Sometimes I just cry till I calm nyself out of the rage mood of smacking her?
2007-02-04 12:51:57 · 32 answers · asked by InLoveWithHim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
secretly record her and play it for everyone to hear ......Because most people will believe her and not you because she has more experience manipulating.Unfair so fight back
2007-02-04 12:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by ™ ♥♥♥ 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
If there's no reason then why is she yelling? Are you getting blamed for something you had nothing to do with? Or is she just being the "wicked stepmother from hell?" If she's being unfair to you, then, talk to your dad about it. He should step in a take care of the situation before it gets out of control. As far as smacking her, I wouldn't recommend it. You could be charged with battery and end up in juvie if she wanted to press charges against you. And that would really suck.
2007-02-04 13:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
buy ear plugs and block your ears when she begins howling or put your i pod headphones and switch on some music ,the minute she starts talking.
ignore her and don't shout back. but let your facial expression show that you're not gonna take her yelling any more.if she yet doesn't stop,then tell your dad. also talk things and matters out with your siblings or friends.that will give you some relief.
an additional suggestion is go head for a work out or a jog whenever your upset.its a great stress buster.
2007-02-04 13:35:24 · answer #3 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's one way of controlling your anger, but I wouldn't tell her. Also, you can make yourself sick. People usually yell when they're under stress - there's something going on that you're not privy to, just on the receptive end of her releasing that tension. Naturally this is not what you want to know but, you need to understand why people do things. It may help you to not take it all to heart. You're young, however, and are limited in expressing yourself to an adult. Can you have a heart to heart with your dad?. let him know that you know sometimes she's yelling because of other things going on in her life but, you feel like you're in a boxing ring with no head gear or gloves. It's an unfair fight and you need his help to step in to keep you from being a punching bag. If he can't help, tell your mom or mother's grandma. Grandma may definetly help...mom might kill her.
2007-02-04 13:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by Emerald Jones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
During a calm time, sit her down and tell her how much this bothers you and how it needs to stop. Then whenever she yells, tell her you won't listen to her when she is yelling and walk away calmly without looking back. Good luck!
2007-02-04 13:09:53 · answer #5 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go in one ear and out the other. If she is yelling at you for no reason then maybe she has underlying problems. Just go to your room or another room in the house and dont let her get to you. If it is really bad talk to your dad about it when she isnt around.
2007-02-04 12:57:03 · answer #6 · answered by chemky1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah thats good sometimes! but after both of you calm down try to go talk to her and tell her how you feel about her yelling at you for no reason!!
2007-02-04 12:55:23 · answer #7 · answered by Lashaun A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd yell back at her. Tell her that she has no right to just yell at me for no reason, even if she's my mom in a way. Nobody, at all, no matter who they are, has no right to yell at you for no reason. It's not right. You can even have the president yelling at you for no reason, it'd still be wrong, no matter how notorious or powerful the president is. And, if she tries to hit you after you yell back at her, then she's gone too far. Well, maybe I'm exaggerating a bit, don't yell back at her, just ask her what you did wrong. If she doesn't come up with an answer, tell her it's not right to yell at you for no reason.
2007-02-04 12:58:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Are you able to talk with your father about how you feel? If so, you might want to do that privately when your step mother is not around.
If you do talk to your father, don't call your step mother any bad names or anything, just explain to him what she does to upset you. Maybe he can help you two work things out.
In the mean time, try to stay out of her way, and try to avoid any confrontations with her, if you can.
2007-02-04 13:01:05 · answer #9 · answered by Seldom Seen 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just yells at you for the fact that she despises your mother that she takes it out on you. Most of the times second wives tend to be a little jealous.Or maybe shes just insecure of herself. Don't worry hang in there!!!
2007-02-04 13:04:06 · answer #10 · answered by yo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It really is hard to say grew up being yelled atall the time, but not reacting to the yelling would probably be first. If she says something bad like your hair is horrible tell her its like "Horrible hair day, and thanks for the compliment"
She probably only yells at you to feel dominant because she has self esteem issues, be sarcstic one time untill she starts to threaten you, them just scxrem at such a high pitch she leaves you alone?
Not really sure but don't let people ruin your life due to their shortcomings.
2007-02-04 12:58:09 · answer #11 · answered by Dave 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋