We have a mobile home that is on my in-laws land and we have been trying to move it.........the first two house movers screwed us around and now the city we are moving into is giving us a hard time. Seems they are trying to outlaw mobile homes, the house mover we have now is trying everything he can to help us, but sometimes lately I feel it is a little hopeless. We have been in a motel for over a month now and I am tired and stressed out. My in-laws have been hateful, mean people and we just want to get away and live our own lives. Don't know that I really have a question just looking to vent and find some hopeful words.
2007-02-05 02:03:28 · 9 answers · asked by ladybug 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You know how it is when we go through a difficult time that it seems to drag on forever----and after it is over and we look back we can see that it wasnt that long-----just keep your eye on the goal and what this move will mean for you and ur hubby------my prayers are with you.
2007-02-05 02:25:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a goal, you have a husband that you love and now a guy is helping you move your mobile home,
your stress level is out of this world, but you do know you are doing the right thing for both of you so stick with your plans.
people with perceived power always try to bring down people if they can to make themselves feel better. find out all the zoning laws and other related ones to this town you are trying to get into. have it written down for your own sake. contact relocation members and ask about regulations and info they may have.
get to know some of them, go to a new church check them out make some contacts with different people, meet them for coffee and get out of the motel and get some fresh air and good luck to you.
2007-02-05 02:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitely have had the comparable concern before with pals and family individuals. I positioned up with it for an prolonged time, i do unlike turning childrens away the two. and of course the mothers and dads does not care or they could provide me the sob tale - "nicely, so and so grew to become into crying simply by fact she needs again play too". Yup - then i could sense undesirable and flow nuts chasing around the only that grew to become into youthful and not fidgeting with considered one of my infants. i eventually have been given a lower back bone, now that my 4 childrens are 9 by 17 yrs. previous - I only tell human beings i'm sorry yet, i'm not taking the babies anymore! I used to babysit practically each family individuals member or pals childrens i be attentive to - a number of them finished time. tell the in-regulations which you adore the little female yet, you're too busy to entertain a 2 365 days. previous. to not point out i be attentive to finished nicely how they get into each little thing. in the event that they have any brains - they could understand that the two the comparable age are enjoying jointly and the newborn is only being babysat. that's thoroughly unfair for them to punish the older one by in basic terms letting him come over if the little you are able to nonetheless too. I hate while mothers and dads try this! specifically circumstances the extra youthful ones only are not getting to do each little thing the older ones do. UG! Sorry it is long, you only struck a chord in me simply by fact I definitely have been there - carried out that! solid success to you!
2016-09-28 10:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I believe in signs to kinda warn us and guide us so don't fret. I think it's not that you shouldn't move or move on--maybe, you just shouldn't move the mobile home. Sell it and let someone else try to move it. Then you can move out and on. In-laws get better the farther away you live from them. Keep your chin up!!!!!
2007-02-05 02:14:32 · answer #4 · answered by AmyMommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i hear you I'm still in that boat. you are truly doing the right thing. I've been married 10 years ans it was the best thing that i could do for my marriage i only moved 1 hour away from mine but shes still stirring the pot. bite your tongue whatever you do because it will drive a wedge between you and your man. (granted their are some times wear you just cant) email me @kmcornette@yahoo
2007-02-05 02:10:35 · answer #5 · answered by dirt77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, i know how you are feeling i have in-laws too.sometimes they can be a real pain in the but. But you just have to remember, they love you honey and if they really wanted to be good in-laws the would be happy for you and respect your decision 100%!!!
2007-02-05 03:07:32 · answer #6 · answered by yo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you are going through all this. Is there any way you can sell the trailer and maybe buy one already in place? I'll pray that all works out for you.
2007-02-05 02:08:22 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out where exactly you would be able to move it without trouble, and afterwards you can sell it, but the main thing is get out of there. peace can come at a price but it is always worth it.
2007-02-05 02:18:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up! Stay strong and things will work out. Best wishes to you.
2007-02-05 02:07:16 · answer #9 · answered by §Sally§ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋