Family - February 2007

my dad was an *** my whole life to me not physically (only when i was 6 mtnhs he slapped me for not finishing my food) he's not really mean anymore and he's doing his mr. nice guy act to get my mom back (we moved out) and my mom being those gullible oh i'm lonely and want a husband type of woman is going back (even though he controls her and my & my bro and she says she doesn't love him and really never will be tht happy w/ him)........... i hope he's mean to her again so she'll come back and hopefully just hopefully she'll never go back again i know tht's mean but i tht's how i feel.....i'm happy though she's now letting me live w/ my grandma when she goes bak but it's still not the same....and he goes there everyday......yea my extended famly likes him knowing how he treated us men can get away w/ **** in our culture.....if you want more info on how he was look at my other questions (he lyk emotionally abusive alwasy yelling & ****)

yea so am i wrong or messed up for how i feel

2007-02-04 13:42:45 · 8 answers · asked by mamama 2

I have been really depressed and under a great deal of stress and my mother in law said she wouldn't help me. No reason except that she doesn't want to. I asked her 3 times when I needed help during 3 times DESPERATLY. One time it was because she wanted to eat lunch with her friends. Now I don't expect her to drop everything but she has never come over to my house to help me ever or even ever come over to visit. She expects us to go see her.
Also, I have no family at all and my friends all work so the only person I have is her.
Would you be upset or no?
Thanks.

2007-02-04 13:40:47 · 8 answers · asked by tina*21 2

Are you in Los Angeles?

2007-02-04 13:24:07 · 1 answers · asked by bostontransplant 2

my mom and dad lived just a few blocks away when they were young and only knew each other through friends when they were 14. they started dating when they were in their 20s. but the thing is my dad used to dislike my mom. funny isn't? now that they are together and have never met each other although they lived in the same estate.

do you have any stories to share?

2007-02-04 13:20:41 · 6 answers · asked by kimberley hong 1

I have a family member that has a very bad drug addiction. Rehab has not helped. She just found out that she is pregnant and I am afraid she won't be able to stop what she is doing. What can I do to help her?

2007-02-04 13:19:29 · 11 answers · asked by Jill 2

My Mother in-law is driving me crazzy and it's like everything my husbands dose for her like taking her on trips with us or just taking her out to eat or shopping she never seems thankful for it. And she makes him and I sound like the bad guys to her other children. And it just drives me crazzy that my husband takes this from her.

2007-02-04 13:18:59 · 34 answers · asked by JG78 3

2007-02-04 13:14:04 · 6 answers · asked by Willy D 1

2007-02-04 13:04:34 · 5 answers · asked by love2read141 2

we expect more from bahu(daughter in law) totake care of husbend ,mother n father in law,brother nsister in law,but do all of them respect n little careing about her?

2007-02-04 12:59:50 · 6 answers · asked by dr.raju a 1

Sometimes I just cry till I calm nyself out of the rage mood of smacking her?

2007-02-04 12:51:57 · 32 answers · asked by InLoveWithHim 1

well me and my boyfriend and our baby are living in my room in my parents house because we are trying to get the money to get out own place. But since my bf was working with my dad, they started to not like each other really. like going to work and coming home to each other just wasent working. They used to like each other perfectly fine, but he quit there because it was too hard on them. so now they like hate each other and they always talk about each other, and of course im always in the middle of it. My dad b*tches to me about him, and my bf b*tches to me about my dad, and its just do damn frustrating.
I dont know what to do.
but it seems like my bf has changed too though. he isent really the same way when i met him.. and its really sad.
he wont come upstairs and socialize with my dad, if my mom is up here (without my dad being here) he will come up here perfectly fine. It's driving me insane!!

2007-02-04 12:51:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-04 12:31:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm 23 years old i've been looking for my birth mom and dad and sister forever my birth grandma wont give me any information on her or them and i have th right to know who they are and ask questions im not mad i had a good child hood but i think its time i meet my birthfamily and i have no way of finding them i tryed everything in the book to find them and some reason i cant find them if anyone knows a sandy travis or a william lovett both would be around 43-45 years old by now i'd greatly apricate it contact me on my space www.myspace.com/numberonehatedfemale

2007-02-04 12:26:00 · 3 answers · asked by glitterladybug2003 1

let a woman "serve" him. I don't think it's a super big deal, but today after barbeque, all the women (my grandma. my mom, my aunt, and my brother's girlfriend) cleaned the kitchen, while we guys just sat around talking in the living room. Why did I just sit and let the women clean after us......?

2007-02-04 12:06:32 · 12 answers · asked by Philip Kiriakis 5

Although we haven't seriously discussed future plans, this is still something that may cause problems down the line. My boyfriend recently built a house for himself, his parents next door and a cottage for his grandparents behind that. They all come and go as they please and although I love his family, I would be miserable not having privacy or alone time with him. He is perfectly content spending the rest of his life there, and even tells me that his grandparents cottage is his "retirement plan". I've told him I don't see this being my "forever house" for various reasons, including size, personal taste and the fact that I want to build a life WITH him, not find room to fit into his, but have been to afraid to admit that the biggest reason is because of the close proximity of his family. I don't want to hurt or upset him but I'm not sure how to honestly tell him how I feel...Any gentle suggestions?

2007-02-04 11:59:30 · 11 answers · asked by Amere124 1

but my girlfriend won't let me. She's making me watch figure skating with her. I'm writing this as she's in the bathroom. If she sees me do this, she will hit me with a pan again. She actually dented one the other day she hit me so hard with it. My question is, does anyone know any good sites to buy new pans?

2007-02-04 11:49:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I could understand if it was ****, ****,****,****,************, or ****

2007-02-04 11:48:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey....I have been trying to be on good terms with my sister in law since I met her but she remains to dislike me. As soon as she met me she was rude to me. I have been married for 3 years to my husband and have come to find that his family walks on egg shells for her. Its his brother who is married to her...she did likes EVERYONE in her husbands family..so I really don't feel left out but whenever we get together at family events she is totally ignores my existence..this bothers me because I feel like you should be able to at least be friendly to your family...it bothers me so much I worry about it...and my husband and I fight about her...Any suggestions?

2007-02-04 11:32:49 · 15 answers · asked by sarastorm 1

having sex with my dad what dose that mean.I mean my dad is actrive but not for me.

2007-02-04 11:29:20 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2

i dont live with my dad, so he always wants to take me and my litle brother out, even wen we're realy tired and its a schoolday. and if we tell him so he gives us guilt-trips/gets angry. i woke up this morning w/ a sore throat so when he called today and told me that he had a sore throat i just joked around and said "gr, u got me sick" and he started yelling @ me, accusing me of siding w/ my mom, gave me guilt trip and hung up.i kno i mite be wrong but it just gets me kinda frustrated wenever he hides the truth from us and takes us out anyway (and he knew he was sick alredy when he took us out the day b4 me & my bro got sick, he just didnt tell us). and i get yelld @/blamed by my mom and my dad wenever i go out wit any one of em, or if my lil bro gets sick, like its al my fault. bc of that i cant tell if i realy am selfish and its my fault for certain things or if my parents are just not acting lik how responsible parents shud? what do u guys think?

2007-02-04 11:26:19 · 11 answers · asked by neffyiffy 2

me and my older brother used 2 do everything together. he is only 6 months older then me (and yes im serious) but now he spends all his time with our cousin (who is our age) and doesn't want 2 do anything with me anymore. is there anything i can do 2 make it so he will want 2 spend time with me again?

2007-02-04 11:24:17 · 4 answers · asked by the idiot down the road 4

Lovely woman really ,just worth more dead and will probably look better that way , any suggestions on how to kill her without getting caught ? I would throw her into the sea but i know the fish would throw her back , please help

2007-02-04 11:08:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-04 11:02:18 · 4 answers · asked by Kristen H 2

a heart chocolate heart recess...and a hallmark card and i wrote in it. yeah... so do you think it's enough because thought counts ringht? but she's really picky..... i did go through a lot to get her that..... so should i just not worry

2007-02-04 10:51:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dad who's afghanistan keeps beeting my mom.
and sometomes me and even my 2 year old brother.
and my mom is too afraid to put him in jail because she "loves" him.
what should I and my mom do?
and he has been in prison back in russia wich is where im from.

2007-02-04 10:47:19 · 33 answers · asked by diana k 1

I have a friend who went through watching her father abuse her mother physically, seeing her father getting drunk on a daily basis while her mother held down two jobs, but she sets a good example for her daughter. Her daughter is actually the result of the very first time she had sex; she was only 18. The father of her 16 year-old never took responsiblity, but she's a nurse, now.

2007-02-04 10:45:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a Step son who does not wish to work. He was asked to leave the family home some 12 weeks ago because he acted very badly and did not wish to work. He did leave and has been on the streets ever since. He is 18 years old. How many more parents out there have the same problem? Can' believe that someone of his age does not wish to work and does not care about anything at all.

2007-02-04 10:26:58 · 8 answers · asked by Barry W 2

my dad who's afghanistan keeps beeting my mom.
and sometomes me and even my 2 year old brother.
and my mom is too afraid to put him in jail because she "loves" him.
what should I and my mom do?

2007-02-04 10:23:13 · 15 answers · asked by diana k 1

2007-02-04 10:12:17 · 11 answers · asked by Rebecca S 2

A few days ago, my friend Lisa pantsed me at our softball game. I wouldn't be that mad (on my team, we pants each other all the time in the locker room and stuff), except it was in front of many of the parents of the girls on our team (everyone else had left the game already, so it was just the parents who were still there). I got really mad and refused to talk to her... And I haven't seen her since. However, I WILL see her on tuesday, and I have no IDEA how to act... I hate fighting with people, but I'm still angry about what she did... Any advice?

2007-02-04 09:33:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous