Family - February 2007

2007-02-03 19:33:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been going out with my boyfriend for a few years now. He has a little sister that is 4 years old. The little girl is very social at times, but she is rather annoying. Even her older cousin's find her an annoying brat. She throws ridiculous tantrums over little things like candy and cartoons. She drinks soda and eats candy way after her bedtime and is very disrespectful to everyone. It's her way or the highway. I've gotten my bf to notice the issue. I know my bf's brought it up to his parents’ attention several times, but they make few attempts to correct her and quickly give up. I may not have a right to change her life, but she is getting out of hand and it is only becoming worse with time. How can I help them help her be more respectful and understanding? Or how can I help her myself?

2007-02-03 19:31:45 · 6 answers · asked by Zeda 1

i am married since 13 years now intially when we got married my unmarried sil used to stay with us without my in laws .she was very demanding.after my father in aw and mother in law had a breakup now my mil stays with me but she is always in competition with me how i talk with my husband she also tries to do the same .every where she wants to go with us i am totally disturbed .pls tell me what to do

2007-02-03 19:21:00 · 6 answers · asked by minu p 1

had my kid in june of last year while i was in jail(my 1st time white collar) i got realeased a week later and was living with the father and his parents for about a month. him and i werent getting along so i moved out. he moved out about a month later leaving my lil girl with his parents. i was still going through my trial so me and the grandmother desided it was best to let her stay there until i was done with everything just incase i had to finish my time. i did have to go back but im home now on house arrest just so i can be with her, but now her grandma doesnt want to give her back to me and is refussing me visitation. when i asked when i could see her she said she would go get custody and set up visitations. i never gave up my right and i want my kid but i dont know how to get her back. im also wondering if she brings her for a visit can i not just give her back even though shes been there since birth?her with me also but when i took the cops they didnt do anything. what do i do

2007-02-03 19:04:14 · 6 answers · asked by lucky 1

My dad & step mom are gonna be married for 3years this year.Lately she been really nice to me & my friends. My dad had to fly out for a few days to do work & i stayed behind to study. I normally hardly ever stayed behind,when i did stay behind we hardly used to get in each others ways. This time she was inviting me out for tea,lunch & shopping & the rest. Was quite shocked. But we getting along well. Yesterday for the first time took my little step sister for a birthday party,she was really greatful & even bought a bunch of flowers to say thanks. Not that i wanted it.

Do you think i should maybe try to realy back off that his my dad & the time we spend together & get them something for there annivasery & take my step brother & sisters with me at home & get them a weekend or vacation away?

My dad & i did spend alot of time together. Just not sure what to get them for there annivasery & for her birthday or should i just leave it? For her past 2 birthdays got her to the day spas?

2007-02-03 19:00:07 · 2 answers · asked by MEHNAZ B 2

I'm sick of my parents telling me what to do with my life. I just turned 18 in December and i'm still going to high school, and have pretty average grades. Hell, they won't even let me out of the house for more than 1 or 2 days out of the week besides school. I had a job for a year and was forced to quit cuz of them. Everytime I want to goto a concert or hangout with friends, 90% of the time, its a no and I can't even stay out till midnite and the reason always is directed towards one thing. My average grades, and the fact that they think i'm a failure. They don't talk to me about anything at home and all they do is buy stuff for me to try and compensate for love but its made me really depressed being around them. When i'm elsewhere, I seem to feel happy, but i can't help feeling so low when I'm around them. It makes me feel anxious, stressed, and frustrated cuz they're also obsessive compulsive.

2007-02-03 18:42:34 · 9 answers · asked by Sabrina T 3

If your teenge son or daughter commited a serious felony such as murder, rape or armed robbery, would you want your child to be held fully accountable? Or would you ask the court for leniency?

2007-02-03 18:42:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

the word go or going some place he always automaticly look right at me. That is just my fear.

2007-02-03 18:41:00 · 3 answers · asked by Need Your Help 1

i love my boyfriend i been with him for a while and just a while i met his brother and he is so cute and i dont know there is just something about him that i like !! he always flirts with me but i just playaround with him as well !! but i have the urge to do something with him ;-) but then im afraid wat if anyone finds out wat should i do???

2007-02-03 18:35:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

well did u know that yr parents or sum1 else can look at all the i.m's u hav made to ppl!!!???!!!?
i hate this fact dont u?

2007-02-03 18:33:17 · 6 answers · asked by LIL B 3

If your mother, father, son or daughter loaned a few thousand dollars from you and refuses to pay it back, would you sue them?

2007-02-03 18:17:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister right now is participating in the detestable practices of Egypt with her husband and I am so sad! She is making contraceptives using crocodile poopy and fermented dough in order to not get pregnant. She knows my father disapproves of this but to be rebellious against him she tells him she is going to keep on doing it. My father has always told us not to dabble in the ways of Egypt and not only so, but I want baby nephews and nieces!! :( Does anyone know something I could say to her that would convince her to stop this?

2007-02-03 18:13:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

After all these years I've finally managed to put it into words: my dad is a control freak and a bully. He used to hit me regularly but it was his emotional abuse that made my childhood miserable to the point that I used to hide in my room and fantasise that I was adopted and my real family would come and get me soon. I'm now 50 with 3 children, living on the other side of the world, and he is STILL trying to dictate my way of life to me. My mum is 84 and he dominates her completely, always has. She would never say a word against him or go against his orders. He is 83 and used to be a school principal, so he's used to unconditional obedience. I actually found it a huge relief to admit to myself (which I did the other day after one of his insulting, nasty emails) how much I dislike him. But should I ignore his controlling and bullying and carry on phoning and emailing him and my mum just because they're very old and won't be around forever? Or is it okay to just accept my feelings?

2007-02-03 18:01:35 · 33 answers · asked by PuppyPrince 6

I'm the eldest among the four siblings and i'm the onlyt teenager in the house. it sucks because u have no one u can relate to with some things and what's worse is that I have 3 monkey-like siblings (the youngest is 8 years younger than me) and the next one, second to me,is a 12 year old annoying sister who keeps on messing aroung with my stuff without my permission! She would usually open my drawers when i'm not around and read my notebooks (i have tons of notebooks at home 'cause i love writing).

She's such a ....! I never do that to her stuff but she keeps on messing around with mine! What should I do? talking to her or my parents won't do any good (i've tried that already).

2007-02-03 17:58:49 · 10 answers · asked by ramengirl 2

to know HOW DO I PUT MY PIC UP AS MY DIS PLAY PIC A PIC OF ME ON HERE

2007-02-03 17:55:01 · 1 answers · asked by mrs.sl33py 1

This person don't help me take of our kids.This person always put me down,and he calls my son names when he can't have his way.So will it be wrong if I dont let him see his kids?

2007-02-03 17:51:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 17 years old, I finished high-school a semster ago and I am planning to move to Texas, and start college by next semester. I wont be 18 until november.
Is it legal for me to move into an apartment by myself with my parents permision and approval before Im 18??

2007-02-03 17:28:56 · 5 answers · asked by Lily 2

would that make 1/6? or what

2007-02-03 17:12:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-03 17:04:48 · 7 answers · asked by father10001 1

Thanx!

2007-02-03 17:03:53 · 12 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6

She's afraid to go outside because she thinks she's going to get killed. She's afraid that I'm going to get kidnapped/raped so I'm forbidden to go outside. We just moved into the safest apartment that's in a very rich part of town and she still says I'm not allowed to outside. She put a bar in my window and put two bookcases so I can't be kiddnapped. She did the same for her window. She got the loickes changed so the apartment managers can't use there keys to get in, and put two more locks on the door. She home schooled me because the kids in school can be dangourus. I just started PMS and my hormones are explodeing as I watch kids play while I'm looking outside from the kitchen. I can tell she's very depressed, and I am to. I'm screaming from this lonlyness. My dad left us, and family contact is very minimal. I have friends on the computer, but I'd like to ahve real friends.I feel realy bad for her, and how can I make her better? She's 67.

2007-02-03 16:54:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-03 16:50:40 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend mother has custody of her two girls.The mother has stayed with my friend for the last three yrs.About 3 days ago my friend filed her taxes and was told the next day to come back in because someone has already claimed the girls.(It was her mom).So my question is who has the right to claim the girls my friend because or her mom?Don't forget the mom resides with her although she has custody of the girls.

2007-02-03 16:30:46 · 4 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6

My husband won't let anyone help him to stop smoking. We get into stupid fights because I ask him not to have his next cigarette so I won't feel like puking when I kiss him, or nauseaus when I'm in the car with him smoking or turned off when he hugs me.

I am so turned off when he smells like a drunk trucker in a bar!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Any advice please?

Thank you so much!

; )

Stella!

2007-02-03 16:27:43 · 3 answers · asked by Reading and Answering Your Q' 3

okay i have a baby girl she will be 2 months on the 6th but the thing is my husband want's to go out with his friends everynight i think he should spend time with her he gos out everything then comes home drunk and wakes her up i am a full time mother its not easy , i love my husband but i dont think he should go out everything night i would not let him go out tonight he got very mad at me can you ladys he lp me out plz thank you.

2007-02-03 16:25:11 · 9 answers · asked by lori7642 3

ok im 20 years old on ssi i live in a pretty crappy house on my moms land i wanna fix it up but im scared shell sell it and she wont give me the title because shes sccared ILL sell it. i dont have water on the house im living in and shes giving me 4700 dollars she owes me but shes making me use it on my water it costs 5000 dollars. im having problems making my decision because thats way to much to spend on something i will never own and also she is a very big contributor for anxiety and depression for me it will be hard for me to leave here because i will get scared and im afraid that ill just move back here but thing is she sais if i spend the money on anything else but the water i caant come back then also think i mean i gotta get over not being near her shes the only person i feel safewith except my gf but shes also a little evil lol i can move into low income housing and keep the 4700 what should i do? ssi reason (panick attack anxiety depression agorophobia bipolar depression?

2007-02-03 16:24:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-03 16:23:52 · 6 answers · asked by frank 1

2007-02-03 16:05:42 · 10 answers · asked by ? 6

How do I help my son sleep by hisself? It affects him so emotionally that he will literally have a whole bad day the next day!

2007-02-03 16:01:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and his brother flies to Florida to visit my dad and my side of the family....While they were there my family decides to tell stories of things I did in my past (like 30 years ago) because they think its so funny.. So they tell stories of my wild days, my x-boyfriends, etc and telling all these things in front of my husbands brother.. Things that is none of his business.. Then after the visit the brother says to me..wow... your family told me all about your past and repeats everything back to me because he is so shocked and I am sure planning on going back and telling everyone the stuff he knows about me.... Frankly, I was ticked at my family because they did not have to say all that stuff in front of my brother in law.. My family said I am being too sensitive and it was stories and laughs to pass the time away. I feel I did not have to be the subject of it all. I just wondered how you would feel in the same situation... Am I being too sensitive?

2007-02-03 15:46:17 · 9 answers · asked by Lea 4