Family - January 2007

i am 14 years old. i have 90's in all of my classes except science. in science i have a 61. i'm having trouble with my parents right now, we're always fighting. my mom just screamed at me that she doesn't care whatever i do and that she's going to pull me out of my private school and send me to a public one. she SCREAMED, like you could tell it hurt the back of her throat. she's mad because i didn't turn in a science paper. i forgot. i made a human mistake. i hardly ever ever ever do that. i apologized numerous times today. but that just doesn't seem like enough. my dad's a wimp and just takes her side. i feel like my mom has no love for me at all, and maybe that's a normal teenage thing, but i honestly feel unloved in my own home. my brothers are convinced i'm satan. i'm actually really nice and i have many friends and my teachers love me. all of my family members think i'm stupid and lazy. my brother gets bad grades and he's a smartass but they love him so much. what can i do.

2007-01-11 11:36:36 · 7 answers · asked by jooooooolie 1

2007-01-11 11:31:57 · 3 answers · asked by BIZARO99 2

well my mom hasnt let me out of this house 4 2 whole weeks...we do nothin at all.....then when i try 2 b nice she gets all mad......is she tryin 2 push me away & hate her...or is she tryin 2 protect me from somethin?....if she wants me 2 go out n the real world wouldnt she let me go out & explore it?....or am i just b-n 2 hard on her & me?

2007-01-11 11:22:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am the executor of my Nanas will, that is what she wanted & put into her will. I took care of my Nana, she lived w/me for awhile and I was at her apartment every other day taking her shopping & cleaning & doctors, etc. I took off of work to take her places she needed to be. When she fell I was the one who called 911 & was there the whole night at the hospital & everyday till she passed away 10 days later. My sister came on the day she died, not any time before. That is what my Nana hung on for was for her to come say goodbye & by the time she did my Nana was comatose, hospice was there more than my sister. She never came excet holidays. My Nana was semi wealthy & left me with 75% of her assets & my sister 25%. My sister is saying that I coerced my Nana, made her give me more. She has hired lawyers & is taking tis to court. I did not spend XMas w/my family could not be by her w/out wanting to kill her. Same with upcomin ones. No 1 will say anything 2 her. What should I say 2 my family

2007-01-11 11:16:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have mostly guys in my profession. Last year, I hired a lady to work for me. She is married with 2 kids, and so am I.

Everything went fine for the first 11 months until late last year ... We worked on a project together, and I can sensed that she was flirting to me (only to me) all the time.

I tried to ignore it, but something happened yesterday... We finished the project and I need to fly back to my home (we are in different states). She gave me a big hug that is longer than it should, and then she whisper in my ear and thanks me for teaching her, then proceed with a kiss on my face.

I went back home last night but her action got me thinking about her in my dreams. Why was she kissing me? Is it just a friendly hug and kiss?

2007-01-11 11:03:00 · 14 answers · asked by Jedi 1

My sons father has seem him once a year since he was born in Oct 2002. My son is now asking questions, like Mom who's my dad? I want to find him and tell him I love him. IT KILLS ME. He's been calling my dad, da-da. But now he knows that he's Grandpa and is asking about his dad? I am away at school with my son and about to go into medschool. we live about two hours away from his Dad.

The last time I talked to his Dad was March of 2006, and we've lost touch since.(He switches jobs so child support won't catch up with him) Should I find him and introduce my son again? Or is that just opening a bag of worms. I know he wont be consistant and I just don't wont that heart ache for my son.

2007-01-11 11:00:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

father didn't take any responsibility from the time of pregnancy until about 1/1.5 yrs of age. few issues with child support arrearages. wants shared parenting but says if i move with my husband to any place other than where i am, i can't keep my son. (this is want he is planning on submitting in the shared parenting order for judicial review) he wants true shared parenting reduction in child support or sharing of child expenses (child care, etc) he has also implied that it isn't a choice. he will submit this and the judge will sign it and that is all there is to it. what has happened in the past will have no bearing on the outcome.

2007-01-11 10:51:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband & I just moved. We don't have any friends in the area.
The only family we have here is my husband's cousin & her husband. When we decided to move here, they promised to help
us. She promised to watch our kids whenever we needed it.
We only asked twice. The first time she turned us down
when we first asked with a good reason. The second time was for a very important function for my husband's job this Saturday.
It's an awards thing. he's getting a big award. Has to make a speech. It's black tie. His boss said be there or don't come back to work ever to everyone who works there. She said she'd watch them 2 weeks ago. We reminded her Monday. she said she'd still
watch them. We RSVPed for dinner and everything. Now, she calls and says she can't because her husband is going out of town for work and she wants to go to. We called his work (he's not going out of town.) Should we tell her off and disown her
because my husband could lose his job. (Can't get another sitter.)

2007-01-11 10:46:53 · 7 answers · asked by txharleygirl1 4

I am a single mother.
I Work.
and I go to School.
I don't need money, but
I also have a good job which i am stable at
that requires no education.

I want to let one go....

In your opinion, would you leave work or School.

I value an education, but because i have a young daughter, i cannot work and attend school at the same time (daycare and shift schedule conflict)

2007-01-11 10:43:05 · 32 answers · asked by mallenmarie 1

She will never let me on anymore. I need help.

2007-01-11 10:41:10 · 10 answers · asked by Bret K 1

they throw things at each other hit each other and my sis takes over the parent roll and acts like a jerk i try to go to my friends but cant get out because of her wat should i do?

2007-01-11 10:36:43 · 3 answers · asked by fayt4566 1

i know what a women consider a romantic night but what is romantic to a guy what really gets you in the mood

2007-01-11 10:36:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

my brother hits me alot and im 13 yrs old and he is 15 and i do nuthing 2 make him mad but he hits me and im starting 2 get tired of it its starting 2 make me mad and i rreeeaaaaallllllyyyy want him 2 stop hitting me and my mom doesnt kno about it

2007-01-11 10:25:52 · 4 answers · asked by Elizabeth A@yahoo.com 1

he said he wants to be surprised but i dont know what to surprise him with.he is into yugioh and video games.he wants a labtop but i can not afford that.he said he would like a pet but what pet is there besides cats and dogs that a cat or dog wont eat or attack.

2007-01-11 10:17:18 · 17 answers · asked by kdinklmyer 1

why do people say its not the size of the ship its the motion of the ocean

2007-01-11 10:09:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi my friends call me Allison and I have a very conntrolling mother. She doesn't let me go to 4-h dances by my self ,she doesn't let me go to the movies with my friends, and i'm 13 and i don't even get to go on a date with out her or my dad there. So if your parents (mother) are anything like mine I fill sorry for you. I know they are just trying to protect me and all but there are times where you can lighten up just a little. Pleeeeeease help me!!!<:-O

2007-01-11 10:09:02 · 12 answers · asked by Allison 1

In a way I was relieved when this happened but now 7 months on I am feeling very depressed. As I am writing now I am crying wishing my mum was here with me. Also I have had a total hysterectomy 7 weeks ago, I am 38 years old and yesterday I went to the doctors to have the checkup after the op and was looking forward to start work again but he told me I was not fit to go back to work yet. He has given me a sick note for another 5 weeks and this has made me even more depressed. Everyone tells me that I deserve to rest as I went through a lot when my mum was ill but I prefer going to work. Has anybody that has had a hysterectomy before been depressed?

2007-01-11 09:57:19 · 19 answers · asked by superstar68 3

I am at a loss. My parents are way to stubborn and they will not move, its just to a different neighborhood where all my friends are. I really need answers!!

2007-01-11 09:51:50 · 15 answers · asked by asdfrewq 1

When school gets out this year my 9 yr old wants to go live with her dad. her dad lives 1 hour away and that would mean I only would see her every other weekend. She is the only child there and is very spoiled. She has three younger sibblings at my home and is the oldest. She can be very moody and mean sometimes but that doesn't mean I want her to go live with her dad. What should I do?

2007-01-11 09:46:04 · 6 answers · asked by jaymeaso 1

here is the deal, my dad died a year ago, and since then everything has gone crazy, my aunts (on my dads side ) always disliked my mom because she filed for divorce and told the cops about how he hit my bro and her. I guess my aunts think my dads drinking got worse after that (eventually leading to his death). less than 2 weeks after my dad died my aunts wrote a letter to the court telling them to take us out of here. We went through all the court bull**** living with my one nice aunt on my dads side for 6months and we won! but everything is falling apart again. My mom has a neurological disorder (shes had it since i was like 9) and that sometimes causes her to be very weak. But then she just starts drinking too. These past couple months she has been in trouble with the police a few times... right now she is in the hospital. She has tried to hurt herself two times in the past 2 months. Once by starting a fire (smart one right?) causing me and my brother to get hurt not her.
READ ON

2007-01-11 09:43:51 · 2 answers · asked by help:) 3

My son is 22 and basically on his own so I don't have a lot of influence on him anymore. He works an entry level job, plays WoW and sleeps. That is his life. It has been his life for almost 4 years now. His personal hygene is sad. He is bright, talented, and nice looking (when he is cleaned up), and I hate to see him wasting away. Is ther any influence that i still might have? If we talk about college or trade school or simply what he might like to "be" when he "grows up" he just gets sullen and angry.

2007-01-11 09:43:47 · 1 answers · asked by river 2

My daughter is in first grade and is very hyper. I had the school counselor observe her in class last year and she told me that I had nothing to worry about it. But, she bounces off the walls at home and has a VERY difficult time sitting still. It is almost impossible. It takes us typically over an hour to complete 2 homework pages. She has a very hard time focusing on any one thing. I believe this is an issue which hinders her reading as well. She is not doing as well as I had hoped. She can never sit and eat a meal without getting up 10 times or half hanging off the chair. I also have 2 other daughters, one is 2 and the other is 3 months. She fights with the 2 year old all the time and is very selfish. But, she is very maternal with the baby. It is weird how much differently she behaves with each of them. She is not allowed to watch TV at all during the week. I hoped that would help. Any advice would be great. Thanks.

2007-01-11 09:38:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I let my daughter, her boyfriend and their 2 children come and live in my home. This was working out find as long as they were getting things their way. But as soon as I asked for the rent we had agreed to she went off, cursing me out etc. I have given them a 3 day notice to pay rent or quit but now have come to the place of either taking legal action on them (which would make it hard for them to get a place in the future) or just waiting them out. My home is now a miserable place to be. I just want my peace and quite back. By the way, she refuses to just move out, says I have no legal right to make them move and according to Cal law she is right. Help.

2007-01-11 09:36:40 · 22 answers · asked by klmsmom 1

i have a 4 yrs. old step-daughter and we have no coustody. her mother has full coustody but we have not seen or heard from her in 3 weeks. we can't even take the little girl to the doctor.for a check-up or anythingshe needs to be in pre-school but her mother pulled her out be cause she had headlise. we have a case worker with family services but they say that it isn't abandenment because she is with her father. i have run out of ideas every one says get a lawyer and fight it but we can't afford that. we are paying her mother $55 a week to take care of her and we have her. that doesn't make since to me. we have heard through friends that she is useing the money for acohol but the courts won't make her prove what she is spending it on because we are a little behind on it. i'm looking for anything that could help our case any.
please help

2007-01-11 09:29:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a cousin who lets her 12 year old child drink coffee every morning, just like an adult. Isn't that bad for them? They are still growing. (I am encountering a problem with this)

2007-01-11 09:17:50 · 35 answers · asked by Taylor 2

I ran into my step sister down the street and she advised her mum had passed away and my dad was all alone now? i have not seen him for over 10 years he was an alcoholic and was on drugs, but now i have heard he has SLOWED the drinking down and is lonely and has noone anymore, he has never met his grand kids or seen them.
i feel guilty i was going to visit him on sunday but i have a big fear of rejection AGAIN and as if he doesnt care, also i wanted someone elses opionion to see if they would take there kids but not introduce him as my dad or should I ????? im very confused on this, very nervous about going and quite scared Would you go? i have a step dad that has been with me since i was 2 and the kids call him Pa can anyone suggest what to do? or what they would do in this situation?

2007-01-11 09:05:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter and husband are laughing and playing around, joking around with eachother but when all is said and done, my daughter ends up crying at the end. And it pisses me off, My daughter
should'nt be such a cry baby, and my husband, he's like a child, he knows that she will cry but he still persists...Then he gets mad at me, we argue and don't talk for like a day or two. Example:my husband put his arm around me, and my daughter wants to get in
the middle of us, and they play around laughing, pushing eachother cause they both want to be near me but what happens, she starts crying... My hsuband says i should put my foot down, but to who, my daughter or him.? i don't understand it. I feel hurt because i feel like i have to choose, i feel like yelling at both of them.....please help...

2007-01-11 09:03:11 · 8 answers · asked by DIAMANTE 1

My adult daughter has an attitude issue with me ever since my husband, her dad passed away 6 months ago, she has always been daddy's little girl, and no matter what I try to do or say things never measure up to what daddy would have done and our relationship just keeps getting strained more and more.
She lives 150 miles away from me and her brother, comes home maybe once a month, calls me when she feels like it or when she needs me to do something for her (which isn't a problem with me) The problem is the way she comes across to us with these things( sort of like the Till-of the-Hun) and if we make mention of her brassness she goes into the Drama-Trauma.(" I can't believe this...I've done so much for you and your treating me like this") and on and on she continues.
A few months ago I started dating someone, and she has a problem with this because she feels my husband hasn't been deceased long enough for me to start dating. We were married 25yrs and I just want to be happy again.

2007-01-11 08:42:48 · 6 answers · asked by "N"saysable 1iric 5

My mother left my step-dad, I have helped him get on SSI, Medicaid, Foodstamps, and AARP.

I am MORE than willing to help him out, but how do I tell him he calls to much on the phone? He calls several times a day, while I am working online on my business, and tells me lists of everything he needs my hubby to get him. lol

I find it rather irritating, though I DO love him.

What is a NICE way to tell him to make a list, then call me ONE time about it.

Thanks In Advance

2007-01-11 08:37:09 · 4 answers · asked by Jewel 3

the other day my brother and i got in some trouble well anyway we both got sent to our room. my brother is only 9 and when my dad got home i heard through the wall that my brother was getting spanked.

about 10 minutes later my dad came in and told me that i am getting spanked too. i tried to get out of there but he spanked me like i was 9. i'm 14 and too big for this. he even did it on my bare butt. how do i tell my parents i am too big for this.

2007-01-11 08:31:41 · 19 answers · asked by sidney m 1