mean ppl help??

Question

ok rumor are goin to happen and i noe that but whats if they happen to u.there r these girls at my school and are really RuDe to me but try to act soo nice.they r juss making rude remarks and its juss odd and very nerve raking.i dont think im mean for them not to like me and im not trying to be cocky but i dont think im ugly.im juss very confused and need to noe how to deal.cuz i cant exactly ignore them!!

Answer 1

peshh, I used to have girls like that in my old middle school do that to me. They acted like they were the best and la-de-da~. but w/e... I moved away because my dad got a new job. Last I heard was one of the girls got pregnant and had to drop out, the others are failing their classes and addicted to drugs. Now when ever I look back at it I laugh and think to myself, "who's the best now?".

I guess what I'm trying to say is deal with it. I don't mean this in a bad way but ten years from now your going to forget all about them. I just focused on a goal in life and look at me now, I'm getting scholarships and I'm planning on attending college in New York! And I'm C average student! People like to make fun of other people to
1. Get a reaction
2. To feel better about themselves
3. TO make themselves seem "cooler"

Use your confidence to your advantage! It works! Your not ugly! DOnt be scared of them! They're wothless!

Best of luck to you.

by the way I'm only 15!

Answer 2

I am so glad I am over the 'school' part of life. the games people play to make others feel bad sometimes doesn't stop just because we grow up.
The main reason anyone picks on someone or is rude to them is because they have an insecurity they don't want you to see. They think that if they can show how tough they can be with you by being rude to you in front of others, that you will think twice before ever confronting them .
Many times people like that are very hard to ignore, but you have to realize that you can become a better person than them and not turn out like them. First you have to find out who you really ae and what you want people to remember about you. Do you want to be known as rude, or eevn worse, do you want to be a two face?
Rumors are just rumors and you can never control what another person is thinking. But you can be true to who you think you are. Sometimes we think we need friends like that and don't take the time to get to know other people that would be better for our lives. think about hanging around or talking to other people. It might open your eyes to a whole new world.
In the mean time pray and ask God to help you open your eyes to what is right for your life. Oh, did I say God? Yep I said God! He is real and can help you get through some of the toughest times in your life. Start talking to him.

Answer 3

I'm sorry these girls are treating you this way, it's very painful at any age to be told things that hurt you deeply by anyone. When it's other female students at school it's even worse.

Sometimes girls do this if you are different from them in some way....that is because THEY HAVE NOT BEEN TAUGHT TO BE KIND TO ALL PEOPLE...they enjoy picking on someone who is not the same as them...maybe they all wear certain shoes or skirts or jeans..and you wear something else..so they think you are not as good as them....THEY ARE SO WRONG...what about your hair and the way you take care of yourself...they might be picking on you for something personal that you can change...???...

Some girls travel around in groups called a "clique" or it can be called the "in crowd". People who think they are the BEST!
You and I know we are all the same...but these people who are picking on you are in a different world when they are together they enjoy teaming up on others and they get a kick out of it.

This behavior has been going on for 1000's of years....I don't think it's going to change...all I know is to tell you to be the best you can be in your appearance keeping your self clean and neat do your school work and hold your head up high. We can't change other people be we can bring ourselves up as high as we can.

If you feel threatened by these girls you can always talk to a counselor in your school....because if they are BULLYING YOU...then that is an offense...they can be in deep trouble.

You have the right to go to school and learn and not be upset by these girls who are being very disrespectful and most of all cruel..

Best of luck to you,
Mama Jazzy Geri

Answer 4

When a Bully will not let up or will not let go the you need to

"Hit them right between the eyes when they least expect it"

When they say something, walk right over to the person and say

"Excuse me, did you say something you wanted me to hear, cause I really didn't understand what you said"

Bullies do not like confrontation. They may get smart but they will stop.

GL!

'-)

Answer 5

you have to ignore them, thats the answer. Plus, and i'm not being rude, those girls will not mean anything later in life, but right now, honestly, you need to really get into school, your spelling is terrible and you sound really stupid.

Answer 6

First Don't ever write letters to them unless it is spelled correctly and don't let them get to you show them you are the better person then they are. give them the evil smile the smile that tells you i am king and no one bothers me good luck

Answer 7

These girls are only being mean to you cuz you're letting them. You're too nice. Don't your school have a zero bullying policy? They're being bullies.

Answer 8

they are just the type, they arent happy unless they are making someones lives miserable. it is very hard to ignore them. the best thing to do is hold your head up high and act like it doesnt bother you.

Answer 9

Just ignore, there are always bitchy girls at schools, they are eaither jealous, or just mean. Just let it go and dont let it get to you. if they see that its not affecting you, they will leave u alone.
Hope this helps! :)

Answer 10

Do they make fun of how you spell also?

Talk to a counselor or a teacher and ask for advice.