2007-02-05 00:05:24 · 18 answers · asked by Monkey 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
do they have a computer? you could see them and talk on web cam, or exchange emails to keep in touch, is there good reason why you are banned from seeing them? who has done the banning? your mum, or your dad or someone else? could you let us know a little more about the reasons and ill try to help.some of my children are seperated from each other,and get to see each other only in holidays and they feel the same as you im sure.
how does your sister feel? maybe you could tak to both your parents and try to reach some agreement that is for the childrens benefits and not just what the parents want.
2007-02-05 00:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If its a family member banning you from seeing them I would seriously try and talk to them about it. If they can't see it from your point of view, then try and email and phone as much as possible to try and ease the pain a bit. I don't know what I would do in this situation, you don't want to miss out on your family but you don't want to go against the wishes of someone else. Get your dad to try and talk some sense into the person or come up with some solutions. Alls not lost yet, don't give up, fight for what you want !!
2007-02-05 01:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having got 7 Grandchildren by my 3 children and 2 of the Mothers being control freaks I can see where you are coming from. My Grandson was banned from seeing his Dad until he went to court and got a court order for joint responsibilty and contact rights.......18 months later at 13 years old his son decided he wanted to live with him (it was my Grandsons choice) and from this I know you can contact a solicitor yourself to sort out whoever is stopping you your rights to see your Dad and Sister.....Make an appointment you should get it free as I assume you are minor, I also suggest you talk with your teachers at schoool if you still go there, there should be one who can put you in touch with the right people.
2007-02-05 09:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by jaycee1940 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would phone them up by a public phone and explain your situation and that you do want to be in touch. You do not say who is banning you from contact with them, but if it is your mother then she is not doing you any favours and will make you act deceptively to her, tell her that although you love her he is your dad and that you miss your sister. Is there any way you can move to be with your dad, as this situation is very unhealthy no one should ban you from being in contact with your family. Good luck to you hope it all works out ok.
2007-02-05 00:44:28 · answer #4 · answered by Kirks Folley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by 'banned'. If you are legally forbidden from seeing them then you'll have to wait until either the ban is lifted or the ban expires (probably when you turn 18).
If however, it's your mum who's stopping you from seeing your dad then you have to decide if you are going to go against her wishes and if you really want to see them get them to meet you half way (you can get the train).
2007-02-05 00:08:33 · answer #5 · answered by mark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that really does depend on why you have been banned from seeing them.If there is a legal reason then you will just have to wait till you are old enough and able to decide for yourself.If on the other hand its just your mum saying you cant then try talking to her and if that doesnt work then maybe go to another relation and see if they can help.good luck and i do hope you get it all sorted.
2007-02-05 00:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by alithebimbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So surprised you are getting answers to your question as it sounds you are young and could be influenced by answers. There are so many reasons why this could be happening and the word 'banned' may not even may not be the correct explanation. Think if you want constructive help you would need to explain more.
2007-02-05 11:06:12 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to phone them or mail them, but then only if they wnat to contact u.I'd try everything to get back in contact with my beloved Sis and Dad, even the most funny,terrible thing.
I'm really sorry for u and it must be outrageous to be banned from meeting them.
2007-02-05 00:16:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that it has to be hard, i was separated from my mom for 8 years and separated for 2 years from my sister, brother, and dad. But i don't completely understand your situation but i know that you will be able to see them again and until then you should pray and i will pray that you will be able to have contact soon. Just remember that they love you and you love them until then.God will always be with you
2007-02-05 00:27:25 · answer #9 · answered by TIFFANY G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's terrible. It sounds like you're under 18. When you reach 18 years of age, you'll be able to do anything you like. If it was me, I would call them from a public phone when I got a chance.
2007-02-05 00:09:08 · answer #10 · answered by H. Scot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋