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please elaborate on it. I am referring to a incident that can be sad,nostaglic,happy,funny or frightening.

2007-02-03 22:47:54 · 13 answers · asked by cherrielicker 1 in Family & Relationships Family

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I was chatting with friends on net, when my wife informed me that my grandad passed away. The man whom I vowed never to talk died. The man whom I vowed never to even show my face died. The man who used to carry me on his shoulder died. I man who used to apply soothing medicine on my injuries passed away just like that. Although I was very angry with him, I found that there were tears in my eyes!!

Things were not always like that. I was the eldest and the most closest grandson of my granpa. But things went wrong when I married the girl I love, without taking his permission. Things went so worst that I was forced to leave his home. I never got the chance to say "Sorry". So I left the house and didnt meet my family members for 4years, until this day.

When I entered the house, I saw how everyone had changed. How everything had changed. I came to know frm grandma that grandpa wanted to see me 1 last time, but they didnty know where to look for me.

Yes, the death of my grandad brought me closer to my family. More close than I had ever been. But I had to pay a heavy price for it. Very heavy indeed. I am now the most poorest man on Earth.

2007-02-03 23:03:04 · answer #1 · answered by the dark lord 2 · 0 0

I have had a few of them, but the last & biggest one was just this past 2 weeks.
I found out I had a Goiter (nodule) in my neck, The did a fine needle Biopsy on it last Tuesday.
So for 2 weeks I had time to REALLY see what I was going to be leaving if I had Cancer.
It made me want to start over & do so many things with my husband & child differently.
I got my results Thursday & it was non-cancerous, I have that second chance now & I'm grabbing it with both hands.
I'm starting to be the wife & mother I should of been and my hubby & son are being nicer to me, more loving.
Life is too short, live for the moment knowing it could be your last.

2007-02-03 22:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0 0

Well. Since, I am an Indian. We have very strong family ties. We have one big family, my father, mother, wife, sister, her husband and their two daughters, all live in one city. If i were to single out one moment in my life, i really am not able to say for sure, because different moments gave me chances to be close to my father, sister, wife. My mother, well she was always very very special for me and will remain so. Papa, the way he gave me the freedom of expression, gave me guidance as and when I needed it. Inspite of the fact that we are living together, we find time for each other and make it a point to have a no point conversation everyday for atleast half an hour. We play cards, we watch movies, we just talk and talk without any reason. So I guess the closeness is developing day by day and getting stronger as and when the days pass by.

2007-02-03 23:13:08 · answer #3 · answered by Godunlimited 2 · 0 0

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2016-04-22 15:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

When my Mom was diagnosed with breast cancer. It was an awful, frightening time and seeing our Mom go through all the surgeries and chemo was a life changing experience. We all pitched in and helped her get through it. As a result, my brother, sister and I got alot closer. It is sad that it sometimes takes a tragedy or a bad illness to make people understand how important family really is.

2007-02-04 04:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0 0

The thing that brought me closer was moving to the other side of the world.

We talk every week - several times - for the last 20 years. And the visits home are special moments that can never be taken away.

Nice question btw

2007-02-03 22:53:24 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0 0

On wednesday night my mum kicked me out the house. I'd be happy to say it was the first time she did it but she also kicked me out on Christmas day. But this time I was certain that I wasnt going back. After sleeping on my friends couch for a night I decided to leave Scotland and head to London. The next day I went back to collect my stuff and my dad called me asking me to meet him in Glasgow. He had managed to arrange for me somewhere to stay and some money and packed me off on a train down to London. Saying goodbye to him was one of the most awful expiriences of my life, and I'll never forget realising how much he meant to me and I to him. A man who I thought only cared about business and money turned out to be a man who only ever wanted the best for me. Since I've been here he emails me everyday and calls every night. And I have to say this is the closest we've ever been even though this is the furtheset apart we've lived.

2007-02-03 23:31:17 · answer #7 · answered by N00b londoner 1 · 0 0

The sad occasion of my mothers death and we were standing around the coffin for the last time.My mums favourite music was being played in the background.And that brief moment brought the fanily close together,

2007-02-03 23:28:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Me living overseas. Not getting to see my parents makes us both put that extra bit of effort in. It has also decreased the amounts of fights we have, I have learnt to appreciate them more and we are always able to tell each other that we miss and love each other (whereas we didn't do that when we were in the same country, let alone living in the same house!)

2007-02-03 22:55:24 · answer #9 · answered by Danru 4 · 0 0

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2016-10-01 10:00:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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