Every time my father in law comes to my house he is always winking at me giving me little sly smiles. At first I thought that I was just being paranoid but now i'm sure i'm not. Just the other day as I was dusting my house in the nude, he walked over to me and started massaging my breasts. I was stunned. When I asked him what he was doing, he said that he just wanted to make sure that I didn't have any lumps that would lead to cancer. My father in law is not a doctor. When I told my husband about this incident he just laughed and said that it was normal behavior for him. He even told me that his father has slep with many of his ex girlfriends and don't be surprised if tries to sleep with me as well. Is this right? Should my father in law be able to feel me up and sleep with me anytime he chooses? Help please!
2007-02-05 23:34:47 · 55 answers · asked by mamabag06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
NO, first of all, if anyone but your husbad is around why on earth would you dust in the nude you are just asking for something to happen. Get dressed when your home alone with this idiot. Tell him if he tries it again you are going to charge him with sexual harrassment. Take care Heather
2007-02-05 23:40:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay you didn't explain the situation very well...but what i'd like to know is why were you walking around your house naked while there was company over, even if it is family (in-laws)?
You said that your husband says his father has slept with his Ex's...Now you have to question your husband as of how he really feels about you if he thinks it's ok for another man to sleep with his wife, especially if this other man is a relitive, not to mention his father.
It's not ok for any man to, especially your husbands father, to make unwanted sexual advances to a woman. I don't know where you're from but in the states it's called sexual harrasment and it's illegal and he could get jail time for doing it. It's not ok and it's not normal, and if the behavior continues you may want to think about removing yourself from being put in the situation...
2007-02-05 23:44:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your story is full of crap. No man likes another man to touch his girl. Is a territorial thingh. Its instinc and only a handfull of people can overcome thousands of years of evolution I honestly think you are making the whole ting up. Good story though.
In the unlikely event that what yousay is true then the answer you are looking for is NO. Would you let some guy in school or from work come up to youand fondle your breasts to check for cancer. Thats a good one by the way. Checking for cancer HAHAHAHHA. Ayways, no you wouldn't its sexual harrasment.
The last thing is why where you dusting naked while the guy was there? Its bull I tell you. Whe a visitor comes buy people dress up. They don't walk around naked.
As a side note, if you think you need a second opinion on that cancer thing let me know and I'll come over to check it out. HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAH.
2007-02-05 23:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by mr_gees100_peas 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok well dusting the house in the nude when you know he is there might be leading him on, no man in their right mind isn't going to look at or touch any woman cleaning naked!!!!!!! Plus he is your father in-law he is not blood and unless you say to him other ways then yes he can sleep in the same bed as you and touch you up! If I was your boyfriend though, I would be having words, whether he was my father or not!!!!!
2007-02-05 23:42:29 · answer #4 · answered by cherri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off for you to be dusting in the nude with your father in law in the house is beyond bizarre. Second, for your husband "supposedly" responding as he did after informing him of the situation indicates he is beyond bizarre himself. Third, for you to even ask this question (and dust in the nude)implies you are either 11 cans short of a 12 pack or you simply have done lost your mind. You choose.
2007-02-05 23:53:03 · answer #5 · answered by tawnyajnelson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off what are you doing dusting in the nude in front of him? Second No means No even if you are nude! Last, you , your father and husband all need a reality check . I clean my house in the nude too but the only one in my home at the time is my boyfriend I would NEVER clean in the nude in front of someone else thats just twisted
2007-02-05 23:39:21 · answer #6 · answered by k®ì§ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u dress properly maybe u will not face this problem. Maybe it is not your father-in-laws fault, anyone would be tempted to feel the breast of a nude girl or maybe put a finger in the ......It is so tempting. After all father-in-law is also human and male and get aroused by a young nude female. U draw the limits by your dressing and behaviour.
2007-02-05 23:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not normal. The way your husband thinks the same with his father, make them perverts. Do you think your father in law sleeping with your husband's exs is right? NO! Probably thats the reason why your husband's ex-GFs left him.
@ He even told me that his father has slep with many of his ex girlfriends and don't be surprised if tries to sleep with me as well.
- your husband must be an a$$hole to say this.
2007-02-05 23:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dusting in the nude, dusting in the nude I just cant get of the part of dusting in the nude. How does this make dusting any easier? I suppose you bath with you cloths on to save on washing? what happens when you invite friends over for dinner?
2007-02-05 23:53:19 · answer #9 · answered by god 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is the THIRD time you raise this question at different places!!!! Everywhere else you were told its not right. But you persist!
OK, Ok, OK! Go on and let him massage your breasts and even sc**w you, if that is what you want.
You are a grown up women,thats why you got married in the first place. You should not ask this question here in order to find out if its right or wrong! You just want to be told its ok. So, OK, OK, OK!
Have fun, let both son and father sc**w you! Why not?
Gooooood luck!
2007-02-05 23:41:31 · answer #10 · answered by Ebby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋