I usally answer questions,but tonight i was thinking. My brother died over 20 years ago and my mom just ten years ago my dad 13 years ago and all my aunts and uncles over the years.. My grandparents when i was young..All these years I have been busy and working to strive and morn them and missed them but in the last year I have dreamed about them more and miss them more than I ever have.When I go to my hometown its like going to a place not really home.Its like my whole childhood has disappeared in front of my eyes.All the memories and the people that made them are gone now and it seems like im lost.Although I have a family and a home and a place.I just don''t know why it took me so long to realize my childhood is gone forever..It just seems strange..
2007-02-05 18:20:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sometimes things just hit us. We go on existing and surviving from day to day and sometimes it takes a while for a reality to set in. But think about the circle of friends you have made--that can be your family, I'm sure you've made a mark on them. If you feel like the circle is incomplete, widen it out and get closer to your friends, think about people who never knew their family--their friends have become their family. It can be the same for you. That way you honor those family members you have lost by not getting swallowed up in grief and loss yourself.
2007-02-05 18:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by Someone who cares 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Losing someone we love is a part of our lives that only "our ownself" can help our ownself to move on and accept their lost. Accepting the lost of someone is the best way that will help you move on and continue all the good things that your loved ones taught you or perhaps pass it on to your children. Only time can heal all the wounds. You may lose someone in your life but you will still meet new people who can be a part of your life and perhaps bring changes and happiness. Everything happens for a reason. Also, think of other people who are also in your shoes but were able to move on.
2007-02-05 18:36:19 · answer #2 · answered by katie_kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your childhood isnt gone compleatly. You have happy memories. hold dear to those and smile when you think of them. make them happy, not sad. your family would want it that way. try focusing on making new memoriesfor you own children and grandchildren. then they too can look back at their childhood as being so good that they would like to go back. Never forget the ones you love that have passed, just know that they would want you happy.
2007-02-05 18:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mum ought to word promptly i imagine im her in hardship-free words chum awaken verify emails at least4 from her no reply via 7.30am she calls artwork calls my cellular shes a freak like that lol not an afternoon is going via i do not get a frantic telephone cal from her :) gotta love her
2016-12-03 19:05:39 · answer #4 · answered by klosterman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not gone forever. In my religion we believe in life after death, that you will be able to see your loved ones again. Look through all of your family photos, remember all of the good times that you had. Go to this website for more info. . hhttp://www.mormon.org I hope this helps. Take care, and God bless you.
2007-02-05 18:29:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry for your lost family.You may be lonely.Sometimes even though we have our family,but we feel lonely.You may be experiencing a depression or mid-life crises.
2007-02-05 18:27:56 · answer #6 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never allowed yourself to mourn your losses. It's OK to feel it now. Don't try to shut it out this time. Feel what you need to and then go on.
2007-02-11 15:49:57 · answer #7 · answered by #1 saints fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋