okay i have a baby girl she will be 2 months on the 6th but the thing is my husband want's to go out with his friends everynight i think he should spend time with her he gos out everything then comes home drunk and wakes her up i am a full time mother its not easy , i love my husband but i dont think he should go out everything night i would not let him go out tonight he got very mad at me can you ladys he lp me out plz thank you.
2007-02-03 16:25:11 · 9 answers · asked by lori7642 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He should be spending time with u and the baby. He needs to limit his outings to maybe twice a week.How inconsiderate that he comes home and wakes the baby up.
2007-02-04 13:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he got mad at you because you wanted him to stay home speaks volumes. He is being very selfish for starters not to mention inconsiderate careless and disrespectful of your relationship and your daughter.The thing is that he makes his choices and you can not control them if he's determined.Since you still care about this man and you know him better than anyone probably does all you can do is tell him how you feel until he gets it. If he has an alcohol problem I'd even consider leaving until he deals with it. This is such an unhealthy envirolment for you and your child . Better to speak out and insist on a solution now before it gets worse .Sounds like you have a hard road a head.Wish I could help you more . Good luck !!!
2007-02-04 00:38:00 · answer #2 · answered by uncle louie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a selfish Pri-ck to me. Is this really the guy you want raising you daughter> She is young now, but if dad can not get his self together and fast, i think you should let him go one out every night and when you are ready and have your safe place to go, do not be there when his stinky *** comes in to breath alcohol all over you sweetest babies face. Yuck. I mean he wakes her up now, later when she is able to tell him off about his drunk as-sss, then he can smack her around a little too. You baby is only two month old and he leaves you at home EVERY NIGHT to go have fun while you are at home. I think he is having an affair and maybe you should have someone you know follow his as--ss to find out? makes for good information when proving he is an unfit parent in court and that is what he is being right now. Run and get away before your daughter has to witness the alcoholic home life.
Tracylyn S
2007-02-04 00:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by Tracylyn S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He has either taken you and the baby for granted or he was not fully ready to be a full time husband and father.....if he goes out every night then that is what he prefers that only means you and the baby come last.....all you can do is give him a choice you or the streets just to see what he does if he puts up a fight then he is telling you how he really feels...after that it is up to you ....hopefully what is right for you and the baby
2007-02-04 01:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by kellygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your hubby is being selfish and not wanting to take resposibility. He should be helping take care of the baby too. If he's going out every night getting drunk he has a real problem that's not going to get better without help. He needs to start attending some AA meetings and get past his addiction so he can grow up and start acting like a dad.
2007-02-04 00:49:49 · answer #5 · answered by precious1too 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to put a stop to this right now. Don't let him keep going out. You have a baby to think about and this is not a good environment for a baby. and if you keep letting him do this it will just get worse. Luckily your baby is not old enough to understand
what is going on. But when she gets older she will and believe me coming from a family that my father was just like this its not a good environment. It might be hard but you have to stop this for your child's sake if nothing else.
2007-02-04 00:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by smmma 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if he got mad....you are a full time mom, you deserve to have the upper hand to say what you feel. Sometimes it's not good to stay quiet all the time. You did right, but you got to stay on him.
2007-02-04 00:36:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HE HAS NO RIGHT TO BE MAD!!!!
HE HAS A RESPONSIBILITY!!!!
ITS YOUR BABY!!!!
IF HE DOESNT WANT TO DEAL WITH IT DUMP HIM AND GET ON CHILD SUPPORT!!!
2007-02-04 00:33:51 · answer #8 · answered by cristie 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a looser. Dump him.
2007-02-04 00:30:08 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋