A few days ago, my friend Lisa pantsed me at our softball game. I wouldn't be that mad (on my team, we pants each other all the time in the locker room and stuff), except it was in front of many of the parents of the girls on our team (everyone else had left the game already, so it was just the parents who were still there). I got really mad and refused to talk to her... And I haven't seen her since. However, I WILL see her on tuesday, and I have no IDEA how to act... I hate fighting with people, but I'm still angry about what she did... Any advice?
2007-02-04 09:33:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would be upset too. I'm sure she wasn't trying to hurt you, she probably just thought it would be all funny and everyone would get a kick out of it. Just tell her how it made you feel and that she better not do it again. Forgive her and move on, if she's a good friend.
2007-02-04 09:37:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go dont be angry with her just let her make the first move.She may not talk to u or she will apologise or she will make out like nothing happened either way she needs to know that wat she done was not acceptable and u need then to let it go.
2007-02-04 10:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just smile at her and say, "mad? me? of course not..why would I be mad?" then grin and wink at her. When she walks away, grab her pants and get even (or at least make her think you are going to do it)
2007-02-04 10:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by dreamgirl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she will probably come and apologize if she is a real friend. but just let her know you were embarrassed. don't say 'you did... or you make me feel..." say " i was embarrassed when you pansed me in front of all those people. when we do it, its never in front of any one but us" she should understand. good luck.
2007-02-04 09:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by winklerwilson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how it made you feel and see how she reacts. You do not need to fight it solves nothing.
2007-02-04 09:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats done is done...what you have to do now is plot your revenge.
2007-02-04 09:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋