we recently got an extended family, son, granddaugter, and daughter , the granddaughter is so rebellious and can't get along with no one. no matter what you do for her if its not her way then it the mean girl coming out of her. i'm really sick of it what to i do, need help
2007-02-05 15:51:20 · 7 answers · asked by SHIRLEY S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ok loosing a family member is tough believe me i know , but its 10 times worse when you loose you,r mom we all grow up but the one person who has been in our life and has always been there for us no matter what happens is our mothers. they are the ones who bring us into the world and untill we are of age they have every say so about us they have all the worrys when we are sick or when we are in trouble and so on , just remeber you only have onme mom in this whole world and that is the mom that brought you into the world. moms fall in love with tya before your even born, she makes a bond with you .one no one else can. so always love your mom and when they pass its the worst thing that can happen to a kid ever. im sorry about you,r loss the pain never goes away it just gets easier ya i laughed at that one to when they told me that but its been two yrs now and it is easier but i also have pictures of her all over now and i could not do that for along time untill now. she was my bestfriend in the whole world.
2007-02-05 16:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by angelblossom1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First , my deepest sympathy for your loss. You're still basically in shock. So many things will be different. It takes time to adjust.
The child may be reacting to the upheaval in the changes, too, and kids don't have coping mechanisms, so they act out.
My Goddaughter lost her Daddy when she was 3 1/2, and altho she really didn't know what all had happened, her behavior got really bizarre, mean and hateful, scarey.
Right now, tho, you have to take care of YOUR mental health, so steer clear of the child when she is unbearable---if you all live under the same roof, take a drive, take a walk, put some distance between the two of you. Explain to her mom that you
need a break from the fits.
Reach out to your friends for support through this most difficult time. You local Hospice will have free grief counseling, and you don't have to have been helped by them before to get this. They offer one on one sessions or group help. I highly recommend them as a source of guidance.
Some churches offer grief counseling, and you don't have to be a member of the church, or even their religion to participate. Talk to your doctor, you may need some medication if you become depressed and/or have trouble sleeping. Help is out there, and you don't have to be alone.
2007-02-05 16:38:46 · answer #2 · answered by Lola 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fairly a lot to do the right element !! God purposed that Adam and Eve and their toddlers make the finished earth a paradise. He did not intend that people advance previous and die; nor did he favor mankind to damage the surroundings. notwithstanding, via undesirable options made with assistance from our first mom and father, we've inherited sin and lack of existence. (Genesis 3:2-6; Romans 5:12) notwithstanding, Jehovah’s purpose has no longer replaced. quickly the earth will be a paradise.—Isaiah fifty 5:10, 11.
2016-11-02 11:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you Shirley.you lost your mom and your granddaughter is bothering.These problems if not solved by experts can drive you mad.Go over them in a cool manner if unable please see a counselor who can tell how to go about it.I lost my own Mom last July and I know how pain full it is.Shirley Aim sure your mom would not have liked to see you in the situation you are in.Be happy and live a happy life.My heart feels for you and I wish you the best life.Dont let emotions and frustrations drive you mad.
2007-02-05 16:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by mukwathagicu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm so sorry about your mother passing. God be w/ her & you both. as far as the rebellious granddaughter, when she gets in her rebellious phase dont react to it. she offcourse does this for a reaction which she thinks may be in her favor. dont budge. be firm w/ all deciscions b/c she is after all the young one.after failed attempts @ trying to get her way through rebellion, she'll give it a rest b/c she'll realize what a waste of efforts & energy it is......good luck!
2007-02-05 16:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by ♰ smooth sailing ♰ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for your loss. It's going to take more time. You need to get over the loss of your mother. At least get a point where it isn't so painful. It's not the little girls fault and you should avoid her if you can't handle her.
2007-02-05 15:55:54 · answer #6 · answered by mamabear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey put all your love into her
2007-02-05 15:54:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋