I'm a 23 year old single man, and I have recently fallen for a 31 year old single mom and her 16 year old daughter. I met the mom at work and I started going out with her before I knew she had a daughter. I went on several dates with her and I had sex with her and I really love her. But then I met her daughter. The daughter is not only gorgeous, she is also funny and intelligent and good-natured, and her mom doesn't mind me dating her. I have not had sex with her yet, because I would not do anything illegal. I'm in love with both of them. I feel that either way I join their family it would be awkward. What should I do?
2007-02-03 04:58:47 · 39 answers · asked by Shark 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Honestly, I don't think there is a way you can resolve this unless you want to move to Utah and marry 'em both. Carry that love in your heart, but find someone else. No good can come of this.
2007-02-03 05:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by arwens_curse 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop acting like you name's sake! Instead of a shark, be a gentleman who is respected and admired. First of all, it's not everyday a mother sleeps with a guy and then agrees to her daughter dating him. You're already getting involved with a very disfunctional family. Secondly, you are not in love with both of them. You may lust after one or both but not LOVE! Since you are already in this warped mix of things, you should probably set your sights elsewhere completely. You have a chance to do the right thing and avoid any illegal activity, strife between a mother and a daughter and possibly paying a very high price for your immaturity. Act your age, don't help the gentleman species die and use your brain instead of the other body parts God gave you. Really! You should think about it and listen to someone other than the devil on your left shoulder!
2007-02-03 05:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea.....thats a very awkward situation...but if you do live with both of em and bang both of em....it will only be concidered sagatory rape if the mom pleeds against you in court saying that it was her daughter and she believes it was wrong....so really you have nothing to worry about except the fact that......if you and her mom ever break up or the daughter stops likeing you and turns her mom against you then most likely the mom will turn it into something its not............and take you to court and make your life living hell (because this is how most of us women act)........so all im saying is play it safe
2007-02-03 08:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by ~britt~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save yourself from JAIL and HEARTACHE and go in another direction. If you already slept with the mother you will never be able to escape that and if you truly have feelings for the daughter you will never be able to have a functioning relationship with the mother. Please save everyone a lot of time and pain and just walk away. Be a man and find a relationship that is not so dysfunctional not to mention disturbing.
2007-02-03 05:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by wicked1too 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from both! the daughter is underage, and the mother is too old. would you want to be a step-father to a kid you find attractive? ew.
besides...31 and has a 16 yr old? a mom at 15...hmmm.
sex with you after a few dates? hmmm...
no.
2007-02-03 05:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've got to be kidding me. You can't be that stupid, I mean a 16 year old child?! Give me a break, are you that weak that you have to pray on a woman's 16 year old? Get a life, you must have a little one. And you probably drive a red flashy car. Typical insecure man..I feel sorry for you and that mother if she would let you be with her child.
2007-02-03 05:08:46 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break off the relationship, there's no doubt that you're going to hurt one or both of their feelings. There's lots of nice women around so the opportunities are endless for you to find the right one. Wish you luck!
2007-02-03 05:05:13 · answer #7 · answered by sPiLtsunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go out with either of them, because the daughter will be traumatized later on in life over it.
2007-02-03 05:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by Young Lass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is perverted. Date the mom and leave the daughter alone.
Why corrupt a minor and end up in jail.
2007-02-03 05:02:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well id go with the mother cuz u r sorta old for the teen trust me it would be a big differnce but there both young and a bit old for u so i think u should move on but its ur choice!
2007-02-03 05:02:24 · answer #10 · answered by jderr1000 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋