well me and my boyfriend and our baby are living in my room in my parents house because we are trying to get the money to get out own place. But since my bf was working with my dad, they started to not like each other really. like going to work and coming home to each other just wasent working. They used to like each other perfectly fine, but he quit there because it was too hard on them. so now they like hate each other and they always talk about each other, and of course im always in the middle of it. My dad b*tches to me about him, and my bf b*tches to me about my dad, and its just do damn frustrating.
I dont know what to do.
but it seems like my bf has changed too though. he isent really the same way when i met him.. and its really sad.
he wont come upstairs and socialize with my dad, if my mom is up here (without my dad being here) he will come up here perfectly fine. It's driving me insane!!
2007-02-04 12:51:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
also my dad is a big buff guy (bodybuilder). if they start fighting and it gets bad, i dont want to them to get into a fist fight, because i know it will happen, because my dad will end up in jail and my boyfriend will end up in the hospital or in the morgue..
ugh, its frustrating
2007-02-04 12:53:14 · update #1
Best solution is to move out, i know it is hard but move out, and also speak to your dad and tell him how this makes you feel how him complaining about your bf helps no one and drives you insane, and say the same thing to your bf.
2007-02-04 13:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by innocentkitty2006 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well that does happen when ur around someone all the time. maybe ur dad saw something he didnt like that he does when ur not around. and thats hard on ur dad. as for ur boyfriend he's stressed out he's trying to do the best he can to get u and him and the kid ur own place. and it's not working the way he thought it would. and ur dad is stressed since know he paying more money out then he would before. depending on the time frame u have been there he might think u all should of been on ur own by now. u have wonderful parents that let u all stay there until u get on ur feet. once u all get out on ur own they well become close again with out the fighting. maybe if u talked to ur mom u might find out some stuff that u will under stand about what i swrong with ur dad. i know how u feel on the part u feel they changed too. my husband did but like i said it's from stress. he lost his job and was everything in the house hold. me and 2 kids at home and support for another kid. they feel that there failures. it does get better just takes time. talk to ur dad if u can with out him getting mad. thats all u can do. unless u guys move with his parents or out on ur own. best of luck!!!
2007-02-04 14:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by wishstar28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry to hear this. You are totally right in your decision. You might need someone to persuade your parents and make them understand. Divorce isn't something Indian's are still comfortable with. You can try and get help from some counselor in your city. Or even some friend or family member who understands your problem. Being alone in this struggle is not good. I Wish you all the best. Hope things become better
2016-03-29 05:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is sitting down with both of them to talk about this an option?
You could try one at a time. I think you could let them know how it is hurting you and you want them to work things out. It must be hard for you because you love them both. You have to think about your family right now maybe you should try to move out sooner then you had planned. In what ways is your boyfriend acting different? Talk about that right away!! Just remember there are a lot of people who could never live with the in-laws. I hope you can work this one out Good Luck!
2007-02-04 13:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by Zakia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worry about the baby. Unfortunetly it sound like you have to live with your parents; if your bf can't understand that then that's his bad. I don't know how old you are but your father has his daughter, your bf, and new baby living under his roof. He will obviously b*tch and has every right. I'm not talking harshly I live at home with my parents to.
I'm just sayin think of it as if you got your own place and your parents moved in with you and they always are around. Then they get frustrated that you seem to be complaining (it could be about nothing) where would they get off your house right?
2007-02-04 13:00:05 · answer #5 · answered by dazed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much wonder your bf has changed ,the stress alone must make him want to start running.Try to move out as soon as possible or work it out. If not your boyfriend will be history.
2007-02-04 18:08:16 · answer #6 · answered by Miz Val 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should confront your father and let him know thats things need to change that there is a small child in the house and he or she does not need to be around the crap he dishing out tell him the baby comes first and that there fighting should be set aside for the baby sake
2007-02-06 11:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by doolin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your child and the childs Father need to move out even if you have to go to a homeless shelter! Your Mother and Father are ruining your relationship.
2007-02-04 12:55:38 · answer #8 · answered by ma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋