Family - February 2007

Is there something wrong with me? No body seems to love me or want to go out with me. I dont get it.

2007-02-03 11:40:58 · 11 answers · asked by kaileykaileykaiey. 1

God why do parents have to be so boring. I feel like a teenager all of a sudden saying that but I am SO BORED at home. I can't move out b/c can't afford a dorm. Will get married (THANK GOD can't wait) next year. But until then I am bored out of my mind in this house. My parents have NO friends, they always talk bad about people and critize whoever they meet. My father is a very serious man and always has his head stuck in the accounting/balancing book or researching stuff online. My mother is moody and is sometimes angry and behaves like a child or is sometimes in good mood and reads the paper quietly or goes shopping. My sis is a mix of both!! I have no friends so i end up stayin at home over the weekends...god how do i get out of this??? Does anyone know how I feel??

2007-02-03 11:39:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think my older sister might be using drugs. She is 17 years old she she is sickly looking and never comes out of her room she stays out very late and listens to heavy metal music VERY LOUD. she doesn't talk to me anymore like she used to and she yells at my dad.

2007-02-03 11:38:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i always get upset and i never no what about my mum has a new boyfriend and they have a baby together now and i feel like i am being pushed away from my mum and i hate my stepdad :@ also i just want to be in love with someone i want someone to say its ok everything is going to be fine even though i have done that one wrong thing am i in love or do i just want comfort also when i try to explain to my mum about this she tells me im being stupid and we end up arguing some times i get soo upset i cry myself to sleep my friend are always telling me not to worry and tryin to cheer me up and they always tell me its ok everything will end up ok but sometimes i get into my head they hate me to :( although they dont help me please what shall i do

2007-02-03 11:31:18 · 10 answers · asked by ..x..blue.eyed.princess..x.. 1

My Mum is 82 years old in good health. But my Dad is not. Can anyone please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-03 11:16:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dad is rude to me. he got an owi not to long ago. he smokes in the house too. i hate the smoke everytime i ask him to go outside he won't. i don't tell him that he needs to quit but it would be nice if i didn't have to worry about dying from cancer because he doesn't want to be cold. he tells me this isn't the time. we fight daily. what should i do? should i move into my moms house because i have been thinking about?

2007-02-03 11:14:03 · 8 answers · asked by Nanu 1

hi everyone...i need some advice about my mom,,i just had a baby and my mom and i are kinda not speaking and havent since like the 7th month of my pregnancy...now she did some messed up stuff to me and thats why we are not speaking but i just want her to me a part of my daughters life even though she did that but she doesnt even care....i dont know what to do.....any advice??

2007-02-03 11:09:32 · 5 answers · asked by mommy since 1407!! 1

I've NEVER drank alcohol (nor do i want to),I've NEVER done drugs,NEVER snuck out of my house,and NEVER missed my curfew. Im already going to college and I call my mother every time I drive somewhere.I call her when the movies going to be late or when I am going to be at my boyfriends house 10 minutes later.I have NEVER given her a reason not to trust me.My curfew is still 11:30,the same it's been since I was 14.I was just RECENTLY allowed in my boyfriends car.He's been driving since he was 15 and Im still not allowed to go the highway with him.This means, no beach, no clubs.The only place Im allowed to go is to the mall or the movies.If i go anywhere its with my boyfriend.Ive been with him for 2 years and they still call him my "friend".I respect them ten times more than my sister does and I cant do anything.I wish i could move out but i cant.NO MONEY.Ive tried talking to her calmly so has her sister & she just brushes us off. How can I get her to realize I grew up a LONG time ago?

2007-02-03 11:08:17 · 22 answers · asked by Erika R 1

My dad's wife is a real *****. She's also 35 years younger than him. Anyway, On all the days of the year they could have chosen to announce her pregnancy, they chose to do it in my wedding. Isnt that tacky? and rude?

2007-02-03 10:58:55 · 6 answers · asked by nora_mcdonald2000 2

For all those that read the earlier alert on my daughter. I am not joking. The case worker will not put her on the national Amber alert. That's their way. She was in Oklahoma and I'm in North Carolina. I am trying to get her out of the system. It's her dad that got her in it (not with him any more). I did call him and there isn't any answers. She is 4'9 to 5'0. blonde hair shoulder length, blue eyes, is about 95 lbs and age 14. Loves the color blue. last seen in Ponca City.

2007-02-03 10:55:08 · 18 answers · asked by really???? 3

My sister complains about what we eat ALL OF THE TIME! Every night she will scream and cry because we don't have McDonald's. She is 11, 4'11, and weighs 120...which is 14 pounds more than me! When we don't have anything to eat in the house that she wants, she screams and cries. My mom has limited her McDonald's to once a week. Right now our family is going through a lot of financial problems and we can't really afford anything but necessities. Like tonight...she started screaming at my dad because we didn't go to Friendly's because we only have twenty dollars...literally. She is mad because she only gets 4 ravioli's for dinner, too. And when she doesn't get something she wants, she starts saying she "needs" it, and she really doesn't. Like she just got a new pair of Heely's for Christmas and now wants a new pair of shoes. The only thing we can really do is give her my old shoes...which look like they have barely been worn. Now she screams and cried about that. Sometimes I want to do to

2007-02-03 10:50:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom and dad are fighting and my mom just kicked him out the other day and now when i have a problem i cant turn to my dad because he is not at home and i cant talk to my mom about stuff that is bothering me what can i do now some one help me please.

2007-02-03 10:44:18 · 8 answers · asked by small_funky_monkey 1

What to buy my mum. What is a good gift to give to let her know that I really appreciate her?

2007-02-03 10:32:47 · 4 answers · asked by Superman 2

My sister was arrested for a felony crime, arson. She is a drug addict and an alcoholic and has drained my family emotionally, physically and financially. We have made a pact that she will remain in jail until her trial. I am wondering if anyone else has been in this situation. I am very embarrassed, sad, and numb. I am so angry at what her abuse has done to our family and I want her to get better and to learn to be responsible. Does anyone know FIRST HAND what I am going through?

2007-02-03 10:17:25 · 6 answers · asked by TwinkaTee 6

He had a beautiful smile that would light up a room. He had 2 brothers. He was such a good son and friend.

2007-02-03 10:03:28 · 18 answers · asked by marcy g 1

look today my dad and i were talking then i ask him if he could come for me and he said no well i told him that if he wanet to see me he said yes but,he sounded like a no i hang up on him beacuse he made me sad and mad and i started to cry i always loved my dad and i still do but i keep crying for him

2007-02-03 09:47:26 · 14 answers · asked by daddys_crazy_angel 1

i asked should i forgive my mother. i tried to forgive her i tried talking to i tried having a relationship with her but it didn't work she'll say i understand or half the time when i try to tell her how i feel she don't talk or want to hear it i wonder why.

2007-02-03 09:37:19 · 5 answers · asked by baby 2

the story is i moved from london to new york 2 yrs ago...didn't know anybody.. miraculously met this older lady who befriended me and later on asked me to live with her. she's very capable.. so she didn't need me for anything! the story is my family in london have been giving me a hard time. the place i currently work doesn't pay me enough, so my parents are always criticizing me saying i've let them down and i'm a disappointment.. this morning my mother told me i've disappointed the whole family, i'm going on 27 and have no husband or career and i'm broke.. i never ask them for their money and have managed to sustain myself for the past 2 yrs.. my mother said she'll ask my friend to kick me out, so i can see how tough life is and my father said he'd come to take meback.. i am happy with my life and applying for better jobs, but they are always telling me how i've let them down! they've done this all my life and enough is enuf. i love them, but they hurt me.. what should i do? help?

2007-02-03 09:37:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do u talk to your mom?
i have no relachinship with either one of my parents my dads in jail and i dont know what jail but my mom has a boyfriend and barley talks to me now i have changed i feel like i cant go back to the old me and sometimes i argue with my mom and say things i will regret i cry cause i know i cant go back i feel like im loosing evry one includeing friends i also feel un trusted my mom and never got married they brokeup she got with my step dad and he had a drinking problem and they fought all the time so now she divorced him and has a boyfriend

2007-02-03 09:36:03 · 5 answers · asked by Dana F 2

Dad lives in another state ( rural Michigan) and has been retired for approx 2 years now ( Mom is still working and will be for another 3 years). Any suggestions on activities,classes,etc.. that he can be involved in regularly? We are also concerned that he has put on alot of weight since he retired, and want to help him get on track. Thanks

2007-02-03 09:34:54 · 4 answers · asked by Angelina 2

I've been dating this guy for 6 months and he treats me really good. But I notice he doesn't treat his sister very good or nice sometimes and it kinda bugs me...like he'll say things about her weight or not do small favors for her when she asks. Do you think this is any indication of how he might treat me if I married him??

2007-02-03 09:31:20 · 13 answers · asked by DebChick 1

i was wondering shouldi forgive my mother i have not lived with her since i was 14 we never got along. we always aurged and fight i mean relly fight.my point is should i forgive her for always acting like she didn't have a daughter she treted me like i wasn't her chid. should i forgive her for always choosing her b/f over me putting me out the house because of him,putting me out there to be a bad child when i wasn't. how many think i should how many think i shouldn't. i'm now 19 i'll be 20 next month.

2007-02-03 09:19:01 · 16 answers · asked by baby 2

we had a serious life and death issue to deal with last night, Laura rang my mum and she rang me, I told her what was happening (I was almost killed) and all my mum could say to me was your 18 so sort your own **** out.......Laura then talked to the guy and sorted it out but what I want to know is what the hell is my mum thinking in saying that, ok I'm not perfect but I would have thought she would've cared more than that...Laura then tried to call my uncle with no real success but its now sorted........
as I say all I want to know is why my mum had the guts to tell me to sort it out myself?? this guy had tried to hang me with a towel and stab me with pens and things last night......

so does anyone have any ideas???

thanks
MItch

2007-02-03 09:06:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

my sons mothers boy friend is very negative towards my son. He often has to sleep at the boy friends house on school nights . He threats to hit my son if he makes any mistakes . I have asked the boy friend to cal me if theres any problems and he still has threatnd my son anyways. I just want to do the wright thing,what is it?

2007-02-03 09:00:41 · 16 answers · asked by nick H 1

sadly my parents fight to much and sometimes i think they will get an divorce. why do i thijnk that or why do they fight so much..

2007-02-03 08:59:08 · 18 answers · asked by blue. eyed. snowmoblier.((girl)) 1

My pregnant g/f and I broke up about 1 week ago. We broke up on my terms. I emailed her alot of letters that had alot of hate words, and I even called her names. At that point, we were constantly arguing alot. Instead of calling each other, we'd email each other. Now that she's pregnant, she won't forgive after I said I was sorry and that she's going to make arrangements with my family to see the baby. Lately, we've been hanging out alot. I've been driving her to the clinic for her check ups, but when I mention getting back together, she says she needs to think what's best for her children and the baby. I've been making full efforts on trying to get her back. I'm even going to get her a house for her and the children. What should I do? Should I try to be her friend first or just forget about it and see what happens?

2007-02-03 08:54:15 · 20 answers · asked by Mindscrambler 30 2

My husband and I would like to go out for a family night with our 16 month old, but we don't know what to do. It will be dark and raining. We live in Portland, for any of you around the area who might have ideas. We'd like to go out to eat, but where is a good family place (not fast food) and then what else could we do??

2007-02-03 08:53:27 · 5 answers · asked by CM 2

She is not disabled.

2007-02-03 08:51:54 · 3 answers · asked by S D 1

it sounds dumb i know but he really got on with my family and even lived at my home for a few months over the summer. but i split up with him on christmas even and i havent yet told my mam that weve broken up whats the best way to tell her?

2007-02-03 08:50:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok this is a tough situation for me. I have gotten family members ideas now im looking for yours... i have a 7 year old son and i also have a 7 year old step son who within the past few months has started living with us. When my stepson would come to visit the shared a room so it was mostly my sons room. Now that he is living with us the share a room they share the same bus the same school the same friends. My son is jealous and thinks i love him less They used to get along now.. my son is most of the time depressed and angry My step son adores my son. Follows him around as well as their 17 month old brother. My son wishes it was just the two of us again. Funny thing is when my step son is not here my son wishes he was here. Hes always saying how bored he is and asks when my stepson is coming home. Other than giving them their own rooms (cause its just not possible at this time) does anyone have any other ideas?

2007-02-03 08:48:27 · 3 answers · asked by ms_coyote326 2