i live with my bf of 4yrs in a condo we rent. we split the household bills 50/50 and anytime we go out movies,diner ect we take turns paying.i work full time and so does he but i only work 4 days a week to his 5 days.the problem is he feels i should do the cleaning,grocery shopping,pay the bills,errands all on my day off.i don't feel this is fair since we split everything else we should split the house work.he always makes me feel guilty/lazy when i ask him to help with stuff and says things like why don't u do that on your day off.don't get me wrong he does help but not on a regular basis.i do all the laundry,bill paying,80% grocery shopping,cooking,and cleaning.most of the time when i ask him to do something he agrees but never gets around to do it,then after a few days of me nagging we get into a fight over it and he does it pissed off.or i just do it.so can anyone tell me what they do if they both work and each pay half of the bills?is this always the womens job even if she works?
2007-01-12
09:53:23
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