Family - February 2007

I'm a 23 year old single man, and I have recently fallen for a 31 year old single mom and her 16 year old daughter. I met the mom at work and I started going out with her before I knew she had a daughter. I went on several dates with her and I had sex with her and I really love her. But then I met her daughter. The daughter is not only gorgeous, she is also funny and intelligent and good-natured, and her mom doesn't mind me dating her. I have not had sex with her yet, because I would not do anything illegal. I'm in love with both of them. I feel that either way I join their family it would be awkward. What should I do?

2007-02-03 04:58:47 · 39 answers · asked by Shark 1

I'm a 23-yr. old college graduate & former foster child. I lived back with my foster mom after Hurricane Katrina because I wanted to finish school, & I had no other place to live. I had a misunderstanding with her last August, & the 17-yr. old foster boy punched me in the ear, & the police was called, & they lied on me, saying that I hit him 1st, to protect him, so she can continue to get foster care monetary benefits for him, & they said he had a right to hit me. I didn't hit him at all. I moved out, & I couldn't take all my stuff. I became homeless. Now I found a home, & I asked my foster mom if I can get 1/2 of MY stuff from the house, & she said she has to ask the 17-yr. old boy if it's OK for me 2 get my stuff. Ain't that some baloney? Now how do I have to get a CHILD's permission to get MY things from MY foster mom's house. I was there from age 5 mos. to 18. & from 18 off & on. He's only been there 2 yrs, & she loves him more than me. No fair!

2007-02-03 04:54:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or a little of both? What works for you?

2007-02-03 04:39:06 · 20 answers · asked by PF32 2

i am serious too... they ignore me & dont treat me right.

2007-02-03 04:28:11 · 1 answers · asked by Marissa D 1

Me and my fiance have a six month old baby. My fiance is a great guy who takes care of us and is great when it comes to talking and understanding my feelings and such, but when it comes to changing lightbulbs, putting air in the car tires, fixing tthings when they break.......I have to ask him a million times to do it before it gets done. I want him to just do these things on his own free will or at least when I say "Oh man, the light is burnt out in the hallway." I feel like his mother or something having to tell him what to do. And I cant trust him to just change the damn lightbulb when he flicks the switch and knows that it is burnt out, so I have to keep all these chores in the back of my mind everyday along with taking care of a baby.
Any suggestions on fixing this without causing an arguement?

2007-02-03 04:19:34 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3

we had an arguement over 2 mini arguements made, and i sed they didnt mean to sound the way she took em but she continued to b in a irritated mood and it was obvious she was pissed off, then tryin to sound like she wasnt. i knew she was, then we was supposed to go out but she then ends up goin out on her own , arghhhh she wldnt listen to me, i got sooooo upset over it cos i cldnt understand y she was like this. i understand how she cld of taken it wrong but y behave like this. i kno im being vague, i guess i just need to get it out of my system, even if i dnt say wat was sed etc u kno.

2007-02-03 03:50:25 · 2 answers · asked by Katheryn R 2

2007-02-03 03:41:51 · 17 answers · asked by bobtany 1

2007-02-03 03:31:20 · 29 answers · asked by princess4u247960 2

I'm 23, I have a boyfriend who's not handsome, not rich, and 8 years older than me, but I he's so good to me and I just feel that he's perfect for me.. He's just the guy I've been looking for.. Unfortunately, my parents dislike him just because he's not handsome, he has a brother who's married to a girl from different race, he's a musician ( my parents believe that musician can't even afford their own life and that musicians are unfaithful ).. I think that it's unfair.. My boyfriend did nothing wrong, he was always nice to them and they never given him a chance to show them who he really is.. My mom forced me to break up with him, otherwise she would kick me out of the house ( I'm asian and in our culture someone doesn't get out of the house before they're married ). So we ( me & bf ) decided to keep the relationship and see each other behind my parents.. We've been doing this for a year.. But I feel so guilty for lying to my parents. What should I do ?

2007-02-03 03:15:24 · 11 answers · asked by Pianoholic 3

i got married in may of last year iam 32 years old and this
is my first marraige. a month after we got married we moved
out of our parents home and got an appartment for the time
being while we saved up our money to buy a new home for this year. november 1, 2006 we had to move out of our apparment
becaurse the landlord was coming in without our consent i know this because he has came in on me three times without calling
and things were coming up missing. we moved back into
our parents home seperately because neither one of our parents wanted us in their home living together. we just bought our new home and we move in march 1, 2007 we have to come up with $2000 down payment. ive been paying my parents rent, cooking, cleaning and taking of myself in their home. i get social security $673 a month and work partime for now. they would not let me keep my money this one time to get my house. was that right?

2007-02-03 03:08:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

any suggestions on how to tell my parents i have a boyfriend? i've tried but everytime i try to i just freeze and can't speak at all. i need help i'm going out of my mind!!

2007-02-03 03:07:09 · 17 answers · asked by pandora_shattered_heart 1

Does anyone elses father make them feel so c***? Sometimes makes you feel glad that they are there for you, but also spends a lot of time putting you down?- or is it just me?

2007-02-03 02:40:50 · 9 answers · asked by JaY 2

My Grandmother is going to be 90 in April.

She has in-home nursing and the woman stays with her 24/7.

My Grandmother is a very mean woman, barks out orders, and makes the people that have nursed for her in the past very uncomfortable.

My family would never, ever put her in a home, but is their something we can do so that she's not so difficult to live with? Or is this just an age thing and to be expected?

2007-02-03 02:39:27 · 7 answers · asked by Nunya 4

Im 21years old, and just moved back home with dad after a break up. i pay £15 a week. and come and go as i please. (i wash, cook and clean for myself).

Iv had the chance to lodge with a cousin of mine. (same age, enjoys partying to etc) we get on really well... for £60 per week.

I have no savings, but can afford it.

I love my family, but i dont get on with my step mom, and i dont feel comfotable in the house.

iv never had a family home, my step mom is house proud, so if you use something its put away after you finish it. wash, you clean your dishes b4 u eat the food...

should i move?

or should i stay home, get some savings and consider something later on in the year!

2007-02-03 02:28:18 · 32 answers · asked by geminially 2

Look I have a husband that says "no" to everything I ask him to. He cant even get me a pencil that's sitting right there in front of him and I'm like in another room upstairs! I luv him and all and he's skinny, not fat but lazy, but i think hes getting tired of me and stuff. When i ask him to do something cuz im usually taking care of my kid, Sammy, and cleaning the house, my husband's just fighting with the freaking TV remote and wont stop doing it! What can I do to make him stop treating me like a maid? He wont even give me a kiss hello when I get home from work!

2007-02-03 02:16:09 · 19 answers · asked by Axback Hotte♥ 1

my girlfriend mom keep saying that she will take him away because she said that she is a minor and im 17 she is going on 16 in june and I wil b 18 in august.

2007-02-03 02:13:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

in my dream i was at home with my family my husband was in our room sleeping and then i saw three hands they where not with any body and they where pointing towards my husband and then they started to move towards him so i fallowed when they got closer to him they formed a choking position when i got close to him i woke him up before they where able to choke him they disapered when he woke up. i was the only one that was able to see the hands

2007-02-03 02:07:18 · 7 answers · asked by Osiris L 1

she keeps using the fanny word and boasting to everyone how shapely hers is. She teased my family members about their big or saggy fannys. I know I should have told her that you shouldn't say that word in Ireland but it was funny at the time. None of my family speak to her and she doesn't know why. How can I tell her now?

2007-02-03 02:06:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My hubby and I met online. We talked for about a year before we met in person. When we met things were great and we married 11 months later. Now my SIL who was very supportive at the beginning has changed. She says she doesn't support our marriage and doesn't understand how people who met on the internet can go on to have a successful marriage. She stays at home with her 2 children all day while her hubby works hard. She claims she is "homeschooling" her children, but I think she is just too nosy and has too much time on her hands. I told her to stop doing this crap to us. She left us alone for a little while but now she wants to talk to us again. What should I do?

2007-02-03 02:04:35 · 10 answers · asked by MiMi 1

My boyfriend is black and in first year of medical school at Wayne State University and SUPER GREAT to me. Dad hates him for his race. My LAST boyfriend was white, worked in a factory, had been in legal trouble and had a child that he fathered in another city, and dad wasnt NEARLY as critical of HIM. Racism sux!!

2007-02-03 02:02:07 · 22 answers · asked by BTH L 2

if your given a chance to go abroad and earn, do you preferably choose money? or stay at your house and be with your family?

2007-02-03 01:45:08 · 4 answers · asked by mithca 1

it is KEITH MACDONALD from washington he has 7+ kids by 7 different women this is the bloke i am talking about he has done it to every lass he has ever been with and tried to kick the baby out oif most of them.

2007-02-03 01:40:08 · 11 answers · asked by stacey b 1

My mum lives in a small house with no tv and everytime me and my bro go round there we all get really bored. can people give me some ideas as to what we could do together when we are there that are free (Divorcing my dad so no money). We both love spending quality time with mum, but we need some new ideas! things like card games ect...
NO STUPID ANSWERS OR I WILL REPORT.
Thanks

2007-02-03 01:32:26 · 6 answers · asked by Chloe C 2

its me again he wanted my child dead when he had seen her because we broke up cos of his cheating ways, he hired people to beat me up and try to set fire to my home with me and my daughter in it!!!!!! now do u think i should let him see her...

2007-02-03 01:27:40 · 24 answers · asked by stacey b 1

it is keith macdonald who has been in the papers for lots of children to different women!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-03 01:11:44 · 18 answers · asked by stacey b 1

Ok my sister don't like my husband - and it's not cause he's a bad man. He is the most 'perfect' man I have ever been with. It's all about her..........she is one of those girls who can't take a joke. She ALWAYS takes things the wrong way. She gets upset when people dissagree with her. It's getting to the point that I don't even want to talk to her. When I tell her something that i'm thinking - then I say well i'm gonna talk to my husband about it she starts saying "why do u need to ask him? you can make your own decisions, you don't need his approval. " I am the older sister, but I keep stuff in just so we don't fight. She is EXTREMELY immature and don't know what it's like to have kids or be married. She is only 22 with a big a** mouth and a bad attitude. I've talked to her but nothing works..............any suggestions???

2007-02-03 01:10:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

So few minutes ago i asked a question about my brother he had stolen a phone of my son and only for my son staying at his house last night he found it in the open and lifted it back,in the summer i went on holiday and left 5 kittens and the mother with him to mind they got outside but got them back after a few days its a long story but he had been told to put in his secure garage which he ignored so when i was home they had all gone never found ,he had done nothing to find them
What would you do its one thing after another he lies and now has stolen something
confused and upset please help





if you want to see whole story heres my kitten story
http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Al835Z.vYYrQXbGP7HC4I1UgBgx.?qid=20060717044423AA9CEd4

and here is thief story
http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=At.8ojeaQVwTJfkt_StlqcEgBgx.?qid=20070203045607AAmoY4d

2007-02-03 00:33:31 · 11 answers · asked by Nutty Girl 7

i just recently moved to florida 5 months ago with my dad but it sucks out here and i talked to my dad about going back but he doesnt want to move back untill may but i want to get back in this high school by the end of february. How can i convince him to go this month?

2007-02-02 23:56:55 · 4 answers · asked by brandonroy91 2

My son was staying at my mum's for few months while he was there his phone went missing ,he blamed my brother his uncle but my parents laughed it off.My brother lives in his own, so visits my parents,he was also asked if he had it ! which he said no
This was in November and my son had to get a new phone the old phone wasn't cheap at the time to buy samsung D500.
But last night my son stayed at his Uncles and wow found the phone, my brother is 34 yrs old !
What would you do or say ?
He is 34 years old for god sake !

2007-02-02 23:56:07 · 27 answers · asked by Nutty Girl 7

The last address I had for him was in Las Vegas, NV. He used to work at a place called The Car Doctor.
He was born in Kalamazoo, MI, May 23, 1945, is 5' 7" tall, red hair and freckles, soft spoken, kind heart and doesn't like phones. He tends to stay in the South Western areas going between Arizona, Nevada and California. He seems to stay in the Las Vegas area the most.
I am his sister and have information that I want to share with him about our brother Barry. I also just want to know that he is ok, alive and well and happy. He disappeared 34 years ago and I miss him a lot. I've tried for years to find him and just seem to keep missing him by a few months or sometimes years.
If anyone out there knows him or where he is, please, please, please contact me.
His nephew lives in California and Terry has two neices and a nephew that would like to meet him.
Terry, if your out there, please contact me.
I love you and miss you,
Your sister,
Christy

2007-02-02 23:42:07 · 16 answers · asked by Christy D 1