Family - February 2007

is going to wear a skin tight black dress with a plunging neckline to my friends wedding. It is a wedding on the beach. I think that it is innapropriate but my other friend tells me i'm just being stupid. Should i say something to my friend or her stepmom or am i really just being stupid?

p.s- my friends step mom is really nice and isn't a bitchy stereo type stepmom...

2007-02-05 08:59:10 · 11 answers · asked by love*pink 3

my brother was kicked out of our house cuz he dropped out of high skool i can understand y my mom did it but i am already starting to miss him... i talk to him still to see/make sure tht he is okay and is doing alright, but he also misses home i talked to my mom and the only thing tht she misses about him is his messes tht he would make in the living room i think tht she misses him juz as bad as me but idk what do u think??

2007-02-05 08:41:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-05 08:27:57 · 14 answers · asked by Linda G 1

A wile back i asked about my dad,that he was rasisist.I had the worst feelings about him and what he was doing to my sister and her baby"the baby is part native" i thought there was nothing wrong with that but my dad did,so it got to the point were i would ignore some of his phone calls and pretend i was not home some days.I would roll my eyes when i would see him coming...i know i was bad,i know that now,because on Dec.22/2006 he passed away,and the night befor i did not answer his call.The pain is unberbel...I JUST WANT TO SAY I'M SORRY TO HIM.

2007-02-05 08:23:29 · 12 answers · asked by MARTHA W 1

I am in HIGHSCHOOL and one of the school orchestras that i am in is taking a class trip to BOSTON, ( i live in NEW JERSEY so it's only a few hours away). We will be staying in Boston for just 4 DAYS however my parents feel the need to come to Boston to see the concert, which is okay, but they also want to STAY AT THE SAME HOTEL AS MY CLASS!!! that is not cool and soooo embarassing. How can i convince them that nothing bad is going to happen to me and tell them to NOT TO RUIN MY LIFE?

2007-02-05 08:10:44 · 11 answers · asked by love*pink 3

the brother being 3 and the sister nearly 1 when should they stop having baths together?

2007-02-05 08:00:49 · 11 answers · asked by Legend T 2

I am almost 19 years old and about to finish going to school to be a Certified Nurses Assistant in march. And I want to move out of my moms house and into my boyfriends apartment about 3 hours away.... He has a really good job up there and has a job lined up for me, plus theres a really good tech school that I want to go to for my Paramedic courses... Should I go? And how should I tell my mom I want to go? I have tried talking to her about it and all she does is yell and me and tell me I am immature and that I dont know what love is, and that If i go I will be adandoning her and so on.... what do i do??

2007-02-05 07:58:36 · 16 answers · asked by firemedicdixie 1

If you are over 18 by law you are an adult

2007-02-05 07:39:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister can be set off by next to nothing. At xmas she attacked her hubby because he didn't support her when she got into a yelling rage at his sister, because his sister asked her "how are you doing"
Literally the slightest thing that is contrary to her way of thinking and your toast. This makes life difficult as you have to always agree with her and/or do what she wants, and sometimes I don't want to.
sometimes she flips out when you think all is well and she is enjoying herself.
also she yells at my wife everytime she see her.

Anyway, for probably obvious reasons I have been staying right away from her, BUT this is wreaking havoc with my mom who wants "A nice happy family". My mom sent us all a poem she found on the internet just today about the importance and permanence of family.

If I re-initiate contact with my sister, Does anyone know of a way to do it that might keep me/my wife sane and her under control?
(My syster already gets pro phsyciatric help)

2007-02-05 07:36:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my lil brother dosnt think about anyone but himself he hits and swears and does not listen to me at all and how do i get him to listen to me

2007-02-05 07:36:21 · 5 answers · asked by Kat 2

I may be moving to the Philadelphia area and want to know what areas in or near Philly are good for raising children (safe, good schools, etc.). What are the more expensive neighborhoods or suburbs (not that I'll necessarily be able to afford to live there, but I'd like to have an idea of what the best places are to live)?

2007-02-05 07:29:30 · 6 answers · asked by crabbyone 5

If you called someone and their cellphone was ignoring ur call then hours later it just rang but no answer and this went on for 3 days stright then u stopped calling after the third day what would u think? that's my pblm my aunt abruptly stopped tlking to me and almost 3 weeks later calls me and didn't make it any better by tlking 2 me as if nothing happened don't u think if she could have acknowledged the fact that i was trying to call her and she paid me no mind. i think i should ignore her because we live in different states and for other reasons i feel like i have to try and fit in 2 her life this just really topped it i'm so tired of feeling close to her then getting pushed away i feel i should start being distant with her and not get my feelings hurt.

2007-02-05 07:29:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister-in-law from time to time says I don't know what it is about you that got my brother wanting to be married.. She says I'm still trying to figure it out; but he does love you.. Now what in the hell is that supposed to mean? I know that his family is still very close to his children's mother.... Is she insulting me on the sly, or is she saying that she is surprised that her brother is wanting to settle down? Oh yeah, I am older than him.

2007-02-05 07:25:57 · 3 answers · asked by stella 2

I went to a mexican funeral for my girl friends mom. I asked her if I can stay with her and sit with her. She said she wants to sit with her family, but did not ask me to sit with them. So I sat by myself. Is that custom, because I'm not family.

2007-02-05 07:10:49 · 14 answers · asked by Ty P 1

2007-02-05 07:03:59 · 43 answers · asked by animal-lover 1

2007-02-05 06:47:21 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

the problem is that my sister did love marriage 10 months ago..
and my parents were not ready 4 this because that boy was not good 4 my sister .he was doing law from symbiosys college he was in final year now he is not ready 2 give his final exams .he want 2 make carrier in entertainment field and 2nd problem is that he is abusing my sister physically and mantelly ..he did brain wash of my sister so she is also against us. she is in trouble she she did M.B.A and that boy is 4 years younger then her that boy has left his job and my sister is doing job 4 him . i think that boy is not good 4 her ..he will not do any thing in his life ..and i can not see my sister struggelling to live life like this. we are from financially sound family , i want 2 save my sister from that boy. she is in great trouble she goes office and comes in evening and after that that boy creates so much trouble tension he does not allow her 2 talk any family member ...wt 2 do in this situation. pleas suggest

2007-02-05 06:45:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

THE BOOK I'M GOING TO TALK ABOUT **** THAT I WENT THROUGH FROM TODDLER TO NOW AND I'VE BEEN THROUGH SOME **** , BUT I'M KINDA AFRAID OF PUTTING SOME INFO IN THERE, BECAUSE SOME OF IT SEPERATED ME FROM MY FAMILY WHAT SHOULD I DO?
(INCLUDING) ABUSE, RAPE, MOLESTATION!!!! SHOULD I JUST FINISH MY BOOK?

2007-02-05 06:20:02 · 2 answers · asked by Monique Jackson 1

I have two stepsons and a stepdaughter. (Grown up now.) My husbands ex-wife never cared that the boys liked me, but was jealous of her daughter getting on with me. I didn't stand a chance of getting close to her. She was very young when her mum influenced her and eventually she wouldn't come anymore. Last week we met again at my stepsons daughters christening. My stepdaughter walked straight passed me and spoke to my husband, much to her mothers delight. I felt so frustrated and hurt because I've never actually done anything wrong to her. What I feel most hurt about is the fact that my husband knew she'd ignored me, but spoke to her anyway. I feel this looked to her as though she could treat me as she wanted because her father didn't care much. I don't him to fall out with her, but couldn't he have shown her that he won't have me treated like that. Later I asked her to visit anytime and she turned me down. Am I wrong to feel hurt by his loyalty to me?

2007-02-05 06:06:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-05 05:49:22 · 17 answers · asked by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5

My fiance and I have one child together (she is one year) and he has a son from a previous, um, one night stand should I call it? Anyways, his son, Bryce, stays with us every other weekend for about 4 to 5 days at a time. I have known Bryce since he was 8 months old and I am just as much a part of his life as his father is. When he comes to see us I treat him with the same respect and dicipline as I treat my daughter with. I help him with getting dressed, bathing, I prepare his meals, I read to him and play with him. We do fun things as a family and I accept him as another child to me. Today he told my fiance, his dad, that he does not like me and that I'm disgusting. How do I take this? He is three, but should I take his seroiusly? Is it his mother putting these thoughts into his head? How should I handle this. When I heard what he had said I started crying. I don't know if it is his mother is saying bad things about me or if he really feels this way. Has anybody had this experience?

2007-02-05 05:48:57 · 18 answers · asked by ErinRae 3

We have been together for about 2 years now. We have been best friends for the past 12 years. We are going to have a baby in June. We do not live together yet, we have to sell both homes first. We've always had a thing for each other since we were in high school and finally had a time where we were both available. We love each other very much and didn't fight like this as friends. It started out with a few days of silence, now it's just days of silence before one or the other will apologize. I know this is not normal....Is there anyone else who goes through a similiar situation?

2007-02-05 05:45:54 · 11 answers · asked by Soinlove 1

So I am on a crowded bus, and there is absolutely no place to move. People are trying to get out and I get slightly pushed into a mother who in turn gets pushed into her son who is sitting down. I forgot what she exactly told me but it was basically a rude comment telling me to move and that I am hurting her son. I got ticked off and rudely responded that I am not the one pushing her and I got no place to go. A couple of people seemed to hiss at me and didnt look like they appreciated my comment. So was I supposed to just stay quiet in this situation?

2007-02-05 05:37:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I find it hard to stand her, she has made racial comments about black people, I am mexican and wonder what does she think about my culture, also wonder if she puts down everybody else in her family what does she says behind my back, since we dont live close to her when we visit we usually stay in her home, I feel drained by her sometimes, wished I didnt had to see her, but out of respect for my husband I go, cause I know his family is very imporant to him, what could I do to keep her attitude from affecting me?

2007-02-05 05:30:02 · 14 answers · asked by Alejandra 1

This past weekend was one I would say came straight out of hell. First of all I had to go to a family get together up in Chicago where is was extremely frigid. I was frozen all weekend long. To make matters worse everyone in my family was fighting.
My brother and I were fighting. My sisters were fighting with my sister-in-law. And my aunts were fighting with my mom. Nobody had a good time all weekend.
My brother was fighting with me cause I refuse to break things off with the new man I am currently involved with. He refuses to accept that I am 27 years old and can make my own decisions. How do I get him off my back.

2007-02-05 05:26:06 · 8 answers · asked by Sexie Gal 1

2007-02-05 05:19:59 · 36 answers · asked by Shane W 1

when ever my GF has a disagreement with he throws a tantrun in the house she slams door start yelling and one time i was in the bedroom she threw a big candle at the door and damage it is this normal this the 1st time i ever lived with a woman and we are engaged.
ALso one day i came home and starting cooking dinner for myself and she got upset because she got me a 10pcs chicken nugget from Mcdonals and i did not want that for dinner is it me ? and as usually she startign yelling and stomping and had a tantrum again one of many .

2007-02-05 05:18:59 · 12 answers · asked by GRUNT 3

im looking for a mom out there who could relate.. my parents are separated for almost 11 years now, i'm with my dad since then, now, my mom offered me a work so i moved to her place, i really can't help it but the pain and the anger is still there.. i can't even stand talking to her for 10 mins. i really hate the feeling that we're in the same roof but im cold to her.. can you help me fix things up! i just need someone i can share everything to be undestood.

2007-02-05 05:17:09 · 18 answers · asked by tinkerbel 2

Spend a moment away from the kids and share what you would be doing if they weren't at home fighting over the tv or phone right now.

2007-02-05 04:55:18 · 6 answers · asked by Barbiq 6

2007-02-05 04:48:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous