My Mom And Dad Might Divorce What Do I do?

Answer 1

aww little one there is nothing you can do. It's not your place to try to fix it. Just know no matter what, it's not your fault. At best you can communicate your concern and that your upset but the outcome may still be divorce.

Answer 2

You are saying that your Mom and dad might get a Divorce and you want to know what to do? You do not say why, you believe they are divorcing, but, I would assume that as a couple, they are having problems between them. So, the only thing you can do, is to have a Family conference and ask them point blank, if they are getting a Divorce, and if it's concerning you, to tell you so, if it is not your fault, you would not feel bad if they did Divorced because actually as a couple the kids do not have any say-so, in their affairs. I hope it is not going to happen, because as it is you are feeling bad about it, so, can you imagine how you will feel if it did happen.

Answer 3

There is really nothing you can do. They are grown up people who are admitting that their union isn't working out or making them happy. What they need to do, is to make sure that you, (and any siblings you have) are happy, taken care of, and healthy.

A marriage is between two people, and it is better sometimes that they live apart if they are always fighting. They can grow into better people if they are apart.

If this is too painful for you, SPEAK UP! Let it be known you need to know if you will have support, if they will be there to listen to encourage, and just because it is important for you to know what will happen to the living situation.

You need a stable and steady foundation. Best wishes to you and your family. They will still be your family no matter what, it is just a different living situation.

Answer 4

Just hope for the best. I am fortunate to be the son of one of very few couples who not only got back together after their divorce, but have been happily marriede ever since, so I know that if your parents really love each other they'll get back together even if they are seperated for awhile. If not, then it's for the best that they go their seperate ways.The only thing you can do is not to blame yourself for it; if anything is to be done to save your marriage then your parents are going to have to be the ones who do it, because if they stay together for the sake of anyone else but themselves they'll just end up being miserable.

Answer 5

Understand that it has NOTHING to do with you. By that I mean it isn't your fault, nothing you can say or do will make the situation change. I'm sure both your parents love you and want the best for you. They just can't live with each other anymore. Try not to let yourself be put in the middle between them.

Answer 6

It isn't your fault that they are getting a divorce. In the long run you might be happier because they won't be fighting anymore.

Answer 7

Talk to them about your concerns and feelings and arrangements to see whichever parent won't have residence. Adult relationships often break down and although it's not the children's fault they suffer the consequences. I hope they can be civilized for your sake and you all find better ways of living in your different family situation.

Answer 8

we shouldn't get into adults issues ...only they know that they're not happy...as long as you have a relationship with both everything will be fine...i find a lot kids being so selfish about a divorce situation.....and that makes parents stay unhappily together....so don't think about only your self...think about your parents being happy too....Never tell a parent what to do.....enjoy your own life and let them take care of their situation ....peace

Answer 9

There isn't really much you can do, except talk to them and tell them how you feel. Unforturnately, it may not do much good. This is something that is between the two of them.

Answer 10

there's nothing really that you can do. this is something that's just for them. maybe you should probably not get in the way and have them solve their problem.