmarried, but have 2 young boys. (Neither father is around.) I was told to write a Will so that my sons can be taken care of whom I choose. Anyone?

2007-03-12 09:31:23 · 7 answers · asked by chrissy x 2

I am starting a daycare and don't know where to put the sleeping room. Should I put it in two small rooms upstairs or in the one room downstairs in the back of the house?

2007-03-12 09:22:42 · 11 answers · asked by stc123 1

I want to clear my name and my appearence in saying that I have no birth defects and I am not gay for that matter - If Chica B is spreading her lies about you stand up and be heard - CHICA B MUST BE STOPPED!

and how can I get a coffee stain out of my carpet?

2007-03-12 09:01:19 · 4 answers · asked by ♪♫♪Ginny♪♫♪ 5

The affair happened along time ago and i just found out. My wifes lover had us over for dinner, took us out ect. All that stop when the affair started and lasted For 18 months,The second affair same thing, but lasted a very short time becouse she got pregnant bye him. She never told me to the guilt go to much and she asked For my fogiveness and told me everything.

2007-03-12 09:00:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents have been divorced since i was 4 and now im in high school. sometimes my dad will ask me to call him after school and i always forget. however, my mom will call me within 15 minutes of me getting home after school every day. should i be more responisble or should he initiate the calls?

2007-03-12 08:55:22 · 17 answers · asked by seldogg10 2

And how often do you visit them?

2007-03-12 08:37:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughters are 9 and 6 years old. They fight more than they get along. My older daughter doesn't act as though she loves her sister. She doesn't look out for her like my sisters did for me when I was a kid. Isn't that what big sisters are supposed to do? She is moody and never wants to be bothered by her little sister. Now my youngest is no picnic...lol. She can be obnoxious and loud, but in a playful sort of way. They both just have such different personalities that they often seem to clash. I want them to be close and to be friends. I have two older sisters and growing up it was us against them(the parents). My girls don't seem to have that bond....they can't wait to tattle and get the other in trouble. Am I doing something wrong? How can I help them become closer???

2007-03-12 08:34:15 · 3 answers · asked by Linnygirl 5

Okay so my ex picked up our son friday night, he decided to go to work saturday instead of practicing his visitaion. I called and found this out told the inlaws i would be picking my son up. I was told No. I also have sole custody. When i got their my inlaws were screaming and yelling in front of my child. It smelt as if my farther inlaw was drunk. My mother inlaw grabbed my farther inlaw by the shirt trying to pull him in the house and he turned around a swung at her with his fist to hit her. All the while my son was standing in between the two of them. I grabbed my son and called 911 when this happend. I am not sure if i can file a restrianing order or not. Is this child endangerment or neglect?

2007-03-12 08:33:08 · 13 answers · asked by Army Love 2

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2007-03-12 08:29:22 · 7 answers · asked by R M 1

I am taking our boys on a trip to my home land this summer and will be gone for 8 weeks. I am worried that our littlest will forget his father when we are gone he will be 17 months at the time we leave. I guess what i'm asking is how long is a childs memory at that age

2007-03-12 08:05:16 · 9 answers · asked by BeBu 3

we are trying to plan our oldest son's bday (he'll be 5). My husband is stuck on having it at a place that will handle everything. But it is a little costy and they only allow us to be there for 2 hours. I, on the other hand, want to have it at the local park. It is A LOT cheaper and the kids will enjoy themselves longer then 2 hours.

how do I convince him to have it at the park?

2007-03-12 08:03:08 · 27 answers · asked by Jacinda 2

ok well my sister and I have been going back and forth because of this...I think my sister in law's baby boy ( my sister's husband's sister's baby) would be my nephew too. but my sister says no only her nephew. is there some rule or something about like the relationship I have to other people? thanks for settling our argument.

2007-03-12 08:02:17 · 18 answers · asked by Esther 2

I'm sixteen and have recently started having sex. My mom always told me to tell her when i did, but how do i tell her?

2007-03-12 08:01:18 · 39 answers · asked by girly girl 2

See the thing is she is very manipultive, and controlling, I need some ideas on how to do something to her or her stuff, with out actually hurting her physically. She does stuff to me all the time, and I am too nice I guess cause I cannot think of anything to get her back.

2007-03-12 08:00:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-12 07:56:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 32
an old lonely grey man...

my wife & 16 yr old child argue all the time...about evrything and anything...whenever they get a chance, they grab it. and if i try to jump in or change the subject they SCREAM at me. so i thought it was safer to stop that.

i work 12 hours a day at a drama school, which also includes screaming, unnecesarry emotional crying from teenagers and rivalry between teachers...i think thats enough for a guy to go through evry day & im exhausted by the tiime i come home...but when i do....it starts again... a house of screaming women and a colicy 3 m baby...

so...QUESTION: how to stop this arguin...tried to speak to them...but nothin works...

2007-03-12 07:52:38 · 80 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you are looking for your father and know nothing of him where can you go?
If you are looking for like your dad is there a way to run your dna against like a nation criminal dna. See from what I hear he did time so that is my only option to get a clue who he is because my mom don't know who he is.... what should or can I do?????

2007-03-12 07:48:19 · 3 answers · asked by whatstha'bizness 3

I love to draw and get really really mad when my mum sends ppl my bad drawings when she PROMISED and SWORE she wouldn't!! She sends of all my drawings that I hate to her friends who are ARTISTS! and she promise me she wouldn't!!!!!!! It sucks know everyone thinks I can't draw!!!!!!

WHAT can I do???????

2007-03-12 07:45:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-12 07:44:45 · 8 answers · asked by TYLER 2

My daughters father is very screwed up.

I WAS WONDERING IF ANYONE KNOWS WHAT TYPE OF DAMAGE COULD HE HAVE DONE to her emotionaly?

My daughter was touched by her dad one time. It was very bad for her. She woke up and found him rubbing her private areas. It has not ever happened again, and we are not with him. He has supervised visitation thru his sister. Her theripist says him being around her causes her more damage emotionaly. She gets mad at the idea of not being with him. Her theripist says she may have what is called trauma bond. She is now 13, and has seen him hit me and knows that she is not the only one he did this too. I want visitations stopped. The courts don't agree. I hope this gets resolved soon because I have a young daughter and son he is around also.
Please any advise that can help!!!!!!

2007-03-12 07:42:48 · 12 answers · asked by renae 2

My friends mother in law is just 7 years elder to him, but she is very sexy , looks very young. To her bad luck, she was married to his late father in law, but couldn't had sex even for a single time. Don't you think my friend is helping his mother in law.

2007-03-12 07:32:43 · 8 answers · asked by larry G 2

i'm not too syked about my cousins moving in with us. i'm 17 and there are a lot of kids in my family already ( 16 to be exact, ages 10 mo. and 6-19). i know they're family and about to be orphans (my aunts a single mom who's dying of cancer). but i know that when mom and dad are working, i'm gonna be the babysitter to two more kids. little kids too. Jonah is 3 and Zoe is 2. it's gonna happen no matter what i think or say, so how can i get myself more excited about their arrival?

2007-03-12 07:32:24 · 5 answers · asked by I'm 17 and ME!!!!!! 1

I am only 19 years old and just lost my dad, my aunt his sister is fighting me for his ashes. My parents divorced when I was 3 years old . Mom is alive. Does my aunt have a right to take me to court on this. She also is fighting me on his possessions. Dad did not pay child support after divorce. He was always sorry . Dad had a lot of Indian Art Collectibles and thousands of dollars in tools . We do not know what else yet. Does my aunt have the right to fight on either issue.???

2007-03-12 07:28:43 · 10 answers · asked by ssmithblueskies 2

I'm 19 years old, currently in university. I drive at least 40 minutes a day to get to school/work. How do I convince my very protective parent that it's a good thing for me to move out? I know this is a pretty broad question considering you all don't know every part of the situation...

2007-03-12 07:22:58 · 9 answers · asked by patilli2 2

they are so overprotective!!!
how can i convince them that i am responsible enough to have one?

2007-03-12 07:21:58 · 6 answers · asked by walks with goats 2

Summary: Brought up in household with drug addicted parents. As the eldest child, I spent most of my childhood and teen years taking care of my sisters and everything else. When I left for college, there was a backlash from my sisters. When they did not have a place to go, I moved out of the dorms and took three months off from school to get an apartment. Today, they are both doing pretty well. One has a great job and her own apartment with her two daughters and boyfriend. The other is heading to a top medical school with her boyfriend. I've always been there for them. The only thing I ever wanted from them is to get the same loyalty they show their boyfriends & friends. My sisters go out of their way to do things with them, spend time with them, and help them out.
Anyway, I went through a major depression point. I tried to tell my family what I was going through. They weren't there. They were too busy,etc. My sister tells me today that 'u got everyone kinda scared to talk to u'. wth

2007-03-12 07:10:38 · 13 answers · asked by LuvsMochaCoffee 2

I moved to FL about 10y ago from PA where my parents, grandparents and other family live. When i left, my grandparents were full of life and very healthy. Since then, my great uncle (whom i think of as a father) has suffered a stroke, and the health of my grandparents, now in their 80's is deteriorating. Being in Florida, I feel like I am letting down my family by not being there to help take care of them. Although my grandmother/grandfather will sometimes say something like "I wish you were closer", they vocalized their understanding that I am starting a new life in FL. I have a wonderful new son (almost 7mo) who is the joy of my life and although he makes me very happy, I almost feel guilty that I am enjoying life/family without my parents/grandparents, ect. How can I find peace within myself. Just yesterday, I felt a sense of panic about their safety (or because of my own inability to be near them). How can i overcome these feelings? I love FL but I miss them so much.

2007-03-12 07:09:53 · 2 answers · asked by Bumbo 3

I moved here on a Friday and his ex died on Sat. His family knew she was a bad mom and wife but got to know and like her over their 15 years. They didn't get to say bye to her or go to the funeral. But here I am in the middle of it all. His sister-in-law apologized for blowong me off in the beginning, she said she liked Shelly. But nobody includes me by calling or inviting me to go along with them when my fiance is at work. Should I just wait it out or what?

2007-03-12 07:09:25 · 7 answers · asked by natsuko1 3

My mother is driving me crazy! I am 6 months PG/ with 2 children. She comes over and trys to help. Well, her help leads into a war! I am stressed out and cried out! Today was it for me. I sent her home. I feel she doesnt listen and has no communication skills. She is very frustrating to talk to. She has been single for about 30 yrs and only has herself to deal with. Thats why she doesnt understand communication. She does what she wants and doesnt listen when I try to explain simple tasks like the baby food in the microwave, or dont leave the baby in the high chair by himself (she'll walk away), she cant take criticism and will fight for hours. I tell her dont talk with her mouth full and she still does. To me its not lady like. There is just too much! Has anyone else had this experience. My mother was born in another country and I pretty much handle all her bills, I write her checks out, ablance her checkbook, make DR. appts....etc. BUT no more.
She has STREESED me out.

2007-03-12 06:56:49 · 10 answers · asked by Mammamia3 4

My son is 18 almost 19. hes going to school but cant afford to get a place so he either stays with His dad or with me. we used to be so close but latley he prefers to stay with his father all of the time. he gets his own room there, and I have two outher toddler children plus my 12 year old and I think they bother him but, they are his siblings. at his dads my 12 year old has a different room and he pretty much gets the whole downstairs to himself. I cant afford A big house like my ex husband. I miss my son comming around,. I feel like somehow family isnt as important to him. I feel like we are growing appart. Im not trying to controll him but Ild like to see him more than once a week.
how do I deal with empty nest syndrome???

2007-03-12 06:56:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous