my dad who's afghanistan keeps beeting my mom.
and sometomes me and even my 2 year old brother.
and my mom is too afraid to put him in jail because she "loves" him.
what should I and my mom do?
2007-02-04 10:23:13 · 15 answers · asked by diana k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I believe there is no reason for beating anyone..especially the ones your supposed to love..(your family)..and well I know that can make a person afraid to take any action and turn the person who is beating them in...but if you just continue to let that happen..it will only get worse..so call the cops or something...and be strong..Good Luck..
P.S. I'll be praying for you! =)
2007-02-04 10:28:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she doesnt want to see him jail because of "love" I can kinda understand that but she doesnt have to stay with him or put up with that. He has a problem and all the "love" in the world is not gonna change that sweetie. U need to tell somebody, a family member or someone who can at least take u and your brother out of the situation. As hard as it would be to know your mom is still in the situation u can do anything because she is in "love" and not realizing what she is puttin the 2 of u thru. At least save yourself and your brother. Tell someone
2007-02-04 18:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a picture of every member of your family that currently has bruises and the the pictures to your guidance councilor, or another teacher at school. I will be praying for you.
If you are living in Afghanistan your teachers may not help, talk to an American Solider and ask for advice.
2007-02-04 18:46:58 · answer #3 · answered by Mad Maxine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is put him in jail and get a protection order against him. no one deserves to be put through this nobody. if he is doing this to you, you do not have to wait for your mom to put him in jail, you can do it yourself. just call the cops. one of these days he is going to do this to you guys and he is going to go too far and kill you. put him in jail yourself because that is where he belongs and your mom is confused because she loves him. you will be saving the life of your whole family. i am very serious about what i am saying here. do this as soon as you can. you may not have another chance. good luck and get away from him. put his no good you know what behind bars for good.
2007-02-04 18:41:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry for what you are going through...but you need to realize that what you are in is not LOVE....love doesn't beet...i know your dad may not be doing it out of hate....but he is NOT DOING IT FOR LOVE!!! your mom needs to understand that her kids are more important then her husband....and if she says she loves him....how much less does she care for you and your brother....i have known others in similar situations and it is difficult to get out...i understand...but doing what's moraly right for you and your kides is far better than letting someone you "love" get away with what's wrong! i will keep you and your family in my prayers... my advice is to call the authorities, he doesn't love you. if you call the authorities, you will then find out if he really cares for you!!!! please tell your mom not to choose her husband but to choose to do what's RIGHT for her and HER CHILDREN!!!! her children should always come first!!!! www.christians4worship.com
2007-02-04 18:33:49 · answer #5 · answered by www.christians4worship.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you live in the United States you have plenty of people to go to.. if you live in Afghanistan, you're out of luck !!
2007-02-04 18:31:42 · answer #6 · answered by MIGHTY MINNIE 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should talk to a teacher at school about your situation. Also tell your Mother that she is supposed to protect her children. She needs to know that "love doesn't hurt".
Good luck to you.
2007-02-04 18:30:36 · answer #7 · answered by Breeana R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you don't call the cops and have him arrested,he is going to keep doing it....there is not that much love in the world to go through something like that.... good luck
2007-02-04 18:29:46 · answer #8 · answered by Kev 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get some help. call social services. most abusive relationships she loves him because she is scared. and she thinks she loves him. when she gets out of it and looks back she will see how bad it is because u never really see until ur out. but def. get help quick. gud luck!
2007-02-04 18:29:06 · answer #9 · answered by sara ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg....are u serious? the best thing to do is to get out of the house while he is gone. tell someone before it gets so serious.....omg i feel so bad! for now focus on getting anyway...and tell your mother if he loved her so much that he wouldn't be doing that to her.......tell her their is someone out there better for her okay......good luck
2007-02-04 18:30:28 · answer #10 · answered by **BeautiFul** 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋