look today my dad and i were talking then i ask him if he could come for me and he said no well i told him that if he wanet to see me he said yes but,he sounded like a no i hang up on him beacuse he made me sad and mad and i started to cry i always loved my dad and i still do but i keep crying for him
2007-02-03 09:47:26 · 14 answers · asked by daddys_crazy_angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
look my dad doesn't have reasons i bet he just wants to be with my stepsisters,and brother even my stepmom i told him that i wanet to spend time with him i haven't seen him for more than years
2007-02-03 09:54:28 · update #1
my mom and dad never speak togehter i tried once but it never works i wish they were together my mom has half of my heart and my dad has the other half
2007-02-03 09:56:16 · update #2
and i'm a 12 year old please help me
2007-02-03 09:56:44 · update #3
and those of you who r saying that my daddy is fat and bald he is not he is a very fit boy he is only 27
2007-02-03 09:58:21 · update #4
what should i say? i don't know what to say or a song
2007-02-03 10:00:19 · update #5
It sounds as if there is a lot of bad communication between every one. Talk to Dad and tell him your feelings and how hurt you are.You really need to do that with all of them. If that does not work go to a school counselor and they will help you and may talk to both your parents.That is what school counselors are there for and they are free to you.
2007-02-03 10:02:35 · answer #1 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hardest part of divorce is the kids that need both parents..you don't have 2 hearts in your chest. Your Dad has another family and sometimes he seems to want to spend his time with them instead of you, that's hard to take since you are part of his family too. Is it possible to call your Dad up, tell him you need to talk to him, explain as best you can about missing him so much. He is the adult, let him help come up with some sort of time to spend with you. Work on a solution together. I understand about "IF" mom and dad were still together, or "IF" dad didn't have another family but we don't always get the good stuff in life, we have to make do with whatever is allotted to us. Don't bring up Mom to him, sometimes that just makes the situation harder for him dealing with his other family.
2007-02-03 10:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your dad know how you feel. Hanging up the phone doesnt help. You need to face the situation instead of hanging up. Its time to grow up. Can you get to your dads? Ask your mom to take you or another family member. Talk to both your parents hopefully you can work on a solution.
2007-02-03 09:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would tell him how you feel, and that you miss him and that you got upset because he wouldn't come an get you. maybe you can make arrangement to see him another time and talk to him about it and ask him when is a good time for him to come and get you. He probably wanted to see you, but had do to something important that time. good luck.
2007-02-03 09:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, my parents are seperated too.
and ive discovered the best way to do this is just to tell them.
come straight out and tell him what you think and whats going through your head, because if you keep this inside and keep yourself upset about it, its always gonna hurt.
so just tell him,
you hurt my feelings because you seem like you dont want me here.
i know its sounds hard to do,
but once you get it out, you'll feel better.
2007-02-03 09:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by Sophia R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, he does understand he's stuttering, so that you do not ought to inform him, yet there might want to correctly be a clinical reason, so once you're frightened allow him understand. carry out somewhat study on the cyber web (tumor? drugs? psychological difficulty?)
2016-10-17 05:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him. of course he wants to see you but there may be some other reason why he couldn't come at that moment.
talk honestly to him and expect the same from him. tell him you were hurt and want to know more from him.
2007-02-03 09:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by curious_One 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a letter and express your feelings. That way he can re-read the letter and you guys can't argue as if you were talking to him face to face. I have used this alot, and it has never failed me.
2007-02-03 10:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him honestly how you feel that you want to spend time with him
2007-02-03 09:53:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would just tell him that you miss him and that you want to spend time with him.. tell him the truth he is your dad he should understand..
2007-02-03 09:50:59 · answer #10 · answered by Beth m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋