she is always with me in my memories i feel sad everytime what will i do ????
2007-02-06 01:13:38 · 17 answers · asked by ravi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i got a perfect way to make you even forgot your name...marry and get 5 children
2007-02-06 01:17:07 · answer #1 · answered by Memo HG 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
My father passed away a few years ago. I was miserable for a long time. There is a process you must go through first. I went through an array of emtions. I found that actually talking about the good times, the funny things he used to do, and things we did together made me feel better. I finally came to terms with the whole idea that I wouldn't see him. He is in my thoughts and in my heart. I know he is not suffering anymore. It is natural for you to feel sad. It will take some time. It does get better. There will be some times where you feel fine and then one memory will make you sad. That's okay. You might find yourself being very sad during holidays and special days you shared together. Basically, hang in there. It will get easier even though it doesn't seem that way right now.
2007-02-06 01:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by zumi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your loss.I understand how you feel and it is very normal.Your sister was a special person in your life and you will alway's love and miss her.I lost my brother 24 yeras ago and I still miss him and at times get sad.I think it it is a good thing to feel this way because that just shows that he is not forgotten and he was very loved.You will never forget your sister and that is a good thing you need to keep her spirit and memory alive.Take care and just take it one day at a time.
2007-02-06 01:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My sister also died (in my arms) 2 years ago...this June. I will always remember her and you should your sister. But I also remember the good times and things about her. We will all die eventually. The most important message my sister taught me before she died was for me to "Live until I die"...and not be sad.
2007-02-06 01:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it's difficult losing a close family member. I lost my mother 9 years ago and yet I thought of her EVERYDAY without fail. Initially, it was very sad and I would cry everytime i think of her. Time heals....and now, I think of her but I no longer grieve. I only remember the good times we used to share. Try talking to other family members about her life....it helps. Good luck.
2007-02-06 01:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We lost my husbands brother many years ago and I think of him often. It's mostly happy memories these days, but I have a few sad moments too. Just remember she is always with you.
2007-02-06 01:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey ravi! I lost my brother 12 yrs ago and I still haven't forgotten him. I get sad sometimes knowing he's gone, but smiles when I remember the happy times. So don't try to block her from your memories, just keep her alive in your heart.
2007-02-06 01:45:28 · answer #7 · answered by passion 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 years ago i lost 2 people that meant the world to me my grandpa and my step mom who was also my best friend....and like you i think about them everyday, and yes it is hard and you will still be sad. it is one of the hardest things we go through here on earth. I dint think its something you can not feel sad about for a long long time.....so when you think about her think about the best times you have ever had with her and let yourself feel sad she is your sister....and something that helps me ALOT is that now they dont have a care in the world they are free in a sense no more problems they dont have to worry about a thing. i know it has to be hard i couldn't imagine losing my brother, just hang in there it will get better...maybe not today maybe not tomorrow but it will ease in time.
2007-02-06 01:37:29 · answer #8 · answered by manilovehim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister died 3 years ago age 30 and it was a bolt out the blue for the family when i get sad and i think about her i do try to think of the happy times not the bad and i always think of these few words
What we keep in our hearts is ours to keep unchanged forever
i hope this helps just a little x x x
2007-02-06 01:32:05 · answer #9 · answered by andrea.barrett36 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't forget her. You're always going to feel sad when you think about her, but you can feel happiness, too, when you think about the good things. Time will help ease things a little, but unfortunately, the pain will never really go away. Consider going to grief counseling. It might help.
I'm very sorry for your loss.
2007-02-06 01:18:17 · answer #10 · answered by Jess H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your sister will be in your heart and in your memories for ever,
Don't feel sad- feel happy because God let you have a sister, he let you know her and love her. Your sister is watching over you so be happy always, give thanks every day of your life for all that is giving and for all that you have and move on.
Smile ,God is watching. ;~)
2007-02-06 02:13:56 · answer #11 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋