I'm going through a lot I'm getting ready for my 5th surgery I'm in a lot of pain. My best friend isn't making things better last month when i had one of my surgery she was suppose to be their but she wasn't she was with her boyfriend she didn't even call me the whole time i was there. So anyway the other day we were suppose to do something together and when i called her to see what time we were going she didn't answer. A few days later she said she was sick i told she should have at least called and she got mad and said i'm just mad cause she didn't go. She's making me more stressed what should i do?
2007-01-12 08:54:10 · 4 answers · asked by Jojo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This person is not your friend. Concentrate on getting you better, not other people and their drama. Seek the advice of your physican.
2007-01-12 08:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry about your situation. but shouldn't you be more focus on your operation rather than stress over your so called "best friend"...?
i know that when we are in that kind of situation we like to get as many attention as we could. especially from people who are close to us. but at the end of the day it is you who are going thru all the pain not them. although for having them around would take some of the pain away but you still the one who suffer not them. the best they can do is to comfort you with all the talking. yet it is you who determine the result of the operation.
so focus only on your opreation until you've done all of the procedure that need to be done for your recovery. once you finish with it then take time to recover, until then try not to think about who is coming who is not. only when you completely recover then you think back what have you gone thru and who has been there to help you go thru it.
in the time like this...it's the best test to see whether they are your best friend or not. you can practically pick anyone on the street and call them your best friend when you are in a good condition but you can not do it when you are sick. so whoever stand beside you thru thin and thick then they are the friend that you can say the best...!
2007-01-12 09:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by daniiisme!!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she's really not your friend. If she were, she would have been there for you no matter what. I say that you need to leave her alone and worry about yourself! Get better and then, if you want to, worry about her. Your first concern should be getting yourself better!! Good luck with your surgery. I hope everything works out for the best!!
2007-01-12 09:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by ssmomma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a better friend and he is Jesus. He can also heal you, Infact He has already taken all your disease you only need to believe. Donot let your friend's action hurt you, realise she is only human and she can fail but Jesus cannot fail you. Go to benny hinn's ministry and get your healing as well as your salvation, then come and preach the good news to your friend and win her back. God bless. Love you.
2007-01-12 10:27:24 · answer #4 · answered by jenik 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋