My sister had asked me to go on Vacation to Disney with her, and her husband and their daughter my neice. She wants me to go with them to help out with the baby (she is one). I am not sure if she really is asking me to go since she knows that I am not as well off as they are and that I really dont get to go on vacation. My husband says I should go, but it is weird, should I go? I don't want them to think I am taking advantage? or am I just being stupid?
2007-02-06 02:50:22 · 10 answers · asked by GingerCurtis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ask beforehand how much babysitting they plan on sticking you with.
2007-02-06 03:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by steemshovel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go. It will be nice for your sister to have help with the baby, and nice for you to get away. Whether she is asking you because you are not as well off, and don't get to vacation, or not, doesn't really matter. She is asking you out of love and the goodness in her heart. Go and have a great time!
2007-02-06 02:56:08 · answer #2 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think it's more likely that they would be taking advantage of you. Getting you to watch the baby while they do do their own thing.
If you want to go, I definitely would. Free trip is a good trade off for nanny services.
2007-02-06 02:53:33 · answer #3 · answered by Dally 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just exactly how much does she want you to help out with the 1 year old? You need to find out. They may want to take advantage of you.
2007-02-06 03:01:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not taking advantage, they asked you. It's a free trip but remember you are going as a babysitter and may not have the fun they will be having.
2007-02-06 02:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if u like to go then GO! its free vacation girl! ;)
i don't think that ur sister & her hubby will think that u are just taking advantage, they asked you to go, its not you who asked them!
2007-02-06 02:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to go then go.I don't see how you are taking advantage if they offered to take you it sound's like they are willing to take you because they want you to babysit and if you are ok with that then go.
2007-02-06 02:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sister doesn't respect your husband,if she wants to go with you she must invite your husband as well .Do you know what your husband feels now,he is not happy about it even if he agreed that you should go.
2007-02-06 03:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by prettyg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if they need a babysitter and you are there choice.
It is up to you. If you have nothing better to do go for it.
2007-02-06 02:54:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she had asked you to join them, then she wants you to be with them!
The question is, "do you want to go?" and not "should you go?".
2007-02-06 02:54:55 · answer #10 · answered by ✿Purple✿ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋