My parents know that she is still alive but they have lost touch - no ill feelings, just lost touch.
My God Father is still in contact and attends family gatherings.
I don't think it is fair that my God Mother has not sent me birthday or Christmas gifts all these years.... it adds up to approximately $500.
I can easily locate her. Should I contact her regarding this?
2007-02-03 20:33:30 · 13 answers · asked by Reserved 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think that this forum is to easily abused by people who are amused by themselfs. On the other hand I think you should get a lawyer and see about suing your godmother not only for back birthdays and holidays (don't forget easter,v-day, and any other holiday or spechal ocasion that you can think of or make up) but also for emotional damadge caused by the lack of her guidence thru the past 20 years of your life. Then I think that she will likely counter sue you for forgeting her birthdays, christmass, mothersday. and she will win, because if she is coniving enuf to manipulate her way out of your life the way she did then I think she is manipulative enuf to turn the whole thing back on you. and if she has been so cheep with you over the years she certanly has the money to hire a better lawyer than you could ever get. Because assumidly you have a low paying job because your life is so screwed up because this hatefull, manipulative, self-centered woman was a dead-beat god-mother.
2007-02-03 20:49:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should contact your God Mother to have a relationship with her....not to collect money you think you are owed because she didn't send gifts. That's selfish and petty. Maybe that's why she lost contact with you in the first place.
2007-02-04 05:43:45 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look your Godmother up to see how she is doing, to reintroduce her to the older you, to seek her just for the gifts you missed over the years is totally selfish. You never know what has been going on in her life, and you never know she might be now in a better position to assist you with her God motherly duties, but to just blatantly ask for past gifts, is a no, no.
2007-02-04 04:42:48 · answer #3 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can talk to her regarding family problems and stuff but for money? NO! Remember, God mothers are not obliged to give gifts, they are there to help you grow up into a good person for thats their promise in front of GOD (thats why its called GOD mother) and if there's anything that you should ask that Godmother of yours then that is TIME, a time to be with her so that she amy repay you with all the TIME and ADVICES that she missed, certainly not money...
goos lookin out girl :)
2007-02-04 04:40:39 · answer #4 · answered by camerlengo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You would actually be so tacky as to contact someone to ask for gifts? Man how spoiled is that? A God parent isn't one who gives you THINGS, a God parent is one who stands up for you when you are Christened and promises that if your parents should die that they will be there to be sure your spitirual education is taken care of...NOT to buy YOU gifts. I can understand WHY your God mother has stayed away from you for 20 years...I'd stay away from someone as self centered, selfish and spoiled as you are myself.
2007-02-04 04:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this isnt a joke you are beyond obnoxious - she doesnt owe you anything, she didnt adopt you. Too bad your parents lost touch w her - hey maybe you can sue them for that! Seek therapy you greedy twit!
2007-02-04 08:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by jillmarie2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that's the idea of a God mother to send money.
isnt that to take care of you in place of your mother if something happens to her?
dont be petty. send her a card and ask her how she is and how you are and that you'd like to have more contact with her. peace
2007-02-04 04:37:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you're too selfish!!!
you just want to contact her bcoz she haven't given you gifts?!?!?
you are so cruel!!! you should locate her bcoz u misssssss her!!!!
grow up!!!
2007-02-04 04:40:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
selfish child. grow up.
2007-02-04 04:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes you should
2007-02-04 14:49:31 · answer #10 · answered by riankopitur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋