when ever my GF has a disagreement with he throws a tantrun in the house she slams door start yelling and one time i was in the bedroom she threw a big candle at the door and damage it is this normal this the 1st time i ever lived with a woman and we are engaged.
ALso one day i came home and starting cooking dinner for myself and she got upset because she got me a 10pcs chicken nugget from Mcdonals and i did not want that for dinner is it me ? and as usually she startign yelling and stomping and had a tantrum again one of many .
2007-02-05 05:18:59 · 12 answers · asked by GRUNT 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She's not mature enough for a relationship. She needs to grow up. If you marry her, then just realize that you already know this is what you're choosing for the rest of your life.
2007-02-05 05:22:48 · answer #1 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
RUN!!!!!! Run as fast as you can! This is coming from a woman, so you better believe it will only get worse. She is a spoiled brat who needs some parental discipline. If you marry her you will end up with a bratty wife and in-laws who think you make her act that way. I always tell people that if you think someone is hard to deal with now, then don't get married. They are not going to change no matter how much you love them or how much they love you! So if you can live like that or worse for the rest of your life, and you want to have her as the mother of your children (and trust me, you don't) then go ahead and get married. Think about this...have you let her see the worst in you yet? Probably not, probably still pretending to be nicer than you are. Well guess what, so is she. If this is good behavior, what will it be like later?
2007-02-05 05:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by Athena 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT. Someone who throws a tantrum at every disagreement has the emotional maturity of a 3-year-old. This person neither respects you nor respects themselves enough to resolve any conflict without violence or "making a scene". She's clearly not ready to be married.
Second, if she's bringing home McNuggets for dinner, she's not the kind of woman you'd want to marry anyway. Anyone who gets angry that you'd want to eat your own cooking instead of that garbage doesn't care about your health or wellness, either.
2007-02-05 05:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by Cunning Linguist 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is giving you great insight into what being married to her will be like unless you do something about it. You don't want to live like this, and frankly, I'll bet she doesn't want to live like this either. It sounds like she hasn't learned how to deal with frustration and anger. She's still dealing with it like she was a four year old. You really need to go to counseling...TOGETHER! The way she acts now is a deal-breaker for a happy life together. The counselor may recommend anger-management classes, but since you are considering a life together, go for the whole deal. The time you invest in your relationship now will pay off HUGELY in the future. If she doesn't want to go to couseling, you go alone. If she is unwilling to put some time into making your marriage a happy one, you really need to consider if this is what you want in a partner.
2007-02-05 05:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by Caper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN, GET IN THE CAR AND BLOW THIS LADY OFF!! She is way over the top with her behavior. Do you seriously want to spend the rest of your life with this Drama Queen? How do you think your children will be? This is not normal. Get out of there as fast as you can. She's nuts. What's next? Slashing your tires?
2007-02-09 03:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she is immature... When you are in a relationship you have differences and that is where compromise comes into play.... My advice to you is to set her down and tell he you aren't just playing house. and along with a relationship comes mature actions and responsibilities... And if she cant control her little childish fits she is going to have to find a new place to live... because you want a mature logical woman to spend your life What.... best of luck
2007-02-05 05:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by wva_butterfly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she's over-reacting quite a bit. How does she react when there is a real crisis? Sounds like she has anger management issues or else she has unrealistic ideas about relationships. We all have our oddities about us that cause relationship tension, but this woman sounds like she could benefit from stress management or anger managment classes.
2007-02-05 05:28:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion to you is "go away bro." ...What if she receives really mad & starts to boost the attacks with assistance from using a knife or perchance a gun even as u sleep after an rather good nighttime of love making?...You gotta get her immediately guy in the previous this element receives any worse.
2016-11-02 09:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT normal at all. Immature, emotionally unstable, childish, and downright nasty. Tell her to get some counseling about it or the engagement is off.
2007-02-05 05:23:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's why me & my ex-girlfriend couldn't live together, If you can't live together without fighting, don't live together or get married or it will or may get worse,-cause now you know what being married can be like. (I couldn't live with a girlfriend unless we didn't fight). anyways-now you can decide if you wanna live with her & get married. it's not the same as dating & not living together...good luck.
2007-02-05 06:38:20 · answer #10 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋