sadly my parents fight to much and sometimes i think they will get an divorce. why do i thijnk that or why do they fight so much..
2007-02-03 08:59:08 · 18 answers · asked by blue. eyed. snowmoblier.((girl)) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Because they do not know how to communicate well. Sometimes people stop trying to listen and only want to get their own point across.
Remember that sometimes parents don't get along but it is just between them. It has nothing to do with you. They both love you.
2007-02-03 09:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your parents have been together for long then its noral for them to fight everyonce in a while. If it's driving you crazy you could try to tune them out by doing something by yourself or leaving the house. If they're really not getting along then maybe divorce isn't such a bad thing for them. If they can't live civilly together then maybe they need to stay apart for a while. That may hurt you for a while but you will learn to accept it and deal with it. Just remember that if they do separate it is not your fault. You are just stuck in the middle. Good luck!
2007-02-03 17:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by Saiila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents never got along that good. My dad was the one who usually started the arguments. I had wished many,many times that my dad would have left so my sister, our mother and I could have had a peaceful life. I grew up and eventually married and had almost the same thing that my mom had. I had spent alot of my marriage leaving and coming back. My ex and I eventually got divorced and I am now finally able to live a peaceful life. Maybe your parents should seperate or divorce. Alot of times getting a divorce could solve their problems since they can't get along.
2007-02-03 17:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be many reasons why they fight and argue. It could be stress from work, not enough money to pay bills, no time together, etc.....If this is affecting you, you need to sit down and talk to the both of them and ask them why they are having these problems. Tell them that it is affecting you too. Tell them that you love them and want them to get along.
Since it is Valentines Day coming up, get this book at either Barnes and Noble or Borders called, "The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage" or "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands". Hopefully, they will get the hint and read these books! You can also get them on line too.
2007-02-03 17:15:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people fight for different reasons (especially couples)can be anything from financial to personal problems between the 2 of them,hold on tight and hope they work things out,do you have the type of parents you can talk to? If so go to them and in a respectful way tell them how you feel about your worries of them fighting,there is nothing that can bring parents closer together than realizing what a wonderful child they have. good luck
2007-02-03 17:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by Patrick P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the things that are changing are making the life that they lived twenty years ago, hard to bring foreword in to todays world, one or the other gets stuck in being the lower class picked on person, and the other gets to say i told u so, this is a negative life and so has no positive effects to bring the ideals of both up with positive energy in it, try to get them in to situations that help them bring each other up as a positive gesture in realigning the traffic of correspondence, if they really are dead to each other it will show in the eyes and in the words that can't be changed. some are locked up into caregiver rolls or worse one will be a rescuer of the other or some one else in conflict causing other point of friction, many are just stuck and have only the alternative they have chosen to portray or they are a victim of others pushing their buttons take your choose there is always save your self by being alert to your own safety in this kind of predicament i lost nose nose and both ears from being in between when i was six years old.
2007-02-05 20:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because after so long, people just change. Everyone changes. Who you are now will be completely different two years from now. Some people just cant adapt. Especially if your parents got married young, or had to because of something that happened. If you can, when they start to fight, just leave the room
2007-02-03 17:02:47 · answer #7 · answered by wellduhpeople 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if getting a divorce is really a bad thing. My folks divorced when I was 12. They fought all of the time. They've gotten along ever since.
2007-02-03 17:01:12 · answer #8 · answered by Yea Yea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married couples go through so many different stages in their relationship.
The first comment that was left by the guy who said they didn't know how to communicate is wrong. Partial right, but mostly wrong. My mother always tells me, "If someone says they never fight with their spouse, then they don't know how to communicate."
Just give it time.
2007-02-03 17:07:43 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually when people fight alot they have several things making them unhappy and tense and then they can't communicate with each other properly so then end up fighting, They may need marriage counseling, and they may need to end up divorced, but if they do remember that it won't be your fault, and it will be better than listening to them fight all the time
2007-02-03 17:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by irish eyes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋