well each and every day i been getting upset and i do not know how to make my self happy again.Please help me?!i been going threw some very hard time latly.And i just need advice on how to cheer up.Well my dad died last year in 2005 and witch it is 2007 right now and just can't stop crying.And my mom is going out with this one person that is rewing my life and so is his son.My mom does not care about me and she thinks this one guy's son is a angel.And witch i think he is very rude to me like he looks on the computer when i am chatting on yahoo messanger to my friends my mom said stop taking the computer away from him let him see.But that is very rude and his son been checking my e-mails and now when he told his dad and my mom of what was on my e-mails they been embarrassing me a whole lot latly.I just don't know what to do.every thing is bothering me latley and it is also getting to me in a upset way.Please help me?What should i do?and i am 14 years old.and his son is 10 years old.
2007-02-03 19:42:24 · 4 answers · asked by - Allison 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my mom is dating this guy and his son is very rude.
2007-02-03 19:42:58 · update #1
and i also hate the person that she is dating to.And he think i am a brat and a B****.
2007-02-03 19:43:59 · update #2
my mom is taking his side and his son's side and i just can't take it no more.
2007-02-03 19:44:47 · update #3
Baby girl,
I am so sorry to hear about your daddy. Listen, CALL your close relatives, maybe your daddy's sisters or brothers or your mom's sisters or brothers or your cousins. People you can TRUST. Tell them whats going on asap. Whenever my nieces call me becuz thier step dad is giving them problems, I get my car keys and rush over. I pick them up and have a girl night out. Hopefully your aunts dont have kids, if they do, you would probably like to hang out with your cousins. GET OUT of your house, I promise, a small thing like a weekend away from your house will give take away the stress you have. Your mom will see, with time, what type of people they are. Dont worry sweety, You will get thru this.
Lots of Love,
NinaFresa
2007-02-03 19:51:42 · answer #1 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm soo sorry about your dad. But my mom died when I was three months old. I never knew her and I'm still crying today -- even though it's hard to miss someone you never knew. My dad's also living with my step-mom, not with me. Although, I can say I'm a veryy happy person -- I live with my grandmother. Soo, I would suggest turning to a family member. Things will get better for you. :o) And what your mom's boyfriend and his son is doing is a total invasion of privacy, which you shouldn't have to put up with. If you can find a private time with your mom, don't be afraid to talk to her about this. If anyone, it's you who can make her notice what's wrong with this situation. Don't let any opportunities to resolve this slip away.
Good luck with everything. :o)
2007-02-04 04:36:28 · answer #2 · answered by Yahoo! Answers 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry you are going through this. I'm dating a new guy & my 10year old is not happy but I'm going about this differently than your situation. My suggestion is to talk to your mom or some one else in the family. If that fails see if your could talk to a counselor at school. your mom does care about you but maybe she is caught up in the moment of having someone new make her happy. talk to her & let her know how you feel. Sit her down & say please listen to me I have to talk to you. Good luck
2007-02-04 03:52:23 · answer #3 · answered by twogris 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That boy has no right looking into your stuff how is he getting into your email dont u have a password. I agree with u thats rude.
2007-02-04 21:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋