Should i move?

Question

ok im 20 years old on ssi i live in a pretty crappy house on my moms land i wanna fix it up but im scared shell sell it and she wont give me the title because shes sccared ILL sell it. i dont have water on the house im living in and shes giving me 4700 dollars she owes me but shes making me use it on my water it costs 5000 dollars. im having problems making my decision because thats way to much to spend on something i will never own and also she is a very big contributor for anxiety and depression for me it will be hard for me to leave here because i will get scared and im afraid that ill just move back here but thing is she sais if i spend the money on anything else but the water i caant come back then also think i mean i gotta get over not being near her shes the only person i feel safewith except my gf but shes also a little evil lol i can move into low income housing and keep the 4700 what should i do? ssi reason (panick attack anxiety depression agorophobia bipolar depression?

Answer 1

You have to move out. Not only does it sound like she's contributing to your illness, she's clearly exploiting it with the money thing. You are being taken advantage of because she knows how hard it will be for you once out on your own.

But you know what? That which does not kill us makes us stronger. Living on your own will be very healthy for you, and will force you to learn new techniques and skills that will make your mind stronger.

The things that she may do for you now (cook, remind you to take your pills, whatever) can be done by others, including yourself. You have much more to give yourself than you realize. Please don't let her continue to do this to you. And good luck to you!

Answer 2

I would move especially as she seems to be the cause of your mental problem. I do hope your on medication.