I'm a widow, live with her at her apartment. A wonderful girl, has a job and takes a postgraduation course in Chemistry. I try to contibute, help and give all my love. But I can't stop being a mom, maybe I shouldn't, but moms are moms. So I agree I try to interfere in her life and control her a bit. She's wonderful, but at 23 still inexperienced and sometimes drives me crazy, coming home late, working too much, going to parties and getting little sleep. Of course since she's an adult I have no formal authority, but still have some psychological one So, some days ago she wanted to go to a party after, I said Oh no hun, you need some sleep or you'll get sleep. She ended up obeying. This was great, but her extremely dynamic life makes me worried, I need a bit more control, I wish I could ground her sometimes, with all my love of course. This is a dangerous age, she's an adult, has a job, makes money, is wonderful but still a bit immature. I dont know if she'll obney if I ground her
2007-02-05
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Vera
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