Family - February 2007

2007-02-05 23:01:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

he has mental health probs, and a history of stealing, and is a compulsive liar, he denied it and stormed off in anger. i didnt get angry, just told him i wanted to help him because i care, and dont want him messing his life up, also said i would help him if he has money troubles. he has been getting into trouble with the bank since the account was in his name solely, since september, as i have seen the letters. he often lies terribly in letters to friends about his home life and his father, and when questioned in the past has admitted he made things up. he was self harming last year, i pushed him into having psychotherapy, which he resents, me and his dad and stepdad are all doing our best, his stepdad treats my kids like his own, gives them both pocket money each week, that his father never did, any ideas what i can do? we have certain proof of the way my husband is methodical, and its definitely been left different, and no it isnt my other child, he is very immature & honest

2007-02-05 22:50:35 · 11 answers · asked by chakra girl 7

I am from Philippines and I need to know when did my grandmother died. Thanks to anyone who will answer.

2007-02-05 22:17:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

For months my relationship with my parents was kinda icy and distant. Last week we talked and things got better, though I kept resentful. Yesterday mom called me, was kinda sad. She got to know I have a teacher I like very much and that's a kind of confident, I talk with her when I need advice. Mom said, "so, you fired your mom, I'm no good anymore to give you love and advice". I said this was not the case, but sometimes I need a different opinion of someone who's not directly involved with me. But mom was desolated, cried, said she agreed sometimes she wasn't the mom I wanted but she was doing her best, she even apologized for hurting me sometimes. Though I still resent her, I felt sorry for her, couldn't avoid tears ended up hugging her. Though I'm still resentful, should I forgive her forget and start a new relationship free from resentments? She invited me to have a mother/daughter day this friday. Why should kids forgive parents if they dont forgive us when we make mistakes?

2007-02-05 22:07:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

no one that I know of. Most work because they have to. and what about the people who had great jobs and something happened where both parents now have to work??? Im not sure where people get the idea that People like to work. I can think of 20 things that ild rather be doing.

2007-02-05 21:56:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love eating out, not expensive restaurant of course, it gives me something to do i guess, but my finance is suffering, how can i stop eating out?

2007-02-05 21:32:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-05 21:20:59 · 23 answers · asked by fatima a 1

2007-02-05 21:20:41 · 3 answers · asked by manjari99999 1

With a smirk, my teen just told me last night that she has disclosed a very personal family secret to all her friends and that her friends hate me because of it. I was stunned and am so hurt and embarrassed by this rotten behavior. I took her phone away and computer, but I did that out of anger. When I tried to talk to her, she just mocked me and walked out. If I had ever treated my parents this way, they would have beaten the living hell out of me. What should I do?

2007-02-05 21:11:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

my neighbour is a single mum with 2 kids, 15 and 8, she doens't work at all, living off the government. I don't care its her choice, but my questions is why should my tax money support her kids ? she should pay her own way if she wanted 2 kids, my tax money should be used on my kids one day in school or kindagarden, what do you think?

2007-02-05 21:09:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am Asian, so my culture may be a lot different but I would like to know the opinion of ppls from multi culture.

2007-02-05 20:42:57 · 7 answers · asked by markk2u 1

I wanted to wait until they all got to know him before I told them but he thinks that because Ive waited they will not like him. Did I wait too long? Should I even tell them if it can be avoided?

2007-02-05 20:02:57 · 11 answers · asked by Sigi Rocks 1

2007-02-05 20:00:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-05 19:50:36 · 4 answers · asked by Soutballas 1

2007-02-05 19:47:51 · 8 answers · asked by Appu 1

i've confonted my mum about her 18 years of emotional and physical abuse towards me, she put me down, hit me or slap me whenever she feels like, she also beat me 2 times so bad i had to go to the hospital, the police even took the photo of my bruise. I have a similar personality to her which she doesn't like, she is very jealous of my loving relationship with my dad. her reason of abusing me was that 'you are a very difficult child', what she mean is when i was small, she asked me to do homework but i refuse so she beat the cr*p out of me, so its all my fault, she said i am a BORN BAD thats why i deserve to get beaten.. I am 27 and since moved out, please tell me was it my fault as a 'difficult' child? this is haunting me

2007-02-05 19:42:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went to my friend house so her and hubby could have a quiet evening without the children,well the neighbors come running out and her husband has a gun and she's telling me to call the police I told the oldest kid who is 14 to close the door he's telling me that's his friends mother,blah blah,so someone else called the police and she tells the cop I witnessed the whole thing and did nothing,now they're asking me can I come down and write a statement.I told them I don't live in this neighborHOOD!You understand?He told me if I witnessed the attack it's by law that I go and fill out this report,is this true?

2007-02-05 19:30:24 · 5 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6

I have 4 children . 2 are toddlers, I work an overnight shift because thepay is higher. I have to sleep when my husbandgets home from his job. I cant keep up on the housework. I clean one mess and my girls are making a bigger mess in anouther room. I come home every morning and it seems to get worse. I use Time outs, my girls are very small so they dont quite understand what it means. my older 2 only live with me 2 weeks out of the month and my ex the outher 2. I dont think they like comming here much because their sisters get into so much, What can i do?

2007-02-05 19:12:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-05 19:09:07 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a younger sister who is clearly favoured by my mum, my mum shows more affection and love towards her all my life, all i got was physically and emotional abuse, my mum beat me so bad i had to go to the hopsital, whereis my sister was never touched. also my mum publicly compare me to my sister 'only if you like you sister', or 'i'd rather have your sistre any time'. I've moved out of home long ago ,but it still hurts sometime, my sister knows she is favoured, my mum has also given her a house, but she said i have to 'earn' the house by being a good daughter.

2007-02-05 18:32:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I FEEL LIKE MY 9YR IS PULLING AWAY FROM ME AND IT SCARES ME . I KNOW SHE IS GROWING UP BUT WHAT CAN I DO SO WE CAN REMAIN CLOSE AND OPEN. INSTEAD OF FIGHTING AND YELLING ALL THE TIME?

2007-02-05 18:29:48 · 7 answers · asked by sweetpea4everus 1

I usally answer questions,but tonight i was thinking. My brother died over 20 years ago and my mom just ten years ago my dad 13 years ago and all my aunts and uncles over the years.. My grandparents when i was young..All these years I have been busy and working to strive and morn them and missed them but in the last year I have dreamed about them more and miss them more than I ever have.When I go to my hometown its like going to a place not really home.Its like my whole childhood has disappeared in front of my eyes.All the memories and the people that made them are gone now and it seems like im lost.Although I have a family and a home and a place.I just don''t know why it took me so long to realize my childhood is gone forever..It just seems strange..

2007-02-05 18:20:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mum is a manipulator, emotional vampire, she ruined my childhood with constant belittling, i am now 27 and moved out. I feel she is still trying to put me down from any chance she can get, last time she told me that i am too ugly for my boyfriend. she is getting old and expect me to look after her, should i just send her to nursing home?

2007-02-05 18:13:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-05 17:41:30 · 5 answers · asked by Tracey_ann W 1

we have been married a few years. my husband has 3 sisters all married now but one was unmarried when i came to their home. actually they have some stupid thing about how the sons of the family stays at home with his folks, ok my point is why do his sisters hate me i didnt do anything to them.his mom hates me too she says i took away her only son. how did i take him away hes still living at home with his parents if anything they r keeping him from me i want him all to myself cuz of stupid tridation i have to deal with this, his mom waits 4us to have fights she gets happy calls her daughters and gives them the news. first he was really close to his mom but although he still listens to any fake drama she pulls hes a little changed is this cuz im around hes getting used to me being in his life, my point is they r at it on me i hate them all why do they hate me why.they stare at me and look at everything i do i feel they check me out cuz i look good and they r jealous but why do they hate

2007-02-05 16:58:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it wrong of me to ask my aunt for makeup she doesn't use if i talk about her sometimes and say she is conceided and stuck up? and other things?

2007-02-05 16:47:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

omg.
i've had it. i can't stand it any longer.
i have been dealing with it for the past 6 years of my life and i can't do it anymore. i am physically and mentally sick. my mom is a raging alchoholic. she get so mean when shes drunk, which is every signle night. she picks fights with me, calls me names, makes fun of me, everything. i don't know what to do anymore. i just can't take it. i want to live with my dad because my parents are divorced but i don't want to start at a new school. i love the school i am at. how can i get my mom help...PLEASE HELP ME.

2007-02-05 16:35:50 · 7 answers · asked by blondie 2

2007-02-05 16:30:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Our children are 3 and 5. I want to celebrate the fact that they will be a big brother/sister soon. I've thought of getting them a "Big Brother/Sister" t-shirt, but couldn't get much further than that. Any ideas????

2007-02-05 16:25:23 · 9 answers · asked by MountainChick 3

I'm 15 and a girl. I have this annoying little sister. She's 12 and almost 13. She has to get into everything I do. I'm really into Superman and the show Lois and Clark and she had to copy me in that. The karate school I've been in for two years she suddenly decides to join. Whenever I'm talking to my mom she runs into the room and starts shouting just to bug me. She even admits to that. I'm not a violent person and even if I beat her up it's useless. Then she just beats up my 10 year old sister. I can't talk to her because she won't listen. If it's around nine and I'm finishing my homework she'll just come in my room and refuse to leave until I do her homework for her or help her. Now, I'm always staying up late because she blasts music until midnight. My parents are divorced and my mom won't do anything because she doesn't give a damn. I don't see why she should be my responsibilty at her age. I'm desperate for help. What should I do?

2007-02-05 16:15:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous