my dad was an *** my whole life to me not physically (only when i was 6 mtnhs he slapped me for not finishing my food) he's not really mean anymore and he's doing his mr. nice guy act to get my mom back (we moved out) and my mom being those gullible oh i'm lonely and want a husband type of woman is going back (even though he controls her and my & my bro and she says she doesn't love him and really never will be tht happy w/ him)........... i hope he's mean to her again so she'll come back and hopefully just hopefully she'll never go back again i know tht's mean but i tht's how i feel.....i'm happy though she's now letting me live w/ my grandma when she goes bak but it's still not the same....and he goes there everyday......yea my extended famly likes him knowing how he treated us men can get away w/ **** in our culture.....if you want more info on how he was look at my other questions (he lyk emotionally abusive alwasy yelling & ****)
yea so am i wrong or messed up for how i feel
2007-02-04 13:42:45 · 8 answers · asked by mamama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
o yea and i 4got 2 say he also cheated on her but as stupid as she is she 4gave him
2007-02-04 13:47:43 · update #1
You cant make up your mothers mind for her. It sounds like she likes being treated like crap, or she wouldn't go back to him time after time again. She is not thinking of you and how you feel.Later on in life PLEASE do not let a man control your life for you. YOU are the only one who can control your life. Tell your mom how you feel before it happens again.GOOD LUCK.
2007-02-04 17:30:35 · answer #1 · answered by kk bear 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are feeling rejected by your Mother so, you will always will be finding faults as to why your Mother took your dad back, and went to live with him. What do you gain in belittling your Mother? She is old enough to make her own decisions, and if she is going to suffer at the hands of your father, or if he does not make her happy, she will leave him again. I hope you will come to terms with your emotions and will try to deal with it a little bit better, for your sake, do not try to let this get you down, because in the long run the one that will suffer will be you. Please, do not blame your Mom for trying to get together with your Dad, she is entitled to try and make a go of her Marriage, and if it does not work, she is going to go back to where you are with your Grandma.
2007-02-11 14:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's stuck on thinking he'll be the man she has wanted him to be. Obviously her first real love. She'll unfortunately have to learn the hard way. Just be there for her when she falls cause she will. Sorry you are going thru such crap. Hope it don't take to long and he don't hurt her too bad.
2007-02-11 16:39:03 · answer #3 · answered by #1 saints fan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your Mother does not see all the bad things he does it is called LOVE. She is blind to all his faults you need to talk to her before she moves in with your Dad. Did your Dad ever hurt her? She is going to have to find out on her own. Just be their for your Mom if she needs someone to talk to. You are right for all your feeling that's good that your stand up for your self
2007-02-10 01:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by Gina D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your Mom is trying to find her happiness, as you are trying to find yours. be patient he may have changed, ask your Grandmother if you can stay with her, you did not say how old you are, that is great that you are trying to protect your Mom, but she is a big girl and has to make her own decisions as to what is right for her. Good luck
2007-02-11 21:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u cant decied for ur mother, but u have the right to feel that way. tell her how u feel and maybe u can convince her that it may not be the best thing for her..he may not be mean right know but he may have a temper and he can explode at anytime.
2007-02-10 07:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by cute_shorty_878 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go live in a foster home if you can't live with him because nothing you say will ever change your mothers mind till he kills her, so find a social worker and have your self removed!!! Good Luck Little one hope you find your wings to fly far far away!!
2007-02-09 07:45:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Who knows maybe he is maturer now and has mended his ways.Age does that sometimes.
2007-02-12 13:37:15 · answer #8 · answered by Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋