can we give equal respect daughter in law and son? how it is possible?

Question

we expect more from bahu(daughter in law) totake care of husbend ,mother n father in law,brother nsister in law,but do all of them respect n little careing about her?

Answer 1

Treat your daughter-in-law as your own daughter giving full freedom in the household matters.

Answer 2

Well I don't know when this will happen. My parents have started treating my different since I got married. Now I feel as if I am their son in law and she's their daugther...

Well that was my experience, but talking about general picture the scenario is a bit different from what is in my home and different from what you have explained. The fact is that after marraige, girl moves on to the guys house. Everything's new to her. To the guy everything's the same and since his lifetime he has already adjusted to the environment at his house. The new person in the house here is the girl, so it's obvious that she needs to make some adjustments and pretty soon.

The girl would have taken care of her own parents and her own brothers and sisters if she had been with her parents, wouldn't she? All she has to do is consider her in laws with equal respect and take care of them equally. What's wrong with this kind of expectation.

But what happens here is quite different. If a father scolds a girl for something, that suggests he cares; and if a father in law scolds the girl for the same thing, that would suggest that he's mean.

I am not in favor of the in laws here. I understand taht a lot of time the in laws expect a bit too much from the girl. But all I am trying to say is about the scenario after the marraige. You cannot just generalise that everytime there's a problem with a maried lady, the in laws have to be the culprits. More than half the times the things are actually misunderstood. And this misunderstanding goes in the favor of the girl most of the time. And of the remaining instances there are time when the in laws are wrong and there are times when the lady is wrong.

When it comes to paying respect, a daughter in law is actually given more improtance than a son. It's just that she is not able to realise this fact cos she doesn't find the same environment as she had in her home. I've seen plenty of families, been to a lot of places in India, and just remember three families who didn't treat their daughter in law respectfully. And these families didn't even treat their son with due respect and love. All three of these couples went for love marraige against the will of their parents.

Answer 3

The life and happiness of a girl comes to an end, the moment she is married to a guy who believes in bahu philosophy. The society is highly superstitious and the religion is the root cause of all the evils.

Answer 4

In my opinion even a Bahu[Daughter-in-law] is a human being. She must be given highest respect.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

You should give equal respect to all human being on earth. We should be thinking twice about it.