This past weekend was one I would say came straight out of hell. First of all I had to go to a family get together up in Chicago where is was extremely frigid. I was frozen all weekend long. To make matters worse everyone in my family was fighting.
My brother and I were fighting. My sisters were fighting with my sister-in-law. And my aunts were fighting with my mom. Nobody had a good time all weekend.
My brother was fighting with me cause I refuse to break things off with the new man I am currently involved with. He refuses to accept that I am 27 years old and can make my own decisions. How do I get him off my back.
2007-02-05 05:26:06 · 8 answers · asked by Sexie Gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell him he's not your Dad, and to step off. Say "I'm 27, and I'll figure out my own life," or, "Get back to me with advice when your own life's perfect..."
2007-02-05 05:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by ndngrlz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a family with not much to do of a constructive or loving nature. Instead of trying to get your brother off your back perhaps you should try to make him your friend. Then you will better understand each other.
2007-02-05 13:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make people do anything. Just go on about your life and limit your time with them.
But on the other hand... is there a reason why he wants you to break it off? Maybe he's right.
2007-02-05 13:43:23 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like everyone needs to avoid each other for a while, maybe in the future everyone will have calmed down.
2007-02-05 14:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is geniunely concerned ask him why he doesn't want you to go out with this new guy maybe he sees something wrong there that you don't see.
2007-02-05 14:53:02 · answer #5 · answered by chiefs fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he's entitled to his opinion but it's your life and your decision.
2007-02-05 13:35:47 · answer #6 · answered by **Red** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to mind his own business,its your life!
2007-02-05 13:32:15 · answer #7 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope things turn better this weekend
2007-02-05 13:31:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋