Family - February 2007

we recently got an extended family, son, granddaugter, and daughter , the granddaughter is so rebellious and can't get along with no one. no matter what you do for her if its not her way then it the mean girl coming out of her. i'm really sick of it what to i do, need help

2007-02-05 15:51:20 · 7 answers · asked by SHIRLEY S 1

When I was 19 yrs old I started seeing my now husband I knew even at 19 that he was the one I wanted to spend the rest of my life with, 7 yrs later we have a 10 month old son and are more in love then ever and we can both say without a doubt that we will always be together, its kinda wierd because I look at alot of my friends and they arnt even close to a loving relation ship,so how many people out there have found their true love?

2007-02-05 15:48:55 · 10 answers · asked by LuvnLife 3

is that to old?

2007-02-05 15:46:05 · 10 answers · asked by dfdsf d 1

why is it that when my parents o something wrong it's shruged off but when I do something that's not that bad. people just start freaking out.

let me start from the beginning. my dad yells down the stares what I thought at the time to be get of the phone. so I get off the phone and yell that I was off.

an hour later my dad yells angrily. wheres thew phone. I grab the phone and head up stares. I get yelled at after explaining that I misheard them. then I go downstairs. then my mom yells wheres the upstairs phone. I walk upstairs and point out the phone I had brought. they fuse at me some more an finally just tell me to leave.

is it just me or was all that unnecessary

2007-02-05 15:38:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Major Crush?
I really like this guy, He's the cutest guy at my school, and I have had a crush on him. My mom spilled a secret the other day, about me. My bball coach asked If I wanted to visit her church Wed. My Mom said No, because I have a runway show on Wed. I have been hiding the fact I'm a professional print and runway model, since last year. Now that he knows, he's tending to look at me more. He's so cute, a strong christian, and is really sweet. What should I do?

2007-02-05 15:28:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just had a baby in december 06. i want to leave my boyfriend. It's his baby too. But i dont' want to leave my baby with him. I want to take my baby. His dad is mean and throws baby around like he is a doll. he never hit me before but just recently when we argue he will hit me. i told him before i wanted to leave and take baby but he wont let me. I told the cops but they said since neither one of us has custody of him that they can't help me take baby. Custody is not written down or on paper or anything. Because i just gave birth to my baby but i didn;t think i'd leave his father. i havent yet because i don't want to leave my baby with him. I can't sneak away either becuase his father is home all day. I asked him if he'd be ok with joint custody with me but he said no. He wants full. I said thats not fair. I don't know what to do. I wont leave my baby with him i can't . Yet he is bringing me down. i feel no love from my boyfriend. anyone have any suggestions?

2007-02-05 15:25:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-05 15:20:29 · 6 answers · asked by Varghese T 1

I have a 3 year old son. His so called father has not had anything to do with him since he was 6 months. I wasnt married to him. I dont want my son to have his last name anymore. He doesnt pay child support. Theres no court papers saying he has too. I think my son is better off without his money. He got a 16 year old knocked up. What would I have to do to get him to give up his rights? Please I need someones help..

2007-02-05 14:56:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

READ EVERYTHING, EXTREMELY IMPORTANT
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you see, ill be walking down the hallway and then ill hear laughing coming out of her room, and mumbling!
when i knock shell say i can come in, and shell quickly delete the internet page shes looking at.

one day, i went into her room, and her internet page was left up on the screen.
she was reading info about aliens, known as "the greys"...
im so confused...
i went and asked her about it, and asked her why she was laughing, and she said because the greys were telling her jokes.

i asked her why she was mumbling, and she said she was carrying on a conversation with them!

im scared for my sibling...
pllleeassee..... heeellpppp....
shes laaughing in her room this very second!!!!


(i definitely have God in my heart, im a religious person, so dont go dissing himm!)

2007-02-05 14:55:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Brief to boxer

2007-02-05 14:51:59 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey everyone! My fiance and I were planning on moving into this "fixer-upper" house and It's around allllllllllll of his family .. I mean like 50 feet and you can be near his uncles house! Its like that with all of his family too! His family and I get along sometimes, but as a human, I get aggravated with him (as well as they do with me probably) but any he asked his sister-in-law and brother if he could move into the house beside them and they said well im not going to change the way I am for you if you do end up moving into that house. They really never gave us a straight up answer, but they said that we needed to have someone come and check it out to make sure it was still fixable (which we knew it was!) and then check back in with them. But back to the point, she said that they were gonna have all their parties etc up there all throught the night, & with my fiance and I starting out, we're going to be working all the time and it will be rough... what should we do? please help!!!!!!

2007-02-05 14:50:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

my son's father has been asking me for help concering his girlfriend problems and my fiance appears to be getting a bit jealous how do i reassure him that there is nothing between my ex and i strictly friends....there is really nothing there i mean i am trying to help him get a new woman and all....besides this close relationship with my son's father is great for my son considering all the parents out there who can't communicate.

2007-02-05 14:44:59 · 7 answers · asked by chylie p 2

my mom lives in texas and me and my 15 yr old daughter live here in calif and i went to hr block to do my taxes and they said someone claimed her....so i could not claim my child because my mom claimed her and lied to the irs and said she lived with her and my mom lives in texas and us in calif!! i am outraged at how evil and back stabbing my mom is!! she did it because she makes a lot of money as an RN and knew she would have to pay alot of $ in taxes cuz she is single, but i am a mom and struggling raising my daughter and here she would do this what should i do??

2007-02-05 14:36:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-05 14:36:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just found out 30 min. ago that my grandma died from a heart attack and i was crying like there was no tomarrow. i slammed things, i through things. i went crazy! im a little better now because i know she went to heaven and theres no more pain for her but i need to know how i can deal through this pain in me! im hurt because i knew her my life and now shes gone. I need help! HELP ME!

2007-02-05 14:14:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is one trick you learned in rasing your kids or one thing you would of done diferently?
How many kids do you have?
I have 5 from 9-1!

2007-02-05 14:11:45 · 6 answers · asked by tishniaeq069696 3

mark's exwife hates me and makes my life hell.now he left her becuase she was too controlling and made his life hell. but the way i see it she still controlling his life.they both have joint custody of thier son so she can't threaten to take his son away.for example she does not want me going to any of her sons school functions(for no good reason) my husband agrees as he says he does not want to make trouble for his son.he will never stand up for me no matter what she does.if she made his life so bad why does he let her get away with so much?why does it not bother him when he sees how upset she makes me by treating me like a doormat?

2007-02-05 14:11:10 · 5 answers · asked by suedees1996 1

i have to give my second son the talk soon and was thinking about showing him pictured from the internet to help him better understand it all. no crazy kinky stuff of course. just basic possitions. is this a good idea or not?

2007-02-05 14:00:22 · 7 answers · asked by TakeOverTheBraksOver 1

my boyfriend generally communicates well with me. he tells me when something's wrong, he makes a point of being totally honest with me at all times, if i'm doing something he doesn't like he'll let me know.....he even trusts me with his facebook password. if that's not ultimate trust then i dunno what is. but whenever something happens like he gets into a fight with someone or he's having a bad day or someone calls me up and says, "i think something happened 2 ur bf today, maybe u shud talk to him about it," he doesn't say a word. in situations like that, its always "nothing." it can't be a trust issue cuz we took care of that already, but why won't he just fill me in? he won't even tell me WHY he won't tell me......what am i supposed 2 do????

2007-02-05 13:59:57 · 5 answers · asked by jgmice 2

If you're taking the kids/nephews/nieces/etc. to the beach, what do you do to get sand out of their trunks and booty's after?

I've seen moms actually take their kid by the shower pull from behind their trunks and just clean right their with their hands.

How do others handle this?

How do you help them get it out?

2007-02-05 13:58:14 · 2 answers · asked by Kate 1

i am to marry a man thats divorced with a 8 yr old son next month.he very involved in his childs life(good thing) but has a very controling,bitter,jealous exwife that hates me(bad thing).the fact that hes so into his child means i have to deal with her on a daily thing(school activites,sports,phone calls ect)yes i could avoid her but that whould mean spending a great deal of time away from my husband as thier son has almost daily activites that my husband would never miss(and u can bet she will always be there)the worst part is she has him "by the balls" for some reason and he will not stand up for me.he says its better for his son if he does not "make waves" with her.will this get better when we marry?

2007-02-05 13:52:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok rumor are goin to happen and i noe that but whats if they happen to u.there r these girls at my school and are really RuDe to me but try to act soo nice.they r juss making rude remarks and its juss odd and very nerve raking.i dont think im mean for them not to like me and im not trying to be cocky but i dont think im ugly.im juss very confused and need to noe how to deal.cuz i cant exactly ignore them!!

2007-02-05 13:46:38 · 16 answers · asked by summer h 1

i live with my grandma and she still thinks i'm about 10 years old. i have hard time convincing her that i'm 13 and watn to have a boyfriend. so how do i convince her to let me wear a thong? e-mail me with suggestions or post them.

2007-02-05 13:44:21 · 18 answers · asked by freecheetahgirl 1

has wepons while i have nothing to fight with and i dont fight and accualy my neice has the same problem plz help i need ideas
all i can do is ***** slap i can punch but what should i do????????????????????????????????????????

2007-02-05 13:26:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 5 year old son was just diagnosed. My husband is no help and is in denial and wants nothing to do with the diagnosis. My 9 year old son is depressed that his brother will never be normal. I also have a 2 and 3 year old daughters that love him and he is really more on their mentality. But afraid they will outgrow him soon. Any advice?

2007-02-05 13:26:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I saw questions about what made a good mother and father... but not one about what makes a good son.

2007-02-05 13:21:16 · 26 answers · asked by Kyle47 3

My dad blames every little thing on me! And my mom doesn't even wanna be around me anymore! They only care about my 5 year old sister! I am 12 years old,and my mom tells my sister that she loves her before she goes to work,but she doesn't tell me that! And at school,my grades suck,and most people consider me an outsider! I just want to die! No one would even care!

2007-02-05 13:19:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

my daughter is almost 9 and some of her friends are maturing alot quicker than she is. She hasn't asked questions yet but i think it only a matter of time. Does any one agree with me in saying that little girls aren't that little anymore and when is it appropriate to burden them with all the confusion of growing up?

2007-02-05 13:11:17 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

By respect I mean not yell at them for stupid things, and not tell them to shut up. i think that kids should respect thier parents and parents should repect thier children..... i never said they had to OBEY their children. My parents always yell at me , and cop and adittude and then I have to respect them! Oh H to the H no!



What do you think?

- Confused teenager.

2007-02-05 12:56:12 · 15 answers · asked by ♥MiSSz' HyPN0TiQ♥ 2

My mother seems very jealous of me. I dont know how to deal with her. When she asks me about my day and I tell her the good things she starts being negative. She is also very critical and talks bad about her best friend all the time. Do people like this change? She will always say things to bring me down but i have friends i talk to who lift me up. She seems to always compare herself to me. We really do not have a lot to talk about since we have nothing in common. All she wants to do is gossip and i find gossip so boring and i'd rather not talk at all. How do you deal with a mother like that?

2007-02-05 12:53:34 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2