Ok,my sister is a *****.She is way older than me.Me and her are very different,when she does something wrong i don't rat her out,but when i do something wrong like call her a ***** she tells on me,what do you think?Should i tell on my sister for everthing she ver did,or keep it to myself?
2007-02-05 09:05:43 · 23 answers · asked by bubbles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Learn to settle it between the two of you. You won't always have parents around to solve differences you have with each other. Besides, if you can work it out between you... you might realize that you can actually get along.
2007-02-05 09:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by huntingrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear- the dilemma of sisterhood.
I would take the high ground! Not tell on her at all or at least after the next time.
Next time sister rats on you- let Mom approach you, ask to talk to her in private. Get a good look at your sister- in the eyes and never tell her what you said to Mom.
Stay calm and when you are alone with MOM.
Just remind your mother the next time she comes down on you, that "sis is not a pure white angel of good manners and behavior" and yet I don't "rat" on her. How would you feel mom, if your sister ratted on you all the time? I would tell you if, she was in danger, but do you really think that I should catch this heat every time, when she does the same to me and I don't run to you for help-I work it out like you taught me. What do you recommend I do MOM? Cussing is just part of it, that doesn't mean anything to me. You know what I mean. right?
That will get her goat and good! Mom will be on your side.
Ha ha. It works- you must stay very calm and had act kinda hurt, like your betrayed by your sisters actions and not mad at your mother for hers.
2007-02-05 17:16:00 · answer #2 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem with my brother. He is in many ways an a****** also. I would never tell on him but for some weird reason, he was ALWAYS in trouble anyway. I think the reason I never told is so my parents didn't have ANOTHER thing to be mad for around the house. I think you should in a calm way let your parents know that you have been having problems with your sister and you want it to stop. DON"T go over old issues with them because they will either blame you for not coming forward earlier or tell you it was in the past and it will make you seem petty. Just start from the moment you talk to them about her. THEN let her know that you will NO LONG be holding your tongue on the things she does...YOU TELLING EVERYTHING. Not is a bratty way be just reminding them that YOU talk to them about her and nothing is happening because she is now doing.....!!! YOu have to be calm them anything about it. They will hear you more openly.
2007-02-05 17:17:03 · answer #3 · answered by Spleakie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh me an my oldest sister where the same way you can go tell on her or you can tell her the next time you get me introuble by tellin on me remember all the crap i got on you an i will have no problem on going to tell mom an dad.
that is the way i should of went about it but i slamed the door on her fingers hahahahaha then a few years later i gave her 2 black eyes an ripped her hair out i was 17 an she was 26 an i tell ya she never messed with me ever again an the funny part about it was that her husbend a his family an my hole family said she got what was comming to her an they where all happy about it to but it made us a little closer you never know. but just remember all the crap you got on her an make her remember that
2007-02-05 17:13:50 · answer #4 · answered by SGT SEXY MAMA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is jealous of you and that is normal for an older sibling. I had one, she was a total witch, but, I never told on her unless it was over something that could have hurt her or someone else. She will be your best friend in the next few years.
2007-02-05 17:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by LaRae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your sis is only older than you on the outside. Don't stoop to her level. You can try talking to her about it. But i know that it might be difficult. Anyway revenge is not the answer, it definitely won't help. Just be the bigger person and let it go...
2007-02-05 17:12:10 · answer #6 · answered by Postman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge never fixes problems. It's not going to change her and it's not going to make you a better person. Just sit on what you know.
2007-02-05 17:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meand my sister and brother are the same way but we dont rat on each other and we only use the ratin out for blackmail it sound bad but use it as blackmail aggenst her
2007-02-05 17:10:42 · answer #8 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stoop to her level. You can have a good relationship with your sis, besides she'll get whats coming to her eventually then you can laugh your head off!
2007-02-05 17:09:32 · answer #9 · answered by Azena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lowering yourself to somebody else's level never helps. Work on the things you can control (you) and learn to accept those that you cannot (her). Good luck.
2007-02-05 17:09:22 · answer #10 · answered by Jiselley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋