Family - February 2007

My sister had asked me to go on Vacation to Disney with her, and her husband and their daughter my neice. She wants me to go with them to help out with the baby (she is one). I am not sure if she really is asking me to go since she knows that I am not as well off as they are and that I really dont get to go on vacation. My husband says I should go, but it is weird, should I go? I don't want them to think I am taking advantage? or am I just being stupid?

2007-02-06 02:50:22 · 10 answers · asked by GingerCurtis 2

i am in love with my brother in law .i know it is wrong but my heart is all his . please tell me what to do .my husband and i love each other and we have a good relationship. but a year ago when his brother moved in ,everthing changed . i began to spend alot of time with his brother and got to know him very good. now my borther in law is going back to the way it was in the begining and i want more. please tell me how to stop these feelings.

2007-02-06 02:40:39 · 11 answers · asked by nextal789 1

for 12 years. I was trying to find out if anyone knows, what the percentage is of taxes and other junk they take out of my week to week check in Maine.. I read somewhere im hoping was wrong that its 34 percent. Any answers would be helpful.

2007-02-06 02:40:06 · 2 answers · asked by Vic d 2

They've been married for 30 some years and they dont like eachother any more. Infact they cant stand each other I havent seen them even hug my entire life. They even sleep in seperate rooms. yea I know, your thinking get a divorce right? But they can't because neither fo them would survive financialy alone. Im the only child left at home now. It's really starting to take effect on me and I dont know what to do.

2007-02-06 02:37:50 · 10 answers · asked by Beth 1

My daughter and her boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years. I have never liked him. My daughter is way too good for him and can do much better for herself. He is 21 years old jobless, high school drop out and isn't trying to do anything to improve his life. My husband and I desperately want to see our daughter with someone who is up to her standards and can possibly make a good husband for her.

Just last night, my husband suggested that I should try sleeping with our daughter's boyfriend to prove to her that he is a no good dog. My husband says that by doing this, she will see that her boyfriend is a low life looser and she will break up with him and find someone better. Do you think this will work? Should I try sleeping with my daughter's boyfriend so that she will see that he is no good and break up with him? Help please!

2007-02-06 02:24:07 · 86 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I was 6 years old she left me with my dad and carried my sister who was 12 on a vacation.

When I was 23 and working my whole family and my sister and her husband went on a cruise and left me.

My mom carried my sister on vacation when she was 32 and left me

When I went on vacation with my mom and dad , everything she bought for me she also got for her son in law.


The other day my sister curse my mom when she went shopping with my dad overseas and told her that she is not treating her good although my mom bought her a lot of stuff and did not give her money, while i gave her money and was contented with mine, and my mom cried.

Now my mom want to go on a cruise and carry my sister, but she knows I cannot go now because I have work and school, she told me she would carry me when exams are over but now she is thinking about going early and leaving me.

Does she like my sister more?

What should I do?
I think i should not say anything and just live my life

2007-02-06 02:24:04 · 6 answers · asked by JM 1

2007-02-06 02:16:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I & my mom want to buy him somethin. We have bought him shirts previously so we need somethin different and it should not be too costly.

2007-02-06 01:58:06 · 10 answers · asked by Nimmi 2

I & my mom want to buy him somethin. We have bought him shirts previously so we need somethin different.

2007-02-06 01:57:10 · 7 answers · asked by Nimmi 2

I'm 18 and live 120 miles away from my mother and brothers. My mother got married when I was 8, to a man who physically, emotionally and sexually abused me. I tried to tell my mum but she just looked at my bruises and did nothing. It was happening every time she went out, but still she didnt stop going out or take me with her - just left me alone with him. 3 years later we left for a refuge, but as soon as we were rehoused she let him back and he dide exactly the same again.

Recently I have been thinking about this a lot, and am getting more and more angry. Other than this, our relationship is quite good and I don't know my dad.

Should i confront her, ask her why, get her to admit she's wrong and make myself freel better, or just leave it? Not sure abouyt risking the big confrontation and arguments..,. Please help!!

2007-02-06 01:33:06 · 52 answers · asked by Tiger18 2

i dont know were to start well here goes my sister died 3 years ago and left 2 daughters with problems with there dad being a drunk they were taken away from him and his youngest daughter (was age 9)came to live with me everything was ok for a while now its like a war zone in my house with my husband and her my husband says he hates her and i think he means it hes been getting drunk out of his head for quiet a while now and he really says nasty things to me her and his own 2 kids i dont know what to do i dont know weather to leave him or not and put in for a new house and take the 3 of them with me. But i do think there is something else wrong with him i think he has a mental problem he refuses to see i am so upset i have been married for 20 years my children are 18,14 my niece is 12 can any 1 give me any advice thankyou

2007-02-06 01:27:19 · 8 answers · asked by andrea.barrett36 4

I recently being called for an interview from an organisation that fights for human rights.My interview is tomorrow and I told my parents today.Mum was really excited about iit coz she like me beng ann active member of society.But Dad said that I should have asked him first coz he is not sure where this organisation finds money to pay its employees,that somethimes they fight for rights of humans that don't deserve their freedom and other bul**** like that.For me this is like a dream come true coz all my life I wanted to join this team but i couldn't due to my age.Now there Dad saying all these things and making me feel angry.What should I do?I told him that this well-known org is reliable but he doesn't listen.I would like you to help me!!!!Thx...

2007-02-06 01:26:17 · 7 answers · asked by Venus! 2

I really want to move out of this cold depressing state and move somewhere warm like Califonia. But most of my family is here in Michigan. The economy is real bad here, it takes months to find a job. But I'm afraid I would get so home sick not being able to see my family whenever I want. Granted were not a large family but I am close to them. I don't no what to do? Anyone been in a similar situation?

2007-02-06 01:17:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anyone 4

2007-02-06 01:17:12 · 9 answers · asked by melissa j 1

she is always with me in my memories i feel sad everytime what will i do ????

2007-02-06 01:13:38 · 17 answers · asked by ravi 1

2007-02-06 01:06:01 · 18 answers · asked by mullies 1

I need some help. I am a very diverse person. However, my parents are somewhat bigots. They judge races and people of different sexes without knowing anything about the person. The main thing I have a problem with is the use of the N word about African Americans (we're white). They just throw it around so casually. You may hear it 10 times a day. It makes me cringe and my ears want to bleed. They also believe that every race should date only within itself (White with White, etc). My parents are in their late 40s and I know it is difficult to change someone without them wanting to and they get mad if someone just slightly asks "why?". The thing is that I want for them to stop using the N word around me bc I have lots of African American friends & date interracially. It makes it look like I am racist whenever people hear my parents say this stuff because ppl assume you believe what your parents do. (My birth father was in the army so I had a diverse childhood & was around many diff ppl)

2007-02-06 00:58:56 · 6 answers · asked by Trojan8408 5

the faucet is attached to our mobile home, we are moving our mobile home. Do we have an obligation to put a new faucet on there so she will be able to use it? She thinks we do, I think we don't.

2007-02-06 00:56:40 · 10 answers · asked by ladybug 5

My brother in-law & his girlfriend use our computer from time to time (sometimes without asking for permission). We hate it because we have some personal stuff in it, but if they ask it's difficult for us to say no. So everytime after they use it, we always check the history, at first to see wether they open our personal stuff or not, but by doing that we can see everything they open. But today I found out that somebody checked the history & deleted some of it, though I can't be sure who exactly. I feel since it's our computer we have the right to check the history, that we have the right to know what they use our computer for. If they don't like it, then don't use our computer. But it's unethical and an invasion of privacy when they do it, because it's not their computer, it's like going to someone's house and checks their mails. What do you think?

2007-02-06 00:38:01 · 13 answers · asked by trax2345 2

The question it self is presice and in detail

2007-02-06 00:36:31 · 13 answers · asked by durga v 2

i saw my mama mating, she was with her BF, im kinda puzzled what to do....it's so embaracing.i just peeked & saw this ****....so many questions running in my mind...is it okay..?

2007-02-06 00:25:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-06 00:18:42 · 7 answers · asked by Andy C 2

instead of my own reflection. She has been gone for nine years. I don't even look like her. Is she trying to send me a message from Heaven? What could she be trying to tell me?

Please be kind, this is my Mom we're talking about.

2007-02-06 00:15:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex told me a was whore so i told him that i lost the baby i was carrying when i am very very much pregant. should i tell him the truth ?

2007-02-06 00:12:03 · 4 answers · asked by mrs. smutty aka sodachix 4

Every time my father in law comes to my house he is always winking at me giving me little sly smiles. At first I thought that I was just being paranoid but now i'm sure i'm not. Just the other day as I was dusting my house in the nude, he walked over to me and started massaging my breasts. I was stunned. When I asked him what he was doing, he said that he just wanted to make sure that I didn't have any lumps that would lead to cancer. My father in law is not a doctor. When I told my husband about this incident he just laughed and said that it was normal behavior for him. He even told me that his father has slep with many of his ex girlfriends and don't be surprised if tries to sleep with me as well. Is this right? Should my father in law be able to feel me up and sleep with me anytime he chooses? Help please!

2007-02-05 23:34:47 · 55 answers · asked by mamabag06 2

hey there, i am here to ask some advice on how to tackle this situation with my sister. she's 17 years older than me, but still quite youthful. i lo ve her to bits, but this xmas me and my bfriend went to spend with her and her hubby in th country side...i had the worst time of my life. they are too perfectionists and materialists, they victimise themselves, and said things about our parents that are not true for a fact because they want us to feel sorry and pity them for the life they had, they came out with bullshit on why we could not use the internet, started huffing and puffing when i started copying some of their CD's on my laptop after they given me permission, and so many things, that this time ii just cannot get over it...everyone knows they are a bit made in their own way, but this is enough, the want accenptance but are unable to understand or adapt to other ppl's needs aswell, i feel sickened with myself, as i love my sister. i wanna tell her...what do u suggest and how?

2007-02-05 23:27:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-05 23:27:24 · 7 answers · asked by AKI1236 G 2

they are nasty and mean to others all their life, but they kept on living and living, never dies! where is Karma?

2007-02-05 23:12:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-05 23:10:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i`m talking about grown up siblings. i have 3 brothers and i can honestly say that we never fall out. we did as kids, but not as adults. we see each other regularly and our kids all love each other.is this unusual?

2007-02-05 23:02:04 · 14 answers · asked by ginger 6