My boyfriend is black and in first year of medical school at Wayne State University and SUPER GREAT to me. Dad hates him for his race. My LAST boyfriend was white, worked in a factory, had been in legal trouble and had a child that he fathered in another city, and dad wasnt NEARLY as critical of HIM. Racism sux!!
2007-02-03 02:02:07 · 22 answers · asked by BTH L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
oh dear!! that must be hard for you to deal with if your dad doesn't like him because of the colour of his skin! im sorry but that's not on....i thought we were meant to be living in a society where everybody was equal.....obviously not.....can't you sit down and talk to your dad and ask why he feels this way?
2007-02-03 02:07:05 · answer #1 · answered by youdidnotjustsaythat 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dear, you're not alone.. My Dad is also a racist.. He's hating my boyfriend who is the same race with me just because my bf's brother married a girl from different race and religion.. Racism s**k*... You can't change the way he thinks though.. Hope you can work it out..
2007-02-03 02:14:29 · answer #2 · answered by Pianoholic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I think that love knows no bounds, whether be age height or race. You should sit down and talk with him, explain that your boyfriend is no different from you or him. Try to see where he's coming from.. make apoint that your last boyfriend was a really bad choice and yet he wasn't as critical with him.. make sure he knows that his criticism means alot to you, and that he should be worrying for the best of you, without prejudices in the way.
2007-02-03 02:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by acorna68134 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 08:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by eylicio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel really bad for you. It's not right of your dad AT ALL to not like him just because of his race. I have a friend who's dad is racist. He used to be friends with this one girl who went to their house all the time. Buy when his dad found out the girl was Puerto Rican he wouldn't let her come back again. But what I really think you should do is try talking to your dad and tell him that you really like this guy and that race doesn't matter it's wats on the inside that counts. If he still doesn't like him then tell him that you can go out with whoever you like and if he doesn't like your boyfriend tough because he can't make your choices for you.
2007-02-03 02:18:03 · answer #5 · answered by PrettieLeah12 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him you've broke up. Ask him permission to marry your new boyfriend that's white and very cute and has lots of money. if he wants to visit him hours are 3 to 6 at the local prison hell be there for 20 years on child rape and drug charges tell him to choose who he would rather have
embelish it a little and have some fun and when your 21 do what ever you want
2007-02-03 02:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by mobile auto repair (mr fix it) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it really sucks that your dad is a racist, he sees black people as being "trouble makers" but hey people are scared for what they don't know, but its your decision when i went out with a white boy my dad HATED him because of his race, but he was very awesome and were still together and my dad is starting to like hI'm more and more they went on a fishing trip last weekend and had a good time, your dad will get over it after a while, just show your dad "hey this is who im going to be with, this is my life, you lived yours im living mines." after a while once your with your boyfriend for a long time your dad would be forced to accept him defiantly if his actions is hurting his own child's feelings.
2007-02-03 02:11:26 · answer #7 · answered by Syetta 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your a big girl now, no more daddy. Live your life. Remember that the man you marry regardless of his race will always come first before anyone.
2007-02-03 02:10:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
True, racism is terrible but Dad knows that mixed couples face ugly discrimination. Hear what Dad has to say and then if you are over 18 decide for yourself what to do.
2007-02-03 02:06:03 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
That it does . Tell ur Dad to go to Hell. U love him and all but it is time to stop that mess. Go get a dirty car fixing white guy that stinks with no teeth and see what he says...LOL!!!!
2007-02-03 03:37:33 · answer #10 · answered by juicyone1210 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋