I am in HIGHSCHOOL and one of the school orchestras that i am in is taking a class trip to BOSTON, ( i live in NEW JERSEY so it's only a few hours away). We will be staying in Boston for just 4 DAYS however my parents feel the need to come to Boston to see the concert, which is okay, but they also want to STAY AT THE SAME HOTEL AS MY CLASS!!! that is not cool and soooo embarassing. How can i convince them that nothing bad is going to happen to me and tell them to NOT TO RUIN MY LIFE?
2007-02-05 08:10:44 · 11 answers · asked by love*pink 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your parents aren't making you stay in the same room as they are, so what's the big deal? They will not ruin your life by staying at the same hotel. You should be glad that your mom and dad are supportive of you.
2007-02-05 08:19:46 · answer #1 · answered by Pink1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Appreciate your parents concern for you. You have no idea how many kids dont have that all. Im sure when you become a parent you'll understand. I did!! But talk to them and let them know how you feel. One thing is for sure never tell them that they are ruining your life it will only make matters worse. Just TELL THEM HOW U FEEL!!
2007-02-05 16:45:31 · answer #2 · answered by VANESSA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They not want to let go of there little girl. Sit down with them a tell them how you feel about them going on your class trip. Ask them why they think they have to go on the trip too.
2007-02-05 16:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by C.K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents are the same way...I'm 22 now and I have a 3 year old daughter and they still think they need to run my life like that....so I'm glad I moved to a place where they wont go! Though they still show up uninvited....Get's REALLY anoying...
2007-02-05 16:19:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call LendingTree.com get a mortgage and move out, or shup up and live with it. If you didnt have plans on sleeping around you would not be worried about them being there. Ms. Hot Momma!
2007-02-05 16:21:04 · answer #5 · answered by Grown Lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your parents are not ruining your life they just love you.my granddaughters are 13 and 12 they just love for their grandmother to go with them all the time.Idon't have amy parents so you should treasure the time you have with your parents
2007-02-05 16:48:13 · answer #6 · answered by sunshine57 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had to tell them that you have your own life also. They most understand that you don't feel free when having them around.
Print out your question, and show it to them
2007-02-05 16:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by 88for88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's their job to make sure you are OK at all times. You will understand this when you become a parent as well...
2007-02-05 16:21:51 · answer #8 · answered by Jersey Girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
COUNT YOUR LUCKY STARS GIRLIE.I'M 31 AND I HAD THE SAME KIND OF PARENTS,AND TRUST ME I ALWAYS WISHED THEY WOULD LEAVE ME ALONE AND JUST TRUST ME FOR ONCE,AND THEN IT HAPPENED,I LOST BOTH MY PARENTS WITH IN THREE YEARS AND IT SUCKS,SO DO YOUR SELF A FAVOR AND JUST LOVE THEM EVEN WHEN THEY GET ON YOUR NERVES,AND TRUST ME THEY WILL AND IT GETS WORSE EVERY YEAR,BECAUSE BEFORE YOU KNOW IT THEIR GONE,SO LOVE THEM AND TOLERATE THEM.....GOOD LUCK.
2007-02-05 16:35:07 · answer #9 · answered by MARTHA W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will understand why parents do what they do when YOU become one!!!
2007-02-05 16:19:39 · answer #10 · answered by linda bug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋