How can I get my husband to stop smelling like an ashtray?

Question

My husband won't let anyone help him to stop smoking. We get into stupid fights because I ask him not to have his next cigarette so I won't feel like puking when I kiss him, or nauseaus when I'm in the car with him smoking or turned off when he hugs me.

I am so turned off when he smells like a drunk trucker in a bar!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Any advice please?

Thank you so much!

; )

Stella!

Answer 1

I'm curious whether he had this habit before you got married.

I left a smoker because ultimately I could not stand it. You cannot make someone quit smoking. There is no magic cure for the smell. Assuming you've told him all of the above, and he still won't quit, he could ATTEMPT a compromise by
A) not smoking in the car with you, or in the house
B) Changing his shirt when he gets home so he doesn't stink so much
C) brush his teeth before you guys get intimate.

I can't kiss a smoker anymore either. Good luck to you.

Answer 2

Why did u marry him if u dont like his habits. He could at least not smoke while u r in the car.

Answer 3

OH I FORGOT, YOU ARE PERFECT, DEAL WITH IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!