Family - February 2007

I am married, but had a boyfriend who I was head over hills, after 5 months. I got a apartment paid a deposit prior to that he said I was taking to long. He just stop calling, about a month later he called my cellular phone and came out to my job asking if I stilled loved him. proir to him stop calling his mom called me asked me what happened and told me he had brought a lady my her house
So they end up getting a apartment having a baby now he is not with her. his mom keeps calling me telling me what is going on
can she be truthful. telling me he has bought a home, why is this my concern, for what reason she keeps calling and keeping me inform. She keep saying things like well he asked about you for the first time like if it was her she would have paid for it
I used to hear from him but it has been over a year now or do you think his mother is keeping him up, which she say she is not
he even told me to stop calling his mom, which I did and I told her
but she stills call me.

2007-02-04 01:57:40 · 3 answers · asked by stressed 1

2007-02-04 01:43:04 · 2 answers · asked by jaja 2

I wanted a car for my birthday. Then I said to them that I wanted a red car, Instead they gave a car thats blue. I said I wanted a red car not a blue car. Then I went mad then I begin to cry. My parents mess up my sweet 16.

2007-02-04 01:41:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know of only one such couple.When their partners died, they were very lonely and reunited.

2007-02-04 01:38:12 · 1 answers · asked by sm 3

I am 12 and my sister is 16 and she is not supposed to drive without an adult yet. But I wanted to go to my friends house and it is just a couple of blocks away and it was raining. So I asked her to zip me over there and she did. Mom found out and told Daddy.
Now my sister and I got grounded 2 weeks each. Also we got spanked by daddy with the belt 10 smacks on the bare butts bent over grabbing ankles. We share a room so we had to watch each other. And I have to write some dumb essay on responsibility for my actions. My sister has to write one on why driving in the rain with only a permit is dangerous. The essays have to be at least three pages typed single spaced.

The grounding means no car for her no phone for either of us and when we come home it is right to our room and then out for supper then back to our room. Chores will be assigned each weekend. Other than that we live in our room. At least they did not take away our TV or X-Box or computer.

Is this fair?

2007-02-04 00:57:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-04 00:54:02 · 13 answers · asked by Up-side-down 4

we have already cut out dinning out almost completely so I am talking about the amount we have to spend at the grocery store each month. Thanks.

2007-02-04 00:47:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi.
I am a nanny for the most wonderful family.
However, I am interessted in moving back to my hometown to be closer to MY family and continue my education. I am very upset and nervous about giving my notice.
I have been with them for three years and love them all very much. i am planning on giving them 2 months notice. I am worried about a few things:
1.Letting them down
2.Awkwardness between us
3.well being of the girls(age 4 and 7)
4.when is the best time to tell them? Is this enough time for them to find a replacement?do I tell them with the children around?

I would appreciate any sort of information/encouragement.

Peace and Love,
Bella

2007-02-04 00:42:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is always on the phone. This bugs me because she could talk to me and when I try to talk to her she just acts rude. But she says she is happily married?

2007-02-04 00:22:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i live in spain and i really iss all my family i live in spain wit ma mum n dad but i realllllllllly miss ma sister and brother and i dont really get to see them alot and ma sister has 4 kids!i really want to know how i can fell like im anted by my family because when i go to englan to visit them all they talk to me like they dont know me well cam any 1 help me plz

2007-02-03 23:55:28 · 4 answers · asked by Stephen 1

my mum and dad have both been with some one else befor they got togther and had me but why is it that if any thing happens wit ma dad kids he always takes it out on me and makes ma life HELL????? plz some 1 help

2007-02-03 23:51:49 · 11 answers · asked by Stephen 1

I live with my grandpa, but I've realized that most of my family members are horribly emotionally abusive towards anyone they see as weak or different from them, including me and my younger cousins. I see my aunts and uncles alot, and they usually have nothing good to say about me, they gossip about me and my friends and they put me down constantly. Its not constructive criticism either, I don't know anyone whose family does this to them besides mine, except my one friend, who I recently had to get away from because she's become very nasty too, taking about me behind my back, belittling me in front of others..etc.

I can't get away from people's constant put-downs, insults, and I don't know what to do about it. I could move to Florida with my Mom, my half-brother and my stepsister, but all they do is baby me and they never let me do anything and they spoil me rotten... it seems like its either one extreme or another.

I keep having anxiety attacks whenever I'm around my other family members, but I know if I move away and my Mom and siblings will baby me all the time, and they won't let me do anything for myself, like get a job... or do anything... that isn't healthy either.

It's not tough love, I've thought about that and there is a big difference... I don't believe I deserve to be called stupid or belittled in public as often as they do.. I just can't take it anymore.. my grandpa loves his kids, and he doesn't really pay attention or care whenever they say these hurtful things to me... I can't confront them about it.. I've tried, and I only get laughed at and ridiculed more..

Help.. what can I do?

I'm moving to college in about 7-8 months... there has to be something I can do until then..

2007-02-03 23:09:56 · 14 answers · asked by Rae-Rae Nikkoles <3 3

She's absolutely crazy she's had three people in my family thrown in jail. She hits my brother. I've been to court so many times. Where I live the police department won't do anything. I need help!

2007-02-03 23:07:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a dilemma that I find difficult to deal with. My brother's wife launched an all out attack of me in February 2006, completely out of the blue, no warning...nothing. I was stunned.
I decided the best route to take was to let it go and not fuel the situation. I did ask her in the beginning what had happened for her to feel so angry at me, only to be screamed at and accused of things that are simply not true. It almost borders on comical the things she is accusing me of...My brother is baffled too.

I cannot continue to allow this verbal abuse and attack of my characater...it is becoming slanderous at this point. I need to find the best way to tell her to back off now...I must let her know that she has crossed the line, and I will not tolerate any more of her verbal abuse, and bring an end to this nonsense once and for all.

Any suggestions on what would be the best way to do this? It has become necessary that I insist she stop her ridiculous behavior.

2007-02-03 23:06:28 · 13 answers · asked by sugar4660 1

please elaborate on it. I am referring to a incident that can be sad,nostaglic,happy,funny or frightening.

2007-02-03 22:47:54 · 13 answers · asked by cherrielicker 1

Our 18 year old daugher, Miss I Know What I'm Doing, moved back home after only 4 mnths. She moved out with her g'friend. They paid the first month's rent at their apartment and didn't pay any more. They were evicted. Now, she knew before she moved that we wouldn't be able to help much because her dad got caught in a mass lay-off and ended up with a lower paying job. I work as well. We also have 3 younger children. We told her if she moved back home, she'd have to pay rent, car ins. and pitch in on food. All total it only amnts to about $200 a month. Cheap if you ask me. She has a job - if she goes - and brings home a little over $200/week. She's not offd to do ANYTHING since being home. She complains about everything. She also owes about $9,000 after being on her own for 4 months. She seems perfectly happy with the minimal job she has and doesn't care to pay a thing. I said to give her a time limit, make her save money, pay bills, dad's not sure. Any suggestions?

2007-02-03 22:42:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Our 18 year old daugher, Miss I Know What I'm Doing, moved back home after only 4 mnths. She moved out with her g'friend. They paid the first month's rent at their apartment and didn't pay any more. They were evicted. Now, she knew before she moved that we wouldn't be able to help much because her dad got caught in a mass lay-off and ended up with a lower paying job. I work as well. We also have 3 younger children. We told her if she moved back home, she'd have to pay rent, car ins. and pitch in on food. All total it only amnts to about $200 a month. Cheap if you ask me. She has a job - if she goes - and brings home a little over $200/week. She's not offd to do ANYTHING since being home. She complains about everything. She also owes about $9,000 after being on her own for 4 months. She seems perfectly happy with the minimal job she has and doesn't care to pay a thing. I said to give her a time limit, make her save money, pay bills, dad's not sure. Any suggestions?

2007-02-03 22:42:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

can you name describe an incident indicating how close you are with your family?

2007-02-03 22:13:19 · 12 answers · asked by cherrielicker 1

My sister has just recently got married and aquired 2 sons? Are these children now classed as my full blown nephews or nephews in law, or something else?

2007-02-03 21:54:32 · 10 answers · asked by kim t 2

2007-02-03 21:21:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-03 20:51:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son is 2 months old and the father and I are not together. He is 26 years old. There is a mutual desire not to be in a relationship with each other. He is Hispanic and lives with his family and I think they have nasty habits (house not clean, pets everywhere, dirty floor, a lot of children, etc.) I am wondering at what age should I let my son go over his house without me?

2007-02-03 20:40:21 · 23 answers · asked by Jade 3

My parents know that she is still alive but they have lost touch - no ill feelings, just lost touch.

My God Father is still in contact and attends family gatherings.

I don't think it is fair that my God Mother has not sent me birthday or Christmas gifts all these years.... it adds up to approximately $500.

I can easily locate her. Should I contact her regarding this?

2007-02-03 20:33:30 · 13 answers · asked by Reserved 6

2007-02-03 20:24:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-03 20:15:41 · 4 answers · asked by Reserved 6

2007-02-03 19:54:36 · 14 answers · asked by Queen of Happy Civilization 1

-don't have a boyfriend, never had one

-hate college neighbors who are always partying and being loud and snobbish.

-mom and I aren't that close and sometimes we don't understand each other

-bro hates me because one time he thought I ignored him so he decides to get revenge and give me the cold treatment. He's 27.

2007-02-03 19:53:44 · 12 answers · asked by Suzy Suzee Sue 6

2007-02-03 19:50:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

well each and every day i been getting upset and i do not know how to make my self happy again.Please help me?!i been going threw some very hard time latly.And i just need advice on how to cheer up.Well my dad died last year in 2005 and witch it is 2007 right now and just can't stop crying.And my mom is going out with this one person that is rewing my life and so is his son.My mom does not care about me and she thinks this one guy's son is a angel.And witch i think he is very rude to me like he looks on the computer when i am chatting on yahoo messanger to my friends my mom said stop taking the computer away from him let him see.But that is very rude and his son been checking my e-mails and now when he told his dad and my mom of what was on my e-mails they been embarrassing me a whole lot latly.I just don't know what to do.every thing is bothering me latley and it is also getting to me in a upset way.Please help me?What should i do?and i am 14 years old.and his son is 10 years old.

2007-02-03 19:42:24 · 4 answers · asked by - Allison 6

Would you select the gender of your baby, if the procedure to do so was cheap and readily available?

2007-02-03 19:37:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous