Family - February 2007

I am 15 and my parents only allows boys 2 come see me I can't see them. I understand they don't want things to lead to another but in my case I kinda feel that I am growing up and as a little girl they taught me about sex and now that im old enough to make my own descions I feel I should make the choice on that and weather I can visit him or not...I feel that they can only instill in me how 2 be safe with what I do... I hate that because they are so traditional! What do you think?

2007-02-05 12:38:05 · 9 answers · asked by Tryna_Make_It 1

when my mom got kicked out the house by my dad when i was 5. he started sexually abusing me and beating me up evrytime i act out. i became really shy and angry. my mom does not know anything about that. for weeks now i have been dreaming that i am chasing my dad to kill him. am i becoming crazy. i have so much anger issues. i hate all my friends . i live with my sister but i hate her too.l she knows about the hell i went trought but she actes like i am just doing too much. i feel so lonely scare of the future. is there anyone here who can relate to me. am i doomed forever.

2007-02-05 12:32:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I usually just get lectured when I get in trouble. Well, I got into so bad stuff at school and cussed out a teacher, when she sent me to the principle I didn't go and sprayed the word B**** on her door. Ha, well I thought it was funny. Well, anyway I get sent to the office, and my mom come's to get me, all the way home she's yelling at me and crap. I get out of the car and she said, You're grounded, three weeks. I said w/e and pushed her. I didn't realize my dad was looking out the window, from his study, when I did. My dad ran down stairs, grabbed me and toled me to go to my room. I said no, so he grabbed my arm and pulled me to my room, he slammed the door and then I noticed he was pulling off his belt. I really didn't know what he was doing. I tryed to escape but he pulled down my jeans and boxers threw me on the bed and spanked me 25 times. I was crying when he finished and I realized he was to. I don't think I should of been spanked. He didn't abbuse me. Am I right?

2007-02-05 12:31:19 · 82 answers · asked by Johnny T 1

how to move on with life when your abuser never acknowledge the hurt he/she caused you, if they can only apologize its so much easier to forgive and make up, but what if they don't?

2007-02-05 12:22:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello, Im a 14 year old male boy. I know it is probally normal for me to hate my parents, I know some of you are probally like "hate" thats not the word you should be using. But, I have many friends, But there the type of friends that i don't really wana be talking about this stuff too. And i can't talk to my parents they never understand me. I know all of this sounds so normal. I can even notice it myself. But a few weeks ago i was arrested for "harrasing" someone online. I know i was wrong to do this, I regret it deeply. But, My parents do not belive a word i say. And i understand that because i did go through a lying stage but when i need them there not there. And they do not understand school is so difficult for me, I may joke around sometimes in school but i pay attention ALOT and it comes very difficult for me. And when report cards come my brother has all A's and i am the "bad" child with the C's, and most reccently my mom said go to hell to me. Please help me i need advice.

2007-02-05 12:10:55 · 22 answers · asked by jeff 1

0kay, i'll keep short cause i don't wanna bore you..but anyhow i'm a chicago native, i moved to panama (momz panamanian) forcefully cause of my mom's buisness but soon goin back to the states-----anyhow, my fam and i are being envied by these people, some woman from the street tried to take my dad away just for (our) money and so she didnt get what she wanted so she decided to destroy our lives and put santerismo aka witchcraft on us and well she got what she wanted so now we're living in hell!! my mom lost her 4 jobs and her buisness and now i don't have any more money to go back to chicago..

soo how can i try to stop this stupid satanic chain this woman has against us?..no ignorant comment please, this is serious.

2007-02-05 11:56:53 · 9 answers · asked by TrickB 2

some people work 2 jobs or both parents work and you see your children once they are in bed.how can you call yourself a good parent if you don't spend time with them. it seems daycares are raising our children. are we in a time where we hardly see our kids and that's why alot of them fall into gangs and drugs. what is your opinion?

2007-02-05 11:55:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im getting married in Oct and i would really like for my dad to be there or just for him to know about it. I havent heard from him in over 15 years but just thought i would try. thanks

2007-02-05 11:47:33 · 4 answers · asked by Kevin C 2

my parents r very mad at me cuz i was being a little smart ***. I got my cell phone takin away and soon the computer is gonna be gone! This is not the first time i have done this and it is likely my mom and Dad will not forgive me. It is because i feel like my sister and i r doing everything. In a way we kind of r. but that was no excuse for our actions. i need a good apology and i need to learn a way to keep my mouth shut because i cant help it.

2007-02-05 11:29:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father passed away over 3 years ago. Since that time my brother has spoken to my mother only once. I left him a few voicemails and no response. It's one thing if he doesn't want to speak to me, but not speaking to my mother is a different story. I know for a fact that he speaks or at least spoke to one of my brothers in the passed 3 years on a regular basis. It has hurt my mother so much to the point that she doesn't even care anymore. The next time I see him I was thinking of beating him up. I really just want to hit him for my mother because I know she's tired of his crap. Is this a bad idea?

2007-02-05 11:21:10 · 16 answers · asked by steven h 1

My son is going into the military. Anyway, he has a son that we don't get to see very often because we don't see eye to eye with his mother. She has never let us see much of the baby and our son always went along with her except every now and then when she was working, he would let us see him. To make a long story short, they have split up and he will be leaving soon. He has told her he wants his family to see the baby while he is gone and he will be sending her money for the baby. If she still gives us a hard time about seeing the baby, is there anything we can do about it?

2007-02-05 11:09:04 · 1 answers · asked by Angela F 5

My sister in law wants my step son to stay in school until he earns his high school diploma. My step son is so behind in his studies, thats he will not graduate. I want him to get a part time job, since he doesn't want to study. My sister in law knows he won't study, but is against my wanting him to get a job. My husband (his father) won't be strict with him about his studies. My step son is 17 yrs old who spends hours on the computer and has no job. Help!

2007-02-05 11:08:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son is going into the military. Anyway, he has a son that we don't get to see very often because we don't see eye to eye with his mother. She has never let us see much of the baby and our son always went along with her except every now and then when she was working, he would let us see him. To make a long story short, they have split up and he will be leaving soon. He has told her he wants his family to see the baby while he is gone and he will be sending her money for the baby. If she still gives us a hard time about seeing the baby, is there anything we can do about it? Her mom has been very selfish with the baby and has had a lot of input so far and is now taking care of the baby alot because the mother is out running around.

2007-02-05 11:07:19 · 1 answers · asked by Angela F 5

I have an address I have e-mailed her ,written her but now I am worried. Is there a site that one can help you find loved ones>

2007-02-05 10:50:51 · 3 answers · asked by pun82224 5

in your family and ancestors that you didn't want to find out. Have you got any murderers from the past or has somebody been executed? What's the darkest secret from your family past?

2007-02-05 10:44:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have no contact with relatives. I have one sister but she got married and moved away. I hear from her like twice a year. My father works all the time and my mom is deeply religious and there are very few conversations I can have with her that aren't about Jesus. Surely I'm better off than a dysfunctional family, but there's really nothing I can say.

2007-02-05 10:44:58 · 12 answers · asked by poke 1

my mom and i hardly ever get along
she always talks pessimistically
i always speak optimistically
she really butts into my school life -although i know it's her right -but, for example, this 1 teacher wouldn't let me switch into her class and was mean to me so my mom wrote a 2 page article for the newspaper, emailed the mean teacher, and set up an appointment to see that teacher(although i told my mom to just let it b)
she only speaks with me about the above or serious stuff or upsetting stuff -- i've heard it a million times!
i couldn't stand hearing that conversation 1 more time today so i told her that i already knew what she was going to say and asked her to please try talking about something else for once...and she got mad at me and was all "i'm watching out for u and if u don't c that then screw u!!!!"
she knows i respect her cuz i do basically all the housework and buy her presents a lot...and am usually really nice
it has ALWAYS been like this between us
please help

2007-02-05 10:41:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it if i want to do somthing with them they say no i'm busy. but if they want to do somthing.(no matter what i'm doing) i have to go. They expect me to do somthing for them but yet they do nothing for me. what should i do so they will do somthing that i want to instead of wat they want to all the time.

2007-02-05 10:32:16 · 10 answers · asked by dc_snow_rules 3

I hate them. They always have to take everything away from me...especially the things I love most. What are the easiest ways to kill them?

2007-02-05 10:25:26 · 15 answers · asked by GO BENGALS 2

It was mainly focused on a blind couple who had 6 kids but the two older girls cared for the younger kids. What did you think? They seem to me to produce those kids for the sole purpose of slaves.

2007-02-05 10:06:32 · 16 answers · asked by no1shylass 4

tonight at supper my family and i were talking and my dad mentioned that he didnt sleep good last night because our 2 kittens wanted to sleep in his face he said but i dont know which one it was. Then my mom said" well i know one cat that was on your face". Somehow I dont think she was talking about our kittens. Im 15 and what she said puts a chill down my spine. I just want to know what you think about it and if you have any stories so I know my parents arent the only ones

2007-02-05 09:56:39 · 25 answers · asked by Daisy Duke 2

my brother has let a stranger move in his house b/c his daughter is going with the man which is 40 and she is 20 the man came 1,200 miles to live in this small town in okla i fear this man is running from something and need a place to cool off and use my brother/daughter i have talk to the guy he is very street savvy/smart he told me about him being in gangs and shot at too i fear for my brother and i told him to get the man out of his house but he refuse. he even gave the man his ss number i know it is not my business but i'am really concern

2007-02-05 09:51:54 · 6 answers · asked by mishoney 4

Ok what is going on is my Fiance and I have not told anyone that we have been together for the last 9 months. We were previously together when I just got out of a bad marriage and my ex husband flipped out on him and me....resulting in our relationship taking a break. We have kept contact but it was a two year span that we didnt date. Now that we are back together we are so happy and my boys have not yet been introduced back into the relationship but I do know they will be happy since they were sad and upset at their dad that they wanted him (fiance) to stay. My big problem is we have decided that it is time to tell everyone since we are buying a house together. My ex husband is remarried but I know will cause a big stink about it and my parents never wanted me to be with him because he is from a different origin than I am. Everyone I know is going to cause a lot of problems. What is the best way I should go about it? I know what I want....

2007-02-05 09:48:42 · 4 answers · asked by Believe 2

If I could I would duck tape him to the wall.

2007-02-05 09:43:11 · 28 answers · asked by endo1277 2

We welcomed him into the house. We even through him a birthday party. She has betrayed us on so many levels, how do I trust her when she blames anything and everything on her family. She moved out of our home because she said she was unappriciated, I didn't say thank you enough. The BF family were filling her head with all of this anti-your family info for months with out us knowing. What do I do?

2007-02-05 09:34:44 · 7 answers · asked by 868788 1

2007-02-05 09:33:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-05 09:19:58 · 4 answers · asked by LATOSHA F 1

i just wana know (from teenagers and older people too)if when you were in your teens did you ever just feel like you didnt belong? i feel as though my parents dont understand me and i get so down living at home. i stayed on to do A-levels(for whatever reason i do not know)and ive been doing them for 5months and i've had enough, my plan is to get a job between now and september and enroll in the tec. but my parents want me to do what they want and i swear i've had enough of them. and problems with my gfriend do not help matters...

is this similar to any other people out there???

2007-02-05 09:10:13 · 18 answers · asked by TheLizardKing 3

okay here is the situation. my husband and i have been together for 15 years, and all that time my mother (adopted mother) has hated my husband. she went for 4 years without seeing our daughter. my brother calls and says he and mom are coming to visit. i say okay. they come. visit goes well. she leaves. then my brother informs me that she had told him that my children were in dire straights and they had to come check things out. of course there was nothing wrong with children. 6months later she starts saying crazy things about my husband and i. that our children are abused and not developing properly. then the day she finds out i missed carried sends me letters demanding prompt attention the problem with my children, or she will see that they are taken away. then on my daughters birthday she leaves a message on the answering machine accusing my husband of molesting our daughter. of course not true. she says she in't going to stop until we are both in jail. how do we deal with her.

2007-02-05 09:09:25 · 16 answers · asked by jumbled 2

Ok,my sister is a *****.She is way older than me.Me and her are very different,when she does something wrong i don't rat her out,but when i do something wrong like call her a ***** she tells on me,what do you think?Should i tell on my sister for everthing she ver did,or keep it to myself?

2007-02-05 09:05:43 · 23 answers · asked by bubbles 1