omg.
i've had it. i can't stand it any longer.
i have been dealing with it for the past 6 years of my life and i can't do it anymore. i am physically and mentally sick. my mom is a raging alchoholic. she get so mean when shes drunk, which is every signle night. she picks fights with me, calls me names, makes fun of me, everything. i don't know what to do anymore. i just can't take it. i want to live with my dad because my parents are divorced but i don't want to start at a new school. i love the school i am at. how can i get my mom help...PLEASE HELP ME.
2007-02-05 16:35:50 · 7 answers · asked by blondie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you can make new friend...move to your fathers home ...you need to love your self first... then help your mother from a new location...maybe by you moving with your dad your mother will react to it and she will change but for now think about yourself.
2007-02-05 16:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by mona w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out of that situation NOW. YOU are more important than the school is. Go live with your Dad. You can tell your mother to get help and maybe try to steer her in the right direction. Unfortunately you can't force help on her, it's going to take a real big wake call to steer you mom in the right direction. My mom was an alcoholic and she died before she got help. She never admitted it. Hopefully that won't be the case with your Mom.
2007-02-05 17:11:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw the school.
Go live with dad.
It's very hard for an alcoholic to stop...very.
Get out of this now.
Love her.
Give her support if she tries to quit.
...but get out now. She doesn't want you to live this either....no matter what else she may say about it, if she loves you, she'll understand.
Just remember that this isn't something she chose.
She can choose to try and change it, but this is NOT your fight...it is hers.
Unless she's being really abusive, don't get others outside of the family involved. You don't need the pricipal of your school getting the government involved in your life unless it is truly life threatening.
Good luck.
much luck.
2007-02-05 16:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by mmd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell anyone that will listen what your home life has become. Tell teachers, tell principals, tell any responsible adult you can trust so they can intervene. She needs rehab or risk losing you for good. It sounds like the best thing for you right now is to go live with your dad... because if you don't just to stay at your school you are choosing this environment that you are currently in. Good luck, sometimes life isn't fair but you will get through this.
2007-02-05 16:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by Me 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd say go live with your dad. You are taking on too much abuse && stress from your mom. If you stay something bad can happen. You can start to hate her. Just tell her you are going to live with your dad until she straightens up. She'll have the space && time to get better for you && herself. Let her know you will be there to support her if she wants to sober up.
Please, before your relationship is ruined...go with your dad.
2007-02-05 17:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by MuZzZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get out of there as it's destroying you. She has to come to grips with her lifestyle and what it's done to her family. Can you talk to a school counsellor or social worker or Pastor of your church? See if you can board with friends family until you find out what to do so you can stay at your school. The social worker could help with financing for room and board to get out of the abusive home. Whatever you do get out now.
2007-02-05 17:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its either a new school or u will just have to put up with it.
2007-02-06 08:51:00 · answer #7 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋