Family - January 2007

2007-01-11 21:55:14 · 23 answers · asked by poke 1

He hated his ex, he said he is going b/c of his 2 sons who is in their 40's,always told me he will spit on his ex wifes grave if she ever died.I was also married B4, he won't let me go to my ex's funeral, he says I am jealous, I'm not, I'm mad. His sons never bother with him for alot of yrs.If Someone can help me out, his sons talks bad about there father, also he raised his sons since they were 3 yrs old, ex didn't want nothing to do with them until they were in there late 20's.Am I wrong for feeling this way, or Should I just let it go and say nothing, and just go with him?

2007-01-11 21:24:34 · 29 answers · asked by Tigerette S 2

im just wondering ?x

2007-01-11 21:20:25 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last 2 holidays at my mother in-laws house, my bother in-law's wife has made comments to my 10 year old daughter about being tall and skinny. On Easter, she was pregnant so I didn't want to show my redneck side! She told my little nephew to give my daughter a hug because she was alittle boney and during Thanksgiving she started to tell my daughter bye and told her to come give her a hug, skinny-mini. My husband did hear her the 2nd time she made comment. He's promised to say something in the future, not! My mother in-law has bad nerves, drinks wine at dinner to calm down and can't handle conflict so I didn't want to start WWIII. I've had enough! You'd think a woman that has stated that she's a strong woman, well educated wouldn't treat a child this way. I'd appreciate any good come backs. My daughter has self-esteem issues and doesn't need this from her aunt. The ole' folks would say that she acts like," Aster on a stick:. What does that mean?

2007-01-11 21:15:54 · 7 answers · asked by anjoek5859 3

being looked for, what would you do if you knew where he was? He's got a drug problem, but outside of that, he's always been a pretty good kid. Really had no upbringing or any parents to show him any love or guidance. He's always looked down on himself, when he is a good person but making bad decisions in his young life. How would you handle a situation like that?

2007-01-11 21:14:10 · 5 answers · asked by Wutz it worth 2 ya? 6

My husband always help his family financially and especially his sister even he knows she shopping a lot. Whatever he gives to me he would gives his sis. the same or even extra. He wants to get me the handbag, of course he gets her one. She used to ask him money and ask him to buy this or that for his family members.We live wit his family.I understand that he loves his family but what about my daughter and I. could it be over the limit? He paid 80% of her bedroom set and yesterday he asked for my help when we bought the our bedroom set.
thanks

2007-01-11 21:05:16 · 5 answers · asked by Lilly 1

shes my only child.....im a single parent.....i started letting her have a bf when she turned 15....now its as if there's nothing else impoortnat 2 her....not family, not friends, not school...nothing.....i was her age once and i no how it is 2 b 16 and think ur n love.....but man, its 2 much...i try 2 talk 2 her about it and of course she dont talk crazy 2 me cause she no's better, but its like everything i say goes n 1 ear and out the other.......any good advice out there?

2007-01-11 20:39:14 · 13 answers · asked by lilbit 1

My mother in law has admitted to me that she is jealous of me because I stole her son. She is very rude to my sister in law for the same reason. She immediately commented on her weight gain after the birth of her child and told her to hide her thighs. When my sister in law bought a nice blouse too look good for her hubby she daid are you not too fat for something nice like that. She is very rude to me a lot of the time as well. She is bossy and would prefer if I left her alone with my husband and my child. She told me to take my dog of 13 years to the humane society to be gassed when he had diabetes. She knows I love the dog...She also laughs all the time because my daughter looks more like my husband and she tells me that my daughter will love him more and may reject me because I am not Jewish. sometimes she is nice but all the bad makes it harder and harder to see. Am I wrong to not want to see this woman ?.

2007-01-11 20:30:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 22 years old ( I will be 23 in June) and I still live at home with my folks. My friend got mad at me today and we had an argument. Then she trashed at me and called me a loser because I still live at home with them and haven't started a life of my own at my age and it really made me think and wonder if I'm too old to live with my parents? I never thought of it badly before because I still feel so young, but now that my friend said that and she does live on her own with her husband and she is only a month older than me, it definitely makes me feel bad. Please answer honestly.

2007-01-11 20:23:22 · 18 answers · asked by Mary R 1

most of the times when my husband wants to make love, he was just lying on the bed and told me to do wat he wanted. It's hard for us to have a conversation. We live with his family, no privacy but he wouldn't move out bcause he wants to help his family. They keep telling what to do wit my family, everything. His family , espesically his sis., she even brings her bf to our bedroom to play wit my 4 months daughter. I just moved back to his place (south california) from my mother in north california. Too much stress, if I tell him I want to move out he'll be mad again. I told him lots of times but didn't work. I moved back to his place bcause of my daughter and him. I can't stand seeing them apart.
thank u

2007-01-11 20:20:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

How have these arrangements worked for you ?
Where they the best choice ? or the only choice ?.
.Have you made them yet ?

We want to remain independent as long as we can.
Neither of us want to burden our grown children.
But the time will come when we don't have each other any more.
We have a modest 3 bedroom 1 story home.
We are 77 and 81 this year ~~~ mobil but slow..
Already we can't keep up with the house & housework like we once did. Back will start hurting and so on & so forth.

We would just like to hear your plans and thoughts on what you might have in mind for yourself ??? Thank you for sharing this important information with us. The clock is ticking !!!.

2007-01-11 20:15:53 · 6 answers · asked by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7

What should I do? I feel like my sister just comes when she needs something. we fell out because her husband was always saying sexy things to me, i felt uncomfortable. Also, he tries to tell everyone around him what to do. he tried to charge me for storing some things at their place, but they had actually kept them and sold them. it's the only time i've ever said 'enough is enough' she came back home though, because she broke up with him, i ended up caring for their baby 24/7, putting him to sleep, feeding him, everything and she said i could do this full-time while she worked and we could get a place together. so i'd be paying half the rent, and looking after her baby full-time. she ends up going back to her husband, the next time she stays i dont get to see the baby, hold him or anything. anytime we go anywhere she wants me to pay. even for baby food. he husband wont 'let' her have an overdraft so she keeps borrowing £1000's from my mum.

2007-01-11 20:02:05 · 4 answers · asked by maria h 1

I'm going to be visiting my cousin in the future, which I'm dreading. She's very outspoken and can come out with hurtful comments. I have never been in her company where she has never said something to offend. For instance, the last time she saw me she said, "You've a figure at long last" in front of about 25 people! I've always had a problem with being underweight and yes, I did put on some much needed weight, but she always seems to beat me to it. I can never beat her to it, she's always there first when it comes to cutting remarks and I'm left feeling terrible. How do I cope with her? She's 40. She seems to feel the need to contradict everything.

2007-01-11 19:49:04 · 13 answers · asked by Say It Like You Mean It 4

Sigh... At the moment I'm not going on so well with my mother. For reasons to complicated to explain, my mom has banned me from many of my sports, such as LifeSaving and Swimming. She has kicked out one of my other sisters and has attempted the same with me and another of my siblings. She only seems to do this when she gets on the red wine. She is as stubborn as a mule and I don't know how to talk to her anymore. She called me a coward and I blew up at her. What do I do?

2007-01-11 19:20:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

prefibabily in australia and whats it like?

2007-01-11 19:16:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-11 18:16:26 · 7 answers · asked by jade l 2

and not in the normal way that a 15 year old girl hates there parents, butting in, not letting you have a life. my dad always talks down to me, and he doesnt care if i do something good, but if i do something bad its this huge deal. and he treats my 12 year old like hes a little kid, and hes not, so my brother just learned withing the last year how to make a sandwich....pathetic, but not his fault. my little brother is his little baby, my older brother, is well, the oldest, and im nothing!!

2007-01-11 18:09:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

when in truth, there's nothing about her that could pass the quality test of being good...what do you call this syndrome?

2007-01-11 17:35:21 · 19 answers · asked by fiel j 1

he pays 100%of his attention on my mistakes, 0% on my accomplishments. almost like he hopes i fail so he has a reason to hate me, i think he would be happier if i were dead.

2007-01-11 17:11:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Mom Is always saying mean things about guys, she tells me that whenever I find a boyfriend, she Is going to feel sorry for me because he Is going to become abusive just like my father and she told me that all guys are abusive, she Is giving me the feeling to never fall In love and she Is wrong. my mom treats me bad, tries to live my life, I have to ask her for her permission to do everything, and I am 23 years old. I want to go to church too but I can't because of my Mom, she Isn't religious and she doesn't care about It, but I DO! I want God to know that I love him. my Mom Is wrong she should be thankful that God blesses her with more days to live but she Isn't thankful. I have no friends, my mom won't let me have any. Is this the way I am going to live year after year? I wish my Mom wasn't like this. I remember when I was about 5 years old. she even wished that I was dead. she Is a mean Mom and always yelling and swearing to me for no reason. please help me. she Is never happy 4me

2007-01-11 17:07:38 · 22 answers · asked by Skatergirl1107 1

My Aunt and her family watch my 17 month old two days a week at no charge (she wont accept my money anyway LOL). She and the kids are all wonderful with my daughter, and even went to old Navy and bought clothes for my little one (well she exchanged a few things and used the store credit she received to buy the outfits, they were having a sale), I think it's wonderful how gracious they are. What can I do to show my grattitude and love??

2007-01-11 16:36:11 · 6 answers · asked by Easter Bunny 4

2007-01-11 16:16:40 · 9 answers · asked by samy28 2

2007-01-11 16:05:03 · 5 answers · asked by Julio Cesar C 2

ok, so this is the most i've ever poured my heart out on yahoo answers.

my mom today told me the most deep, most incredibly hurtful things you could possibly tell me - and this isnt irregular either - but then for the first time in a while apologized & told me she's been doing this for some reason for my entire life.

then when i brought it up tonite infront of my dad, she denied all of it and then even sweared on the bible to say that she never said it.
So I immediately said f*** you, because honestly guys, that's how I feel.

this is my mom! people, you dont even know what its like to have the person that is supposed to love you the most tell you something she wouldn't even tell her worst enemy.

What would you have done?

2007-01-11 16:00:17 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 14, a year ago my relationship with my parents was destroyed. I made some mistakes, they were too harsh, I got extremely resentful. Today they say they are proud of me, love me and for months have been trying, unsuccessfully, to get me back. Now they came up w/ therapy. I'm sure it won't work, but anyway what can I expect from it?

2007-01-11 15:59:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would like to give my sister all legal rights to my children, I have just found out that I have 6-9 months to live and cant afford an attorney, How can I make sure that my sister will get custody of my children and they wont go to the goverment, I have no other family left. Please help

2007-01-11 15:48:24 · 23 answers · asked by Zog 1

My son is 4 he is a great boy my husband and I have raised him with respect but every time he gets around my sisters 6 year old girl he takes on her nasty sassy attitude then is almost uncontroble for days. I cant keep him away from her because they live with my mother if we want to see grandma we have to see her too. How do I teach him how to act properly like he used to and not act loike her?

2007-01-11 15:47:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many women out there feel like you can take the boy from the momma but you can not take the momma out of the boy? I am married and I feel as if anytime my husbands mom calls and wants him to do anything or go anywhere he is like a lost puppy dog. I have a family and they totaly respect me and my family they never tell me what to do or when to do it. They ask if I would like to go or if it would be okay for them to come stay and check the dates out with me. We live 12 hours apart from our families. When we go to visit his family always has our entire vacation planned out. We now end up going seperate ways when we go visit because I totally do not allow this to happen. what do you do ?

2007-01-11 15:28:10 · 6 answers · asked by Sassy 3

I'm a successful woman with 3 beautiful kids and several failed relationships. I've always felt like my soul has just been lacking something and I've never figured out what it could be. I've never met my father and I'm beginning to wonder if I'm just searching for him and his acceptance in my relationships, friendships... And that I just end up pushing people away for fear of getting too close. I don't know much about him, not even sure how to go about looking for him or if I could find him on what little I know. Would you look?

2007-01-11 15:24:56 · 3 answers · asked by girlysledgirl 3

he is so0o wonderful, he makes me smile, always knows the right things to say, he is funny , and though we dont agree on somethings we always get along

2007-01-11 15:18:57 · 6 answers · asked by shorty 1